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Social Dimensions of Achieving
   Gender Equity in Higher
     Education: Men and
Masculinities as Linchpin Issues
   in Realizing EFA Goals
                   Jason A. Laker, Ph.D.
          Professor and Chair, Department of Counselor Education
                        Lurie College of Education
                 San José State University, California, USA
                          jlaker.sjsu@gmail.com


 Higher Education and the Global Agenda: Alternative Pathways to the Future
                       IAU 14th General Conference
                          27-30 November 2012
      Inter American University of Puerto Rico, San Juan, Puerto Rico


 EFA Goal 5 Eliminating gender disparities in primary and
 secondary education by 2005, and achieving gender
 equality in education by 2015, with a focus on ensuring
 girls’ full and equal access to and achievement in basic
 education of good quality
                                                                              1
What have we learned from research,
  applications and reforms for
  girls/women?
   Gender Matters
        It is a fundamental organizing principle in
         societies globally.
   Gendered Strategies work
       UNESCO's 2009 Global Education digest
       Female students in PSE rose 6x from 1970-2007; Men
        4x
       PSE graduates-women outnumber men in 75 of 98
        nations.
       Since PSE gender parity in 2003, women’s
        par ticipation has been surpassing males
       Men continue to outnumber women in engineering,
        manufacturing, and construction in all countries for
        which figures were available.
   We’re not done...
       We can and must continue momentum
        in promoting girls/women’s safety,
        access, success, employment,
        leadership, etc.
   Avoid zero-sum, binar y thinking
       We’re all co-conspirators in each
        other’s problems and solutions (moms
        and dads raise boys and girls!)                        2
   Gender Equity is achievable.
   Positive Cross-Gender Relations
    are achievable.
   If there were a simple solution, it
    would have been done already.
   We talk often about gender equity,
    but rarely about gender, including
    understanding males as gendered
    beings.




                                          3
4
“…gender is an act which has been rehearsed,
much as a script survives the particular actors
who make use of it, but which requires
individual actors in order to be actualized and
reproduced as reality once again." (Butler,
1990, p. 272).


“…the important fact of men’s lives is not
  that they are biological males, but that they
  become men. Our sex may be male, but
  our identity as men is developed through a
  complex process of interaction with the
  culture in which we both learn the gender
  scripts appropriate to our culture and
  attempt to modify those scripts to make
  them more palatable.” -Kimmel, 1998



                                                  5
 Discrepancy-strain
    Failing to live up to ideal of
     masculinity
 Dysfunction strain

    Achieving manhood’s
     requirements hurts/costs the
     man
 Trauma-strain

    Masculine role socialization is
     inherently traumatic.

Pleck, J. H. The gender role strain paradigm: An update. A new
psychology of men.
In Levant, Ronald F. (Ed); Pollack, William S. (Ed), (1995). A new
psychology of men, (pp. 11-32). New York, NY, US: Basic Books, xiv,
402 pp.
                                                                      6
“Men are not exploited or
  oppressed by sexism, but there
  are ways in which they suffer as
  a result of it. This suffering
  should not be ignored. While it
  in no way diminishes the
  seriousness of male abuse and
  oppression of women, or
  negates male responsibility for
  exploitative actions, the pain
  men experience can serve as a
  catalyst calling attention to the
  need for change.”
               -hooks (1984)


