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Managing conflict:
Recognising it
Dealing with it
Preventing it
GIZ teambuilding retreat
ILRI Ethiopia, ?? January 2017
Ewen Le Borgne
Overview
1. Recognising conflict
2. Understanding it (causes/consequences)
3. Managing conflict
4. Preventing dysfunctional conflict(s)
1. Recognising conflict
What is conflict?
“Real or perceived threat or
opposition to one’s needs, interests,
principles, concerns or security”
Conflict: a fact of life… for the better?
Levels of conflict?
Intrapersonal
Interpersonal
Inter-group conflict
Observable ‘conflict behaviours’
Observable ‘conflict behaviours’
A. Passive
(avoidance)
Observable ‘conflict behaviours’
A. Passive
(avoidance)
Says yes to
anything
Hides behind
rules
Is self-centered
Observable ‘conflict behaviours’
Observable ‘conflict behaviours’
B. Repressive
(escapism)
Observable ‘conflict behaviours’
B. Repressive
(escapism)
Displays low
health
Is irritable
Shows irregular
productivity
Observable ‘conflict behaviours’
Observable ‘conflict behaviours’
C. Aggressive
Observable ‘conflict behaviours’
C. Aggressive
Has angry fits
Is non
cooperative
Spreads
rumours
Destroys,
steals, strikes
etc.
Makes
snarky/snappy
comments
2. Understanding conflict
The multiple causes of conflict
Causes of intrapersonal conflict
Competing needs
Barriers between
drive and goal
Role conflict
Competing goals
Frustration
Causes of interpersonal conflict
Competing over
resources
Misunderstanding
Personality clashes
Authority issues
Difference of
methods / styles
(Visible) low
performance
Value/goal
difference
Causes of group conflict (Us vs. Them)
Competing over
resources
Task
interdependence
Jurisdictional
ambiguity
Status struggle
Frameworks to understand
the sources of conflict (i)
We have different personality types!
Frameworks to understand
the sources of conflict (ii)
We don’t
all know
the same
things!
‘Bad’ and ‘Good’ conflict
Finding a balance…
…between stagnation
and war
Bad / dysfunctional / destructive
conflict
Dictates
conformity
Prevents work
Hurts feelings
Destroys
trust
Becomes
personal
Good / functional / constructive
conflict
Curbs ‘group think’
Leads to growth
Releases stress/anxiety
Leads to group cohesion
3. Managing conflict
Pacing conflict management
Identify quickly
Pacing conflict management
Identify quickly
Analyse the
causes
Pacing conflict management
Identify quickly
Analyse the
causes
Respond as
quickly as
possible
Pacing conflict management
Identify quickly
Analyse the
causes
Respond as
quickly as
possible
Don’t let
it spiral
down!
Processing conflict management
.
Possible conflict outcomes…
I want you to…
I want to
WIN-WIN LOSE-WIN
WIN-LOSE LOSE-LOSE
WIN LOSE
WIN
LOSE
Five options to manage conflicts
WIN-WIN – Our way LOSE-WIN – Your way
WIN-LOSE – My way LOSE-LOSE – No way
Accommodating
Compromising
(split the difference)
Collaborating
AvoidingCompeting
UncooperativeCooperative
Assertive Unassertive
How to choose the right option?
It depends…
On the
importance of
the issue
On the urgency
of the issue
On the
relationships at
stake
When to opt for which strategy?
When to opt for which strategy?
When to opt for which strategy?
When to opt for which strategy?
When to opt for which strategy?
Avoiding is
never a good
idea…
Adopt the right mindset
Think
‘abundance’
Adopt the right mindset
Not ‘scarcity’
Think
‘abundance’
Adopt the right mindset
Think
‘abundance’
not ‘scarcity’Think ‘our
mutual
benefit’…
Adopt the right mindset
Think
‘abundance’
not ‘scarcity’Think ‘our
mutual
benefit’…
...not ‘me,
myself and I’
And when the pressure rises…
And when the pressure rises…
And when the pressure rises…
And when the pressure rises…
And when the pressure rises…
Acknowledge the feelings…
Only then deal with facts
When the pressure rises…
...and in any case
Listen!
