1. Believe in Yourself Setting the stage for your great comeback Presented by Tim Salaver, MBA, PMP, CSSMBB
2. Believe in Yourself – The Wiz If you believeWithin your heart you'll knowThat no one can changeThe path that you must go Believe there's a reason to beBelieve you can make time stand stillYou know from the moment you tryIf you believeI know you will Believe what you feelAnd know you're right, becauseThe time will come aroundWhen you say it's yours Believe in yourself, right from the startYou'll have brainsYou'll have a heartYou'll have courageTo last your whole life through
3. Make the most of yourself, for that is all there is of you. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson You have one chance to make an impression. There is no dress rehearsal, so prepare for your performance Learn to market YOU The difference between you and a celebrity is you are the agent, manager, public relations, and limo driver
4. Other people's opinion of you does not have to become your reality. ~Les Brown Don’t let others judge you Don’t believe the hype coming from friends You are greater than you think you are Children will be humbling, so don’t listen to your three-year-old
5. What a man thinks of himself, that it is which determines, or rather indicates his fate. ~Henry David Thoreau The messages you tell yourself need to be affirming and positive If you believe you’re a failure, you will fail If you believe you’re a quitter, you will quit If you believe you’re a winner, you will win
6. A person can grow only as much as his horizon allows. ~John Powell How many people have you met who have never left the state… …the country …their neighborhood …their own circumstances Do you have a bucket list? Develop an outlet…find a sport, commit to helping others, lighten up, and laugh more often
7. If you must love your neighbor as yourself, it is at least as fair to love yourself as your neighbor. ~Nicholas de Chamfort Sometimes we treat others better than we treat ourselves It is the darndest thing when we compliment others, but do you compliment yourself You need to experience the feelings that you have for your spouse, loved one, family, from your own perspective. How well do you accept a compliment
8. Pay no attention to what the critics say. A statue has never been erected in honor of a critic. ~Jean Sibelius People can be critical and disbelieving of you We learn to say NO when we haven’t even tried Greatness knows no bounds If you must be critical, do so about the act not the person
9. Nothing splendid has ever been achieved except by those who dared believe that something inside of them was superior to circumstance. ~Bruce Barton What is your circumstance? What Splendid and Superior activity have you created from that circumstance? Do you have an earnest acceptance of life’s pains and promises
10. Lesson in kind One can never give enough hugs, say enough "I love you's," and send enough "I miss you's." Be sure to acknowledge the positive in people… Praise it forward!!
12. Inspiration The job market is filled with millions of people; what will inspire you to rise above the din and be noticed? Join a business-related social network; use LinkedIn Recommend first; Invite praise Get a recommendation from 10% of your contacts Happiness only real when shared
13. Motivation Find the drivers that make you kick it up a gear or two Develop a keen sense of what you want to accomplish and go for it Find the carrot Listen to the music in your life Tell the story of your life
14. Desire What do you want most out of life What seems to be missing Make it so, number one Don’t we all want to be the very best Be better than your best
15. Passion Do that which you care about most What is your reason for living If you channel all your energy into the things you love the most can you imagine what you can accomplish It is what makes you human, animals have instinct
16. Confidence Why are people afraid? Inspiration +Motivation +Desire +Passion =Confidence It’s contagious You will feel so very different about yourself
17. Lesson in opening up Stand up, greet, and introduce yourself to THREE people
18. Summary You have a choice Believe in You Practice what you heard today Go out and be heard Have a Healthy Outlet Don’t Take Yourself Too Seriously Share Your Happiness
19. Tim Salaver, MBA, PMP, CSSMBBPresidentCornerstone Systems Solutions Tim@GO-CSS.com 702-286-7464 (CTO-SING) www.GO-CSS.com http://www.linkedin.com/in/timsalaver