                                      7
 Restrictive
  Emotionality
 Socialized Control,
  Power, and
  Competition
 Restrictive Sexual
  and Af fectionate
  Behavior –
 Obsession with
  Achievement, Work
  and Success
Adapted from: O'Neil, J., Helms, B., Gable, R., David, L., Wrightman, L.
(1986). Gender role conflict scale: College men's fear of femininity. Sex
Roles, 14, 335-350.                                                       8
Restrictive
 Emotionality-
 A man who has
 learned to restrict
 his emotions will
 need to understand
 that emotional
 expressiveness is
 not a par t of some
 feminine stereotype
 but par t of being a
 full human being.
   Adapted from: O'Neil, J., Helms, B., Gable, R., David, L., Wrightman, L.
   (1986). Gender role conflict scale: College men's fear of femininity. Sex
   Roles, 14, 335-350.
                                                                               9
Socialized Control, Power,
 and Competition-
  A man who validates his
 masculinity through power
 and control makes himself
 vulnerable in many ways.
 The tragedy of the
 controlling man is that he
 for feits interpersonal and
 emotional flexibility which
 are essential for open
 communication, conflict
 management, and
 intimacy: all of which help
 sustain and revitalize
 interpersonal
 relationships.
    Adapted from: O'Neil, J., Helms, B., Gable, R., David, L., Wrightman, L.
    (1986). Gender role conflict scale: College men's fear of femininity. Sex
    Roles, 14, 335-350.
                                                                                10
Restrictive Sexual and
 Af fectionate Behavior–
 For men, sex is of ten
 seen as a means of
 measuring
 per formance,
 achievement, and one's
 masculinity. Men who
 demonstrate restrictive
 interpersonal af fection
 view sex as an
 objective-impersonal
 process and have a
 dif ficult time
 expressing af fection in
 ways other than sex.
   Adapted from: O'Neil, J., Helms, B., Gable, R., David, L., Wrightman, L.
   (1986). Gender role conflict scale: College men's fear of femininity. Sex
   Roles, 14, 335-350.
                                                                               11
Obsession with
 Achievement, Work and
 Success-
 Preoccupation with work,
 accomplishments, and
 eminence can cause
 conflicts between career
 and domestic
 responsibilities. Men
 who define their self-
 wor th primarily as career
 success experience
 intense pressure to
 succeed.
     Adapted from: O'Neil, J., Helms, B., Gable, R., David, L., Wrightman, L.
     (1986). Gender role conflict scale: College men's fear of femininity. Sex
     Roles, 14, 335-350.
                                                                                 12
by Nancy R. Smith (reprinted from "The Sojourner", a newsletter of
The Women's Center, Duke Divinity School)

For every woman who is tired of acting weak when she
   knows she is strong, there is a man who is tired of
   appearing strong when he feels vulnerable;
For every woman who is tired of acting dumb, there is a man
   who is burdened with the constant expectation of
   "knowing everything;"
For every woman who is tired of being called "an emotional
   female,“ there is a man who is denied the right to weep
   and to be gentle;
For every woman who is called unfeminine when she
   competes,
   there is a man for whom competition is the only way to
   prove his masculinity;
For every woman who is tired of being a sex object, there is a
   man who is tired of being a success object;
For every woman who feels "tied down" by her children,
   there is a man who is denied the full pleasures of shared
   parenthood;
For every woman who is denied meaningful employment or
   equal pay, there is a man who must bear full financial
   responsibility for another human being;
For every woman who was not taught the intricacies of an
   automobile, there is a man who was not taught the
   satisfactions of cooking;
For every woman who takes a step toward her own liberation,
   there is a man who finds the way to freedom has been
   made a little easier.
                                                                 13
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CS III.5 - J. Laker

