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Speak the Language of Leadership Phil Bristol CMC, PMP, PMI-SP, CPBA, CPVA Projectivity Solutions, Sacramento, CA 95826 “PMI” is a registered trade and service mark of the Project Management Institute, Inc.    ©2010 Permission is granted to PMI for PMI® Marketplace use only
Introduction Speak the Language of  Leadership Speak the Language of Leadership ,[object Object]
Language of Leadership:  Frameworks and Skills
Developing Influence
Final Thoughts,[object Object]
Establishing Leadership Technical Competency Leadership Competency © Patrick Lencioni 2002 Speak the Language of  Leadership
Manager – Leader Perspective Influence Inspire Trust Relationships Authority Rely on controls Resource Allocation Speak the Language of  Leadership
Source of Influence Reward power (granting favors or rewards) Coercive power (threats or punishment) Legitimate power (given by the job description)  Expert power (knowledge or skill) Referent power (respect humanity of others) © Yuki, 1981 Speak the Language of  Leadership
Framework & Skills - Foundation Speak the Language of  Leadership © Rufino, 2007 © Kerzner, 2009 © Hersey-Blanchard, 2009
Emotional Intelligence Personal Competence… Know yourself Manage self  Social Competence… Honor others Manage relationships © Goleman,1995 Speak the Language of  Leadership 8
Developing Influence – Calibration (NLP) Thoughtful Sadness Happiness Anger Speak the Language of  Leadership
Developing Influence – Predicates (NLP) Speak the Language of  Leadership See Hear Grasp Think See Hear Grasp Clear Listen Solid Sense Clear Listen Solid Feel Foggy Resonate Feel Process Foggy Resonate Draw a picture Rings a bell Get a handle on Pay attention to  Draw a picture Rings a bell Get a handle on
Developing Influence – Eye Accessing (NLP) Speak the Language of  Leadership Vr Vc Ar Ac Id K V
Developing Influence – Eye Accessing Speak the Language of  Leadership Visual Construct Vc Vr Ac Ar K Id V
Developing Influence – Eye Accessing Speak the Language of  Leadership Visual Recall Vc Vr Ac Ar K Id
Developing Influence – Eye Accessing Speak the Language of  Leadership Vc Vr Auditory Construct Ac Ar K Id
Developing Influence – Eye Accessing Speak the Language of  Leadership Vc Vr Auditory Recall Ac Ar K Id
Developing Influence – Eye Accessing Speak the Language of  Leadership Vc Vr Ac Ar Kinesthetic K Id
Developing Influence – Eye Accessing Vc Vr Ac Ar Internal Dialogue K Id Speak the Language of  Leadership
Developing Influence – Eye Accessing Speak the Language of  Leadership Vc Vr Ac Ar K Id V Visualization
Developing Influence – Application Pace Lead Speak the Language of  Leadership
Which Animal Do You Identify With? Speak the Language of  Leadership
Developing Influence – Refining Patterns DISC TASKS RESULTS QUALITY Thinker Driver C D I S PEOPLE Relater Socializer Speak the Language of  Leadership
Developing Influence - Patterns TASKS RESULTS D Speak the Language of  Leadership
Developing Influence - Patterns RESULTS PEOPLE I Speak the Language of  Leadership
Developing Influence - Patterns PEOPLE QUALITY S Speak the Language of  Leadership
Developing Influence - DISC TASKS QUALITY C Speak the Language of  Leadership
Developing Influence – Slippery-Slidey Slope C D Increased Stress Self Perception Other’s Perception S I Speak the Language of  Leadership
Developing Influence – Typical Responses C D Extroverted Results Opinions Passion Risk Guidelines Impatient Quick Introverted Quality Facts Logic Cautious Rules Patient Measured RESULTS QUALITY I S Speak the Language of  Leadership
Developing Influence – Strategy Generation Driver TASKS Thinker RESULTS QUALITY Slow Down Speed up Softer Tone Speak up D C I S Give Soak Time Respond … verify Ask for … Ask… PEOPLE Relater Socializer Speak the Language of  Leadership
Developing Influence – “Way of Being” What Behavior Way of Being ,[object Object]
 vehicles
 irrelevanciesHow Object Person Resistant Way “in the box” Responsive Way “out of the box” Justify © Arbinger Institute, 2002 Blameothers Speak the Language of  Leadership
Arbinger Leadership Pyramid Dealing with things that are going wrong What Correct Teach & communicate Listen & Learn Helping things      go right How Build the Relationship Building relationships with others who have influence See Objects See People © Arbinger Institute, 2009. Speak the Language of  Leadership

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Phil bristol

  • 1. Speak the Language of Leadership Phil Bristol CMC, PMP, PMI-SP, CPBA, CPVA Projectivity Solutions, Sacramento, CA 95826 “PMI” is a registered trade and service mark of the Project Management Institute, Inc. ©2010 Permission is granted to PMI for PMI® Marketplace use only
  • 2.
  • 3. Language of Leadership: Frameworks and Skills
  • 5.