Carefully!!
All the time!!!
4. Preventing dysfunctional conflict
Be the change you want to see
Role model behaviour!
Be the change WE want to see
Build good relationships
Be self aware
Know your ‘triggers’
Mind your tone
Be self aware
Know your ‘triggers’
Mind your tone
Self reflect
Always think WIN-WIN

Always think WIN-WIN
Be assertive
Always think WIN-WIN


Be assertive
And cooperative
Be there for the others
Listen carefully Give useful feedback
Be there for the others
Listen carefully
Understand ‘WIIFM’
Give useful feedback
Cherish collective values
.
Commitment to
communication
Shared
accountability
Trust and
transparency
Curiosity and
openness to
differences
Break the conflict loop!
Additional resources
• Various conflict management presentations:
• http://www.slideshare.net/shidan99/conflict-management-365254
• http://www.slideshare.net/KrishnaKanth12/conflict-resolution-26173860
• http://www.slideshare.net/bhaskardiwakar/conflict-management-11475906?qid=46a5ce59-f8fd-
440d-8d19-512df960abda&v=&b=&from_search=3
• http://www.slideshare.net/ShipraSharma5/ppt-conflict-management?next_slideshow=2
• http://www.slideshare.net/gauravgolu/conflict-management-10794674
• http://www.slideshare.net/maysoonmaged/conflict-resolution-strategies/6-
Extent_to_which_the_individual
• http://www.slideshare.net/ARVisInstitute/conflict-management-in-the-workplace-
11949427?next_slideshow=1
• 5 keys to dealing with workplace conflict
Photo credits (Creative Commons)
1. Slide 1:
1. Us versus them, point of conflict (John
D)
2. Hands: image credit: DN Nation
3. Handshake (AK Rockfeller)
4. Ubuntu spirit (look.for)
2. Slide 2: Same pictures
3. Us versus them, point of conflict (John D)
4. N/A
5. Levels (Hamilton Robotics) / (Beware!) Quick
and dirty tips
6. Bored (Tim Lenz)
7. Lunchtime escapism (Rachel Doherty)
8. Angry Stina (Stina Jonsson)
9. Hands: image credit: DN Nation
10. http://www.slideshare.net/ARVisInstitute/conf
lict-management-in-the-workplace-
11949427?qid=22be0095-628a-4310-8c8b-
d37688b17e0d&v=&b=&from_search=6
11. Concern (Michael Gaffney)
12. Argument (Holly)
13. Us vs. them (Sage Ross)
14. http://www.slideshare.net/bhaskardiwakar/co
nflict-management-11475906?qid=22be0095-
628a-4310-8c8b-
d37688b17e0d&v=&b=&from_search=3
15. Presentation abc
16. Balance (Art around)
17. This year’s love (hand nor glove)
18. Spring seminar 09 (Seeds of peace)
19. Handshake (AK Rockfeller)
20. Spiral (Dan Ishaslam)
21. http://www.slideshare.net/ARVisInstitute/conf
lict-management-in-the-workplace-
11949427?qid=22be0095-628a-4310-8c8b-
d37688b17e0d&v=&b=&from_search=6
22. http://www.slideshare.net/bhaskardiwakar/co
nflict-management-11475906?qid=46a5ce59-
f8fd-440d-8d19-
512df960abda&v=&b=&from_search=3
23. http://www.slideshare.net/ARVisInstitute/conf
lict-management-in-the-workplace-
11949427?qid=22be0095-628a-4310-8c8b-
d37688b17e0d&v=&b=&from_search=6
24. N/A
25. N/A
26. (hidden slide)
http://www.slideshare.net/bhaskardiwakar/co
nflict-management-11475906?qid=46a5ce59-
f8fd-440d-8d19-
512df960abda&v=&b=&from_search=3
27. Crossroads (Filipe Saraiva)
28. http://www.slideshare.net/bhaskardiwakar/co
nflict-management-11475906?qid=46a5ce59-
f8fd-440d-8d19-
512df960abda&v=&b=&from_search=3
29. http://www.slideshare.net/bhaskardiwakar/co
nflict-management-11475906?qid=46a5ce59-
f8fd-440d-8d19-
512df960abda&v=&b=&from_search=3
30. http://www.slideshare.net/bhaskardiwakar/co
nflict-management-11475906?qid=46a5ce59-
f8fd-440d-8d19-
512df960abda&v=&b=&from_search=3
31. http://www.slideshare.net/bhaskardiwakar/co
nflict-management-11475906?qid=46a5ce59-
f8fd-440d-8d19-
512df960abda&v=&b=&from_search=3
32. I can’t see you (Peter)
33. Apple pie (Penny Dugmore)
34. United women (Marc Pether Longman)
35.
