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Hire the top 3% of freelance talent
Improving as a Speaker
Guilherme Motta, Freelance Agile Project Manager @ Toptal
Confidential | 2
When you can..
Bring food!
Confidential | 3
Never use someone’s image without
permission!!!
https://www.thispersondoesnotexist.com/
Confidential | 4
Let’s start with WHY
● Fuel for Learning
● Validate what I was learning
● Share experiences
● Meet new people
● Meet new places
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qp0HIF3SfI4
Confidential | 5
Let’s start with WHY
● Fuel for Learning
● Validate what I was learning
● Share experiences
● Meet new people
● Meet new places
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qp0HIF3SfI4
Confidential | 6
Let’s start with WHY
● Fuel for Learning
● Validate what I was learning
● Share experiences
● Meet new people
● Meet new places
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qp0HIF3SfI4
Confidential | 7
“mmm”
“ãããããã”
“então”
“ai,”
...
“um”
“uh”
“well,”
“so,”
“you know,”
“er,”
Confidential | 8
Have a GOAL
“When you don’t know where you are
going, any road will take you there”
● Become a better professional
● On each session/lecture/workshop/talk
my goal is to teach one new thing to
one person in the room
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L4N1q4RNi9I
Confidential | 9
During talks..
Focus on your goal and forget about
your speaking performance..
Let the feedback determine how well
you did
Image
Confidential | 11
During talks..
Try to be gender neutral in your speech
Confidential | 12
Know your audience!
But before that..
Confidential | 13
img
Get to know yourself
(at least when it comes to speaking..)
● Identify your style…
○ Do you like improv?
○ Do you like to have a detailed
plan to follow?
● Solo? Pair?
● Slides are not my priority
Confidential | 14
If you are into Improv..
Tools to know your audience and guide
your presentation:
https://kahoot.com/
https://www.mentimeter.com/
Confidential | 15
img
Get to know yourself
(at least when it comes to speaking..)
● Identify your style…
○ Do you like improv?
○ Do you like to have a detailed
plan to follow?
● Solo? Pair?
● Slides are not my priority
Confidential | 16
img
Get to know yourself
(at least when it comes to speaking..)
● Myer Briggs
○ INTJ
■ Introvert
■ iNtuitive
■ Thinker
■ Judger
https://www.16personalities.com/free-
personality-test
Confidential | 17
img
Get to know yourself
(at least when it comes to speaking..)
● Myer Briggs
○ INTJ
■ Introvert
■ iNtuitive
■ Thinker
■ Judger
https://www.16personalities.com/free-
personality-test
UPP: Understanding Personal Potential
Confidential | 18
img
Get to know yourself
(at least when it comes to speaking..)
● Myer Briggs
○ INTJ
■ Introvert
■ iNtuitive
■ Thinker
■ Judger
https://www.16personalities.com/free-
personality-test
UPP: Understanding Personal Potential
Confidential | 19
img
Get to know yourself
(at least when it comes to speaking..)
● Solo? Pair?
Confidential | 20
Be careful!
Cool gifs and images are so distracting
that sometimes the audience engage
with the laughter and forget about the
content!
Confidential | 21
During talks..
Use metaphors
Confidential | 22
img
Get to know yourself
(at least when it comes to speaking..)
● Solo? Pair?
Confidential | 23
img
Get to know yourself
(at least when it comes to speaking..)
● Solo? Pair?
Confidential | 24
img
Quality > Quantity
● Find a safe conference/meetup
(place) to train, learn and improve
● 33 talks in one conference - 6 years
● 5 talks in 4 days
Confidential | 25
Engage with (IT)
Communities
● Look for opportunities to help
reviewing proposals, organize the
conference, act as volunteer during
the conference, etc.. by giving your
time people will notice your
contributions and may generate you
with future speaking opportunities
Confidential | 26
The 5F framework (Norman Cook,
Fatboyslim)
● Food
● Friend
● Fun
● Finance
● First
Confidential | 27
The 5F framework (Norman Cook, Fatboyslim)
● Food
● Friend
● Fun
● Finance
● First
Selecting conferences to speak...
Confidential | 28
Be (more) open to learn from any source
Confidential | 29
Watch carefully how other speakers
present..
Good speakers will help you do more often what you
already do well
Bad speakers will help you to reflect if you are doing
the same
Confidential | 30
Ask for feedback, but diversify the
source!
“It’s good” - is not enough..
Confidential | 31
Get your own feedback:
(Eat your own dog food)
● Record yourself with video and watch
● Record only your audio and listen to yourself
Confidential | 32
If applicable, end your talk with a call to
action..
What will participants take from your
session to their own context..
Confidential | 33
What will you take away from this talk?
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[Toptal leadership summit] improving as a speaker