  • 6. Establishing Leadership Technical Competency Leadership Competency © Patrick Lencioni 2002 Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 7. Manager – Leader Perspective Influence Inspire Trust Relationships Authority Rely on controls Resource Allocation Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 8. Source of Influence Reward power (granting favors or rewards) Coercive power (threats or punishment) Legitimate power (given by the job description) Expert power (knowledge or skill) Referent power (respect humanity of others) © Yuki, 1981 Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 9. Framework & Skills - Foundation Speak the Language of Leadership © Rufino, 2007 © Kerzner, 2009 © Hersey-Blanchard, 2009
  • 10. Emotional Intelligence Personal Competence… Know yourself Manage self Social Competence… Honor others Manage relationships © Goleman,1995 Speak the Language of Leadership 8
  • 11. Developing Influence – Calibration (NLP) Thoughtful Sadness Happiness Anger Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 12. Developing Influence – Predicates (NLP) Speak the Language of Leadership See Hear Grasp Think See Hear Grasp Clear Listen Solid Sense Clear Listen Solid Feel Foggy Resonate Feel Process Foggy Resonate Draw a picture Rings a bell Get a handle on Pay attention to Draw a picture Rings a bell Get a handle on
  • 13. Developing Influence – Eye Accessing (NLP) Speak the Language of Leadership Vr Vc Ar Ac Id K V
  • 14. Developing Influence – Eye Accessing Speak the Language of Leadership Visual Construct Vc Vr Ac Ar K Id V
  • 15. Developing Influence – Eye Accessing Speak the Language of Leadership Visual Recall Vc Vr Ac Ar K Id
  • 16. Developing Influence – Eye Accessing Speak the Language of Leadership Vc Vr Auditory Construct Ac Ar K Id
  • 17. Developing Influence – Eye Accessing Speak the Language of Leadership Vc Vr Auditory Recall Ac Ar K Id
  • 18. Developing Influence – Eye Accessing Speak the Language of Leadership Vc Vr Ac Ar Kinesthetic K Id
  • 19. Developing Influence – Eye Accessing Vc Vr Ac Ar Internal Dialogue K Id Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 20. Developing Influence – Eye Accessing Speak the Language of Leadership Vc Vr Ac Ar K Id V Visualization
  • 21. Developing Influence – Application Pace Lead Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 22. Which Animal Do You Identify With? Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 23. Developing Influence – Refining Patterns DISC TASKS RESULTS QUALITY Thinker Driver C D I S PEOPLE Relater Socializer Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 24. Developing Influence - Patterns TASKS RESULTS D Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 25. Developing Influence - Patterns RESULTS PEOPLE I Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 26. Developing Influence - Patterns PEOPLE QUALITY S Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 27. Developing Influence - DISC TASKS QUALITY C Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 28. Developing Influence – Slippery-Slidey Slope C D Increased Stress Self Perception Other’s Perception S I Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 29. Developing Influence – Typical Responses C D Extroverted Results Opinions Passion Risk Guidelines Impatient Quick Introverted Quality Facts Logic Cautious Rules Patient Measured RESULTS QUALITY I S Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 30. Developing Influence – Strategy Generation Driver TASKS Thinker RESULTS QUALITY Slow Down Speed up Softer Tone Speak up D C I S Give Soak Time Respond … verify Ask for … Ask… PEOPLE Relater Socializer Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 31.
  • 33. irrelevanciesHow Object Person Resistant Way “in the box” Responsive Way “out of the box” Justify © Arbinger Institute, 2002 Blameothers Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 34. Arbinger Leadership Pyramid Dealing with things that are going wrong What Correct Teach & communicate Listen & Learn Helping things go right How Build the Relationship Building relationships with others who have influence See Objects See People © Arbinger Institute, 2009. Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 35. Short Guide to “Way of Being” Focus on the “Right Results” Respond to suggestions for improvement Be personally accountable for results Seek answers Be a leader whom people trust Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 36. Conclusion Technical Competency Leadership Competency Delivers Results Establishes Trust ResultsBALANCETrust What How Style awareness & flexibility = Trust Trust based relationships accelerate results and quality Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 37. Which Path Do You Choose? Speak the Language of Leadership
  • 38.