1. Furious (Petras Gagilas)
2. Crying (Redronafets
3. Crying woman (Vinod Velayudhan)
4. Gobsmacked (Bernard Goldbach)
36. Listen carefully (Justin Lynham)
37. Ubuntu spirit (look.for)
38. Gandhi walks (Rafael Edwards)
39. What we have done (BK)
40. Meditation (Hartwig HKD)
41. Synergy (Crash symbols)
42. Life preserver (Wayne S. Grazio)
43. We must change (Demond Henderson)
44. Stop (TheMathewKnot)
45. http://www.slideshare.net/gauravgolu/conflict
-management-10794674?qid=22be0095-628a-
4310-8c8b-
d37688b17e0d&v=&b=&from_search=9
46. Thank you (Kristjan)
47. N/A (additional resources)
48. N/A (photo credits)
49. (hidden slide)
http://www.slideshare.net/bhaskardiwakar/co
nflict-management-11475906?qid=46a5ce59-
f8fd-440d-8d19-
512df960abda&v=&b=&from_search=3
50. N/A
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Giz team building retreat conflict management

  • 1. Managing conflict: Recognising it Dealing with it Preventing it GIZ teambuilding retreat ILRI Ethiopia, ?? January 2017 Ewen Le Borgne
  • 2. Overview 1. Recognising conflict 2. Understanding it (causes/consequences) 3. Managing conflict 4. Preventing dysfunctional conflict(s)
  • 4. What is conflict? “Real or perceived threat or opposition to one’s needs, interests, principles, concerns or security” Conflict: a fact of life… for the better?
  • 8. Observable ‘conflict behaviours’ A. Passive (avoidance) Says yes to anything Hides behind rules Is self-centered
  • 11. Observable ‘conflict behaviours’ B. Repressive (escapism) Displays low health Is irritable Shows irregular productivity
  • 14. Observable ‘conflict behaviours’ C. Aggressive Has angry fits Is non cooperative Spreads rumours Destroys, steals, strikes etc. Makes snarky/snappy comments
  • 16. The multiple causes of conflict
  • 17. Causes of intrapersonal conflict Competing needs Barriers between drive and goal Role conflict Competing goals Frustration
  • 18. Causes of interpersonal conflict Competing over resources Misunderstanding Personality clashes Authority issues Difference of methods / styles (Visible) low performance Value/goal difference
  • 19. Causes of group conflict (Us vs. Them) Competing over resources Task interdependence Jurisdictional ambiguity Status struggle
  • 20. Frameworks to understand the sources of conflict (i) We have different personality types!
  • 21. Frameworks to understand the sources of conflict (ii) We don’t all know the same things!