  • 1. Hire the top 3% of freelance talent Improving as a Speaker Guilherme Motta, Freelance Agile Project Manager @ Toptal
  • 2. Confidential | 2 When you can.. Bring food!
  • 3. Confidential | 3 Never use someone’s image without permission!!! https://www.thispersondoesnotexist.com/
  • 4. Confidential | 4 Let’s start with WHY ● Fuel for Learning ● Validate what I was learning ● Share experiences ● Meet new people ● Meet new places https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qp0HIF3SfI4
  • 5. Confidential | 5 Let’s start with WHY ● Fuel for Learning ● Validate what I was learning ● Share experiences ● Meet new people ● Meet new places https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qp0HIF3SfI4
  • 6. Confidential | 6 Let’s start with WHY ● Fuel for Learning ● Validate what I was learning ● Share experiences ● Meet new people ● Meet new places https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qp0HIF3SfI4
  • 8. Confidential | 8 Have a GOAL “When you don’t know where you are going, any road will take you there” ● Become a better professional ● On each session/lecture/workshop/talk my goal is to teach one new thing to one person in the room https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L4N1q4RNi9I
  • 9. Confidential | 9 During talks.. Focus on your goal and forget about your speaking performance.. Let the feedback determine how well you did
  • 10. Image
  • 11. Confidential | 11 During talks.. Try to be gender neutral in your speech
  • 12. Confidential | 12 Know your audience! But before that..
  • 13. Confidential | 13 img Get to know yourself (at least when it comes to speaking..) ● Identify your style… ○ Do you like improv? ○ Do you like to have a detailed plan to follow? ● Solo? Pair? ● Slides are not my priority
  • 14. Confidential | 14 If you are into Improv.. Tools to know your audience and guide your presentation: https://kahoot.com/ https://www.mentimeter.com/
  • 15. Confidential | 15 img Get to know yourself (at least when it comes to speaking..) ● Identify your style… ○ Do you like improv? ○ Do you like to have a detailed plan to follow? ● Solo? Pair? ● Slides are not my priority
  • 16. Confidential | 16 img Get to know yourself (at least when it comes to speaking..) ● Myer Briggs ○ INTJ ■ Introvert ■ iNtuitive ■ Thinker ■ Judger https://www.16personalities.com/free- personality-test
  • 17. Confidential | 17 img Get to know yourself (at least when it comes to speaking..) ● Myer Briggs ○ INTJ ■ Introvert ■ iNtuitive ■ Thinker ■ Judger https://www.16personalities.com/free- personality-test UPP: Understanding Personal Potential
  • 18. Confidential | 18 img Get to know yourself (at least when it comes to speaking..) ● Myer Briggs ○ INTJ ■ Introvert ■ iNtuitive ■ Thinker ■ Judger https://www.16personalities.com/free- personality-test UPP: Understanding Personal Potential
  • 19. Confidential | 19 img Get to know yourself (at least when it comes to speaking..) ● Solo? Pair?
  • 20. Confidential | 20 Be careful! Cool gifs and images are so distracting that sometimes the audience engage with the laughter and forget about the content!
  • 21. Confidential | 21 During talks.. Use metaphors
  • 22. Confidential | 22 img Get to know yourself (at least when it comes to speaking..) ● Solo? Pair?
  • 23. Confidential | 23 img Get to know yourself (at least when it comes to speaking..) ● Solo? Pair?
  • 24. Confidential | 24 img Quality > Quantity ● Find a safe conference/meetup (place) to train, learn and improve ● 33 talks in one conference - 6 years ● 5 talks in 4 days
  • 25. Confidential | 25 Engage with (IT) Communities ● Look for opportunities to help reviewing proposals, organize the conference, act as volunteer during the conference, etc.. by giving your time people will notice your contributions and may generate you with future speaking opportunities
  • 26. Confidential | 26 The 5F framework (Norman Cook, Fatboyslim) ● Food ● Friend ● Fun ● Finance ● First
  • 27. Confidential | 27 The 5F framework (Norman Cook, Fatboyslim) ● Food ● Friend ● Fun ● Finance ● First Selecting conferences to speak...
  • 28. Confidential | 28 Be (more) open to learn from any source
  • 29. Confidential | 29 Watch carefully how other speakers present.. Good speakers will help you do more often what you already do well Bad speakers will help you to reflect if you are doing the same
  • 30. Confidential | 30 Ask for feedback, but diversify the source! “It’s good” - is not enough..
  • 31. Confidential | 31 Get your own feedback: (Eat your own dog food) ● Record yourself with video and watch ● Record only your audio and listen to yourself
  • 32. Confidential | 32 If applicable, end your talk with a call to action.. What will participants take from your session to their own context..
  • 33. Confidential | 33 What will you take away from this talk?

Notas do Editor

  1. When you have no goal, anything, everything or nothing is just fine…
  2. Create your own way to evaluate speaking opportunities, when starting any opportunity may be a good one