My keynote at this weekend. Movies: Alan Watts Choice https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D7CH9cRN8Rg Alan Watts Live Fully now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HdqVF7-8wng Charles Eisenstein https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CR4GXN9B_Lc

1. Take away the fear and put in love,
and everything else will work out by itself
Pieter Spinder

5. How I work and do things

6. Take it from here with the given facts

7. “If you love something, give it away”.

8. Happy people take full ownership over their
lives and they rarely use excuses

9. Once recognized, perhaps the quiet
yet persistent voice of curiosity
doesn’t go away. Ever.
Perhaps such curiosity will hurt
until we come to understand the
beauty of a journey that might never
arrive at an absolute answer.
and perhaps it’s such curiosity
that will lead us to distinguish
our own greatness from the
mediocrity that stares us
in the face.
Seth Godin

11. www.cottonrape.com

14. In our life there are 3 givens:

15. Chaos

16. Change

17. Freedom

18. And the 4th, interconnected:

19. Responsibility

20. This morning is meant as an advice and giving a tool

22. Today: a possible tool for taking responsibility

23. Time for the assignment.

25. Procrastination:

26. What’s the project?

27. Please fill in:

28. Who is responsible for shipping it?

29. What are you afraid of?

30. What else? (the truth this time)

31. Why are you afraid?

32. Pick some edges.

33. Pick some more edges.

34. Who is your customer (who are you
trying to please?)

35. Who are the key influencers,
Gatekeepers and authorities?

36. Does anyone else matter?

37. Questions and ideas for the
devil’s advocate (things to say to slow
things down, average things out
or create panic and malaise)

38. Some more questions and ideas for the
devil’s advocate (things to say to slow
things down, average things out
or create panic and malaise)

40. Coffee break.

42. Who can stop this project?

43. Who else can stop this project?

44. Who is essential to our succes?

45. What does perfect look like?

46. What does good enough look like?

47. List every task and event that needs
to happen, by whom and by when
What is done by Who, When, What does it cost
and what do we earn?

48. Who becomes your competition?

49. What does failure look like?

50. Really? That’s it?

51. Plus it!

52. Minus it!

53. When was the last time you did
something for the first time?

55. Take a bow.

56. Smart Meetings Checklist

59. What is my level of awareness?

60. How do I show leadership?

61. Do I play the lead role in my own movie
(of my own life)?

62. “Change will be obtained if you:
... care more than others think is wise;
... risk more than others think is safe;
... dream more than others think
is practical;
... expect more than others think
is possible.”

64. Autobiografie in 5 chapters.
Portia Nelson.

65. 1.
I walk through a street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I fall in.
I am lost....I am desperate.
It is not my fault.
It takes forever to find a way out.

66. 2.
I walk through the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I pretend I do not see it.
I fall in again.
I do not believe I am in the same place.
But it is not my fault
It still takes a lot of time to get out.

67. 3.
I walk through the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I see it is there
I fall in again..... It is a habit.
My eyes are open.
I know where I am.
It is my own fault
I climb out very fast.

68. 4.
I walk through the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I walk around it.

69. 5.
I walk through a different street.

70. Good luck and have a great time!

71.
@pieterspinder
Haarlem, 26th June 2016.