  • 22. ‘Bad’ and ‘Good’ conflict Finding a balance… …between stagnation and war
  • 23. Bad / dysfunctional / destructive conflict Dictates conformity Prevents work Hurts feelings Destroys trust Becomes personal
  • 24. Good / functional / constructive conflict Curbs ‘group think’ Leads to growth Releases stress/anxiety Leads to group cohesion
  • 27. Pacing conflict management Identify quickly Analyse the causes
  • 28. Pacing conflict management Identify quickly Analyse the causes Respond as quickly as possible
  • 29. Pacing conflict management Identify quickly Analyse the causes Respond as quickly as possible Don’t let it spiral down!
  • 31.
  • 32.
  • 33. Possible conflict outcomes… I want you to… I want to WIN-WIN LOSE-WIN WIN-LOSE LOSE-LOSE WIN LOSE WIN LOSE
  • 34. Five options to manage conflicts WIN-WIN – Our way LOSE-WIN – Your way WIN-LOSE – My way LOSE-LOSE – No way Accommodating Compromising (split the difference) Collaborating AvoidingCompeting UncooperativeCooperative Assertive Unassertive
  • 35. How to choose the right option? It depends… On the importance of the issue On the urgency of the issue On the relationships at stake
  • 36. When to opt for which strategy?
  • 37. When to opt for which strategy?
  • 38. When to opt for which strategy?
  • 39. When to opt for which strategy?
  • 40. When to opt for which strategy? Avoiding is never a good idea…
  • 41. Adopt the right mindset Think ‘abundance’
  • 42. Adopt the right mindset Not ‘scarcity’ Think ‘abundance’
  • 43. Adopt the right mindset Think ‘abundance’ not ‘scarcity’Think ‘our mutual benefit’…
  • 44. Adopt the right mindset Think ‘abundance’ not ‘scarcity’Think ‘our mutual benefit’… ...not ‘me, myself and I’
  • 45. And when the pressure rises…
  • 46. And when the pressure rises…
  • 47. And when the pressure rises…
  • 48. And when the pressure rises…
  • 49. And when the pressure rises… Acknowledge the feelings… Only then deal with facts
  • 50. When the pressure rises… ...and in any case Listen! Carefully!! All the time!!!
  • 52. Be the change you want to see Role model behaviour!
  • 53. Be the change WE want to see Build good relationships
  • 54. Be self aware Know your ‘triggers’ Mind your tone
  • 55. Be self aware Know your ‘triggers’ Mind your tone Self reflect
  • 58. Always think WIN-WIN   Be assertive And cooperative
  • 59. Be there for the others Listen carefully Give useful feedback
  • 60. Be there for the others Listen carefully Understand ‘WIIFM’ Give useful feedback
  • 61. Cherish collective values . Commitment to communication Shared accountability Trust and transparency Curiosity and openness to differences
  • 63.
  • 64.