  • 1. Social Dimensions of Achieving Gender Equity in Higher Education: Men and Masculinities as Linchpin Issues in Realizing EFA Goals Jason A. Laker, Ph.D. Professor and Chair, Department of Counselor Education Lurie College of Education San José State University, California, USA jlaker.sjsu@gmail.com Higher Education and the Global Agenda: Alternative Pathways to the Future IAU 14th General Conference 27-30 November 2012 Inter American University of Puerto Rico, San Juan, Puerto Rico EFA Goal 5 Eliminating gender disparities in primary and secondary education by 2005, and achieving gender equality in education by 2015, with a focus on ensuring girls’ full and equal access to and achievement in basic education of good quality 1
  • 2. What have we learned from research, applications and reforms for girls/women?  Gender Matters  It is a fundamental organizing principle in societies globally.  Gendered Strategies work  UNESCO's 2009 Global Education digest  Female students in PSE rose 6x from 1970-2007; Men 4x  PSE graduates-women outnumber men in 75 of 98 nations.  Since PSE gender parity in 2003, women’s par ticipation has been surpassing males  Men continue to outnumber women in engineering, manufacturing, and construction in all countries for which figures were available.  We’re not done...  We can and must continue momentum in promoting girls/women’s safety, access, success, employment, leadership, etc.  Avoid zero-sum, binar y thinking  We’re all co-conspirators in each other’s problems and solutions (moms and dads raise boys and girls!) 2
  • 3. Gender Equity is achievable.  Positive Cross-Gender Relations are achievable.  If there were a simple solution, it would have been done already.  We talk often about gender equity, but rarely about gender, including understanding males as gendered beings. 3
  • 4. 4
  • 5. “…gender is an act which has been rehearsed, much as a script survives the particular actors who make use of it, but which requires individual actors in order to be actualized and reproduced as reality once again." (Butler, 1990, p. 272). “…the important fact of men’s lives is not that they are biological males, but that they become men. Our sex may be male, but our identity as men is developed through a complex process of interaction with the culture in which we both learn the gender scripts appropriate to our culture and attempt to modify those scripts to make them more palatable.” -Kimmel, 1998 5
  • 6.  Discrepancy-strain  Failing to live up to ideal of masculinity  Dysfunction strain  Achieving manhood’s requirements hurts/costs the man  Trauma-strain  Masculine role socialization is inherently traumatic. Pleck, J. H. The gender role strain paradigm: An update. A new psychology of men. In Levant, Ronald F. (Ed); Pollack, William S. (Ed), (1995). A new psychology of men, (pp. 11-32). New York, NY, US: Basic Books, xiv, 402 pp. 6
  • 7. “Men are not exploited or oppressed by sexism, but there are ways in which they suffer as a result of it. This suffering should not be ignored. While it in no way diminishes the seriousness of male abuse and oppression of women, or negates male responsibility for exploitative actions, the pain men experience can serve as a catalyst calling attention to the need for change.” -hooks (1984) 7
  • 8.  Restrictive Emotionality  Socialized Control, Power, and Competition  Restrictive Sexual and Af fectionate Behavior –  Obsession with Achievement, Work and Success Adapted from: O'Neil, J., Helms, B., Gable, R., David, L., Wrightman, L. (1986). Gender role conflict scale: College men's fear of femininity. Sex Roles, 14, 335-350. 8
  • 9. Restrictive Emotionality- A man who has learned to restrict his emotions will need to understand that emotional expressiveness is not a par t of some feminine stereotype but par t of being a full human being. Adapted from: O'Neil, J., Helms, B., Gable, R., David, L., Wrightman, L. (1986). Gender role conflict scale: College men's fear of femininity. Sex Roles, 14, 335-350. 9
  • 10. Socialized Control, Power, and Competition- A man who validates his masculinity through power and control makes himself vulnerable in many ways. The tragedy of the controlling man is that he for feits interpersonal and emotional flexibility which are essential for open communication, conflict management, and intimacy: all of which help sustain and revitalize interpersonal relationships. Adapted from: O'Neil, J., Helms, B., Gable, R., David, L., Wrightman, L. (1986). Gender role conflict scale: College men's fear of femininity. Sex Roles, 14, 335-350. 10
  • 11. Restrictive Sexual and Af fectionate Behavior– For men, sex is of ten seen as a means of measuring per formance, achievement, and one's masculinity. Men who demonstrate restrictive interpersonal af fection view sex as an objective-impersonal process and have a dif ficult time expressing af fection in ways other than sex. Adapted from: O'Neil, J., Helms, B., Gable, R., David, L., Wrightman, L. (1986). Gender role conflict scale: College men's fear of femininity. Sex Roles, 14, 335-350. 11
  • 12. Obsession with Achievement, Work and Success- Preoccupation with work, accomplishments, and eminence can cause conflicts between career and domestic responsibilities. Men who define their self- wor th primarily as career success experience intense pressure to succeed. Adapted from: O'Neil, J., Helms, B., Gable, R., David, L., Wrightman, L. (1986). Gender role conflict scale: College men's fear of femininity. Sex Roles, 14, 335-350. 12
  • 13. by Nancy R. Smith (reprinted from "The Sojourner", a newsletter of The Women's Center, Duke Divinity School) For every woman who is tired of acting weak when she knows she is strong, there is a man who is tired of appearing strong when he feels vulnerable; For every woman who is tired of acting dumb, there is a man who is burdened with the constant expectation of "knowing everything;" For every woman who is tired of being called "an emotional female,“ there is a man who is denied the right to weep and to be gentle; For every woman who is called unfeminine when she competes, there is a man for whom competition is the only way to prove his masculinity; For every woman who is tired of being a sex object, there is a man who is tired of being a success object; For every woman who feels "tied down" by her children, there is a man who is denied the full pleasures of shared parenthood; For every woman who is denied meaningful employment or equal pay, there is a man who must bear full financial responsibility for another human being; For every woman who was not taught the intricacies of an automobile, there is a man who was not taught the satisfactions of cooking; For every woman who takes a step toward her own liberation, there is a man who finds the way to freedom has been made a little easier. 13
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