  • 40. Phone: 1.866.350.0707 extension 101
  • 41. www.projectivity-solutions.comhttp://www.linkedin.com/in/philbristolcmcpmp “PMI” is a registered trade and service mark of the Project Management Institute, Inc. ©2010 Permission is granted to PMI for PMI® Marketplace use only Speak the Language of Leadership

Notas do Editor

  1. Good Morning … I’m Phil Bristol & I’m Gary YeattsTOGETHER we are bringing you breaking news from the Project Management Leadership Front.Have you ever seen or heard of a project… where all the right actions produced an outstanding project plan, schedule… maybe even supporting risk and communication plans ANDThe deliverables were not timely or poor quality.Such was the case at a leading Semi-conductor equipment manufacturing firm… The GM invited me to is office…. $24M contract cancellation – Sales and Engineer in conflict modeWork with the VP – Operations… try and win back the business….This project was in serious trouble not because of TECHCNICAL COMPETENCIES… the WHAT the challenges stemmed for HOW people were INTERACTING…. Or LEADERSHIP COMPETENCIESLEADERSHIP is about SETTING DIRECTION - INSPIRING, MOTIVATING AND INFLUENCING OTHERS TO TAKE ACTION
  2. During ourpresentation we will PRESENTthe what = technical competencies and the how = leadership competencies…. The transactional leadership model emphasizes the what. The transformational model emphasizes the how. Framework & skills for the LANGUAGE OF LEADERSHIPTHREE APPROACHES TO DEVELOP INFLUENCE
  3. Leaders are committed to…Building trust – forming the foundation for EXECUTION – DISC & PIAVMastering conflict – having the knowledge and skills to encourage the passionate discussion of business issues and facts – DISC & PIAVAchieving commitment - exercising communications flexibility to inspire and motivateothers to produce the right results – DISC & PIAV Leading by example – using knowledge and skills that establishes a way of working and creates a culture which is focuses on the “Right Results” while holding everyone “Fiercely Accountable”
  4. (Bennis & Goldsmith, 2010). Learning To LeadThe differences become clearer when examining both roles at peripheral boundaries; a poor leader becomes a tyrant and poor manager is a bureaucrat
  5. Not authority or Power -> InfluenceInfluencing powerfully & Building trustRespect the humanity of others – compassion – Mother Teresa
  6. A leaders ability to influence, inspire, and motive directly correlates to communication skill proficiency. Leaders establish and sustain relationships by how they communicate
  7. Sensory acuity
  8. MYERS-BRIGGS - SDIEI…. KNOW YOUR SELF & AWARE OF OTHERSCOMMUNICATIONS BEHAVIORS…. SEE AND HEAR - CALIBRATION SKILLSPreferred style of communications:Problem solver – Driven for ResultsInfluencer – Results through inspirationSteadiness – influenced by the pace of workConscientious - influenced by process and proceduresPATTERN OVERVEIWLITTLE MORE DETAIL… IDENTIFY PATTERNS
  9. OVER ABUNDANCE OF A STRENGTH BECOMES A WEAKNESSGOLEMANTECHNICAL COMPETENCY = KNOWINGSAME LEVEL OF KNOWING WITH COMMUNICATION SKILLS?As you Recall conversations in your past… let’s revisit the Sales and Engineer teamBoth teams had hit the bottom of the slippery slidey slopesAs we began to work together we LISTENED TO REQUIREMENTS AND NEEDS – LEARNED HOW THE OTHER TEAM WORKEDJOINTLY DELVELOP AN ACTION PLAN AND SCHEDULE – SALES & LEAD ENGINEER WENT TO PACIFIC RIM CLIENT WITH A PROPOSALSTART TO IDENTIFY PATTERNS
  10. As you think about the DIFFERENCES between the Salesand EngineeringteamYou may now realize how preferred styles of communication cause challenges in your teamOBSTACLES & VEHICLES …… EACH TEAM was QUICK TO POINT OUT HOW THE OTHER TEAM WAS AT FAULT
  11. BEFORE…DID NOT RECOGNIZE….. THE COMMUNICATION PATTERNS AND FRICTION CAUSED WITH ADDITIONAL STRESS
  12. The “RED FLAG” blaming othersWhen SALES saw Engineering as “GEAR HEADS” who asked way too many questions and intentionally slowed progress… Engineers seen as Tools to produce machines – Obstacles to $$ENGINEERING saw SALES as FAST TALKERS who would agree to ANYTHING to close a deal… “smoozers” Sales seen as obstacles to quality… became tone deaf to the talking …. IrrelevantThe more entrenched… the louder the BLAMING OTHERSFOCUS ON THE RIGHT RESULTSTeach and communicate new skills: to-do list -> scheduleListen and learn from each otherCalibrated, communication flexibility -> RELATIONSHIPS based on mutual TRUSTDaily status reports : client and Corporate… relationship with others
  13. When things were going wrong… where was the focus? On the WHAT… correcting Requirements docs or Engineering Specs… resulting in Blaming others… Both teams started to: 1) seek answers to tough question – no judgment 2) invite suggestions for improvement 3) Become personally ACCOUNTABLE for resultsKnowing ourselves, calibrating to others, recognizing communication style preferences AND having to flexibility adapt to the other “persons language”ANDSeeing others as people… exquisitely honoring their humanity helped things go rightBuilding trust, mastering conflict – with Stronger relationships COMMITMENT thrived, accountability was embraced…Developing your ability to speak the language of leadership you can INSPIRE, MOTIVATE AND INFLUENCE to produce the RIGHT RESULTSOh by the way… the won the opportunity to manufacture the systems…. AND the team delivered all four on-time and at budget
  14. As a project manager, you master technical and leadership skillsOn your leadership journey, there is choice. You either see people as people and respond the their humanity or You see people as objects and resist their humanity. You have this choice …now. How will you respond?
  15. Draw 150 participantsEnroll all participants in the presentation – create excitement ~ 100 sign-ups10 Inquires for workshopsClose 5 contracts