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Spiraling Upward: Becoming a
COMPLETE LEADER
The 5 Co-Creative Powers for Women on the Rise

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Have you reinvented yourself more than once?
Are you actually surprised at how much you’ve
achieved and how far you’ve come?
Do you feel there are a lack of opportunities for
career advancement?
Do you find yourself dwelling on perceived
“failures” more than you celebrate your
successes?

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Do you over-prepare for meetings?
Do you feel underappreciated ?
Do you think your work should speak for
itself and prefer not to have to talk about
your achievements?
Are you much harder on yourself than you
would ever be to a friend?

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“People who live with passion start out with
an especially intense desire to complete
themselves.”

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A foreigner to myself.

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Spiraling UPWARD!

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I want to be strong. I want to laugh along.
I want to belong to the living!
Alive! Alive! I want to get up and jive.
I want to wreck my stockings in some juke box dive.
“A l l I W a n t ” – J o n i M i t c h e l l

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The Athena Doctrine Study
FEMININE STRENGTHS
The new competitive advantage
Charts by
John Gerzema, BAV Consulting

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Women make better leaders than men
“ THEY BUILD BETTER TEAMS; they’re more liked and
respected as managers; they tend to be able to
combine intuitive and logical thinking more
seamlessly; they’re more aware of the implications
of their own and others’ actions; and they think
more accurately about the resources needed to
accomplish a given outcome.”
Zenger & Folkman study

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Fortune 500 companies with the
highest percentages of women board
directors produced an average of 66%
higher ROI than those with the least
women.
– Research from the thinktank, Catalyst.org

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“If women are ever to achieve REAL
EQUALITY as leaders, then we have to stop
accepting male behavior and male choices
as the default and the ideal.
We must INSIST on changing social policies
and bending career tracks to accommodate
our choices, too.”
Anne-Marie Slaughter
Author, Unfinished Business

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It ’s only when we express our unique
gifts and authentic power that we
discover a deep sense of belonging .

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HORIZONTAL Realm

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C O M P E T E N C E
MASCULI NE STRE NGTHS
Focus
Action
Discipline
Rigor
Analysis
HORIZONTAL Realm

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VERTICAL Realm
HORIZONTAL Realm
OW
AWE

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VERTICAL Realm
C O N S C I O U S N E S S
F EMI NI NE STR E N GTHS
Receptivity
Con n ec tivity
Intu ition
Compassion
W isd om
VERTICAL Realm

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Inner Resume Exercise
Recall a n inten sely
c h allen g in g exp erien c e th at
you successfully overcame.
1 ) W h at was th e ad versity ?
2 ) W h at stren gth s emerged ?
Write ( 3 min s )
S h are ( 3 min s ) with p artn er

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CONSCIOUSNESS
C O M P E T E N C E

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What is the single factor people
correlated with modern leadership?
Q
Being authentically expressive -
the courage to put yourself and
your ideas out there!
A

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When we see this kind of power shining through someone in all its truth and
certainty, it’s irresistible, inspiring, elevating. —Oprah

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Energy
Mind
Speech
Feeling
Actions
T h e F i v e C o - C re a t i v e Po w e rs T h a t P ro p e l Wo m e n t o R i s e

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W h a t a r e y o u r a d i a t i n g o u t wi t h y o u r m o o d o r e n e r g y ?
Reactive, moody,
lethargic
Unconscious
Present in the
moment, riveted
by life.
Deliberate
Five Co-Creative Powers
Energy
“ C l a p a l o n g i f y o u f e e l l i k e h a p p i n e s s i s a t r u t h … ”

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A r e y o u t h i n k i n g a b o u t wh a t y o u wa n t
o r a r e y o u t h i n k i n g a b o u t t h e l a c k o f i t ?
Negative self-talk,
complaining,
worrying
Unconscious
Take thoughts less
seriously, tune to
positive and
intuition, focus on
what you want, find
yourself “right”.
Deliberate
Five Co-Creative Powers Mind

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VELCRO/TEFLON

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C a n y o u l i s t e n t o y o u r l o n g i n g s a n d l e t t h e m i n f o r m
y o u r c h o i c e s a n d d i r e c t i o n ?
Compulsive
recycling of
negative emotion
Unconscious
Embrace your
feelings, be a
witness, let them
move through you.
Deliberate
Five Co-Creative Powers Feeling

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C a n y o u s p e a k f r o m “ s u ff i c i e n c y ” ?
Complaining,
gossip,
disclaimers,
speaking from
lack, belittling self
or others
Unconscious
Articulate your
value, make
powerful requests /
declines, self-
appreciation, voice
boundaries to
protect personal
time.
Deliberate
Speech

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W h a t ’s t h e n e x t “ r i g h t ” t h i n g f o r y o u !
Automatic, doing
only what is
familiar and
comfortable.
Unconscious
Take steps
towards what you
really want, act “as
if”, provide what
you seek, give
your gifts
Deliberate
Five Co-Creative Powers Actions

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FALSE SELF/ego
Hurries you
Attacks you
Misleads you
Doubts you
Commands you
Criticizes you
Agitates you
TRUE SELF/evo
Quiets you
Uplifts you
Guides you
Encourages you
Invites you
Assures you
Soothes you

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Ego self =
Scare tactics,
threatens, warns
True self =
Matter-of–fact directions,
inspires you with ideas
Consider the source
W h o i s t a l k i n g t o
y o u ?

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F a l s e S e l f T r u e S e l f
W h at en cou ragement or wisd om d oes you r Tru e self
( Evo ) say to you ?
W h at d oes th at “S HO ULD” voic e say to you ?
What does your False Self ( E go) tell you that keeps you
stu c k?

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A COMPLETE LEADER puts her
masculine strengths in service to her
feminine wisdom.
The Spiral Up!
Path

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l a t e s t o f f e r i n g s
F o r r e l e v a n t a n d i n f o r m a t i v e t w e e t s
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Women step into our place in the world — to
thrive and flourish, not just for ourselves,
but in service to life itself.

Spiraling Upward: Becoming a Complete Leader

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