  • 65. Additional resources • Various conflict management presentations: • http://www.slideshare.net/shidan99/conflict-management-365254 • http://www.slideshare.net/KrishnaKanth12/conflict-resolution-26173860 • http://www.slideshare.net/bhaskardiwakar/conflict-management-11475906?qid=46a5ce59-f8fd- 440d-8d19-512df960abda&v=&b=&from_search=3 • http://www.slideshare.net/ShipraSharma5/ppt-conflict-management?next_slideshow=2 • http://www.slideshare.net/gauravgolu/conflict-management-10794674 • http://www.slideshare.net/maysoonmaged/conflict-resolution-strategies/6- Extent_to_which_the_individual • http://www.slideshare.net/ARVisInstitute/conflict-management-in-the-workplace- 11949427?next_slideshow=1 • 5 keys to dealing with workplace conflict
  • 66. Photo credits (Creative Commons) 1. Slide 1: 1. Us versus them, point of conflict (John D) 2. Hands: image credit: DN Nation 3. Handshake (AK Rockfeller) 4. Ubuntu spirit (look.for) 2. Slide 2: Same pictures 3. Us versus them, point of conflict (John D) 4. N/A 5. Levels (Hamilton Robotics) / (Beware!) Quick and dirty tips 6. Bored (Tim Lenz) 7. Lunchtime escapism (Rachel Doherty) 8. Angry Stina (Stina Jonsson) 9. Hands: image credit: DN Nation 10. http://www.slideshare.net/ARVisInstitute/conf lict-management-in-the-workplace- 11949427?qid=22be0095-628a-4310-8c8b- d37688b17e0d&v=&b=&from_search=6 11. Concern (Michael Gaffney) 12. Argument (Holly) 13. Us vs. them (Sage Ross) 14. http://www.slideshare.net/bhaskardiwakar/co nflict-management-11475906?qid=22be0095- 628a-4310-8c8b- d37688b17e0d&v=&b=&from_search=3 15. Presentation abc 16. Balance (Art around) 17. This year’s love (hand nor glove) 18. Spring seminar 09 (Seeds of peace) 19. Handshake (AK Rockfeller) 20. Spiral (Dan Ishaslam) 21. http://www.slideshare.net/ARVisInstitute/conf lict-management-in-the-workplace- 11949427?qid=22be0095-628a-4310-8c8b- d37688b17e0d&v=&b=&from_search=6 22. http://www.slideshare.net/bhaskardiwakar/co nflict-management-11475906?qid=46a5ce59- f8fd-440d-8d19- 512df960abda&v=&b=&from_search=3 23. http://www.slideshare.net/ARVisInstitute/conf lict-management-in-the-workplace- 11949427?qid=22be0095-628a-4310-8c8b- d37688b17e0d&v=&b=&from_search=6 24. N/A 25. N/A 26. (hidden slide) http://www.slideshare.net/bhaskardiwakar/co nflict-management-11475906?qid=46a5ce59- f8fd-440d-8d19- 512df960abda&v=&b=&from_search=3 27. Crossroads (Filipe Saraiva) 28. http://www.slideshare.net/bhaskardiwakar/co nflict-management-11475906?qid=46a5ce59- f8fd-440d-8d19- 512df960abda&v=&b=&from_search=3 29. http://www.slideshare.net/bhaskardiwakar/co nflict-management-11475906?qid=46a5ce59- f8fd-440d-8d19- 512df960abda&v=&b=&from_search=3 30. http://www.slideshare.net/bhaskardiwakar/co nflict-management-11475906?qid=46a5ce59- f8fd-440d-8d19- 512df960abda&v=&b=&from_search=3 31. http://www.slideshare.net/bhaskardiwakar/co nflict-management-11475906?qid=46a5ce59- f8fd-440d-8d19- 512df960abda&v=&b=&from_search=3 32. I can’t see you (Peter) 33. Apple pie (Penny Dugmore) 34. United women (Marc Pether Longman) 35. 1. Furious (Petras Gagilas) 2. Crying (Redronafets 3. Crying woman (Vinod Velayudhan) 4. Gobsmacked (Bernard Goldbach) 36. Listen carefully (Justin Lynham) 37. Ubuntu spirit (look.for) 38. Gandhi walks (Rafael Edwards) 39. What we have done (BK) 40. Meditation (Hartwig HKD) 41. Synergy (Crash symbols) 42. Life preserver (Wayne S. Grazio) 43. We must change (Demond Henderson) 44. Stop (TheMathewKnot) 45. http://www.slideshare.net/gauravgolu/conflict -management-10794674?qid=22be0095-628a- 4310-8c8b- d37688b17e0d&v=&b=&from_search=9 46. Thank you (Kristjan) 47. N/A (additional resources) 48. N/A (photo credits) 49. (hidden slide) http://www.slideshare.net/bhaskardiwakar/co nflict-management-11475906?qid=46a5ce59- f8fd-440d-8d19- 512df960abda&v=&b=&from_search=3 50. N/A
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