Recognizing self esteem, ones confidence level, and methods for achieving the targets. art of dealing tough situations.

1. Qambrani Shoaib Anwer
Inspirational Speaker
Countless Confidence, More for Less
Think again before reading this, it’s not as easy as you may understand,
Let’s start, apart from the ability to perform works, there is something legging between called
“Confidence”, what I mean to say, there is difference between ability and confidence, think a while how
do we perform works? And how do we show our confidence? When these both things are connected
together during a work? I often hear from people, they say we are not confident, even I myself used to
say the same, years ago, before discovering the unleashed methods, though there are many ways
people did their own. So today I am going to tell you what is the countless confidence? And how can
that benefit our self?
So I think it’s really hard to see into oneself, and self-analyze one’s own confidence.
About three month ago I was standing at a bus stop, there were many people like me waiting for their
buses, I saw a girl aged around 12 and half, torn dusty cloths, innocent by face, with no slippers. She
came to me and held my hand, when I looked into her eyes, without wasting a single second she said,
her “Magic Script” and kept on saying, she was not leaving my hand, finally I had to give her some thing,
I gave her 10 rupees and she went, one thought was coming in my mind, “why did she go after collecting
10 rupees? There were around twenty people on that stop. Why only me?
I struggled to find out the answer, kept on going, it took me around a week to come at a point of
conclusion, that was simple, but I was laughing afterword, what was that? She was confident because
she knew her prospect; she selected her target and her possibility of success. It’s strange to tell you a
real life story, you may have observed, or it happened with you.
So in other words how we see confidence in our daily life.
“Confidence then is a way to unfold the world as one of POSSIBILITIES FOR ACTION”
Confidence can along with someone who sees disaster lurking around every corner or in someone who
thinks everyone will turn out right. Rather, action is a kind of knowledge; it is knowledge HOW to attack
problems and perhaps knowledge THAT one has this attacking skill. It is the difference between
“learned helplessness” and other hard-to-characterize psychological states that can overtake people
when they do not see opportunities. People without confidence see certain actions as impossible or
closed off. Someone without confidence may not start a business, even though they are eminently
qualified to do so. They may not ask another person out, even though they are kind and attractive.
Someone who is confident knows that they can adapt to meet a challenge and persevere in the face of
unseen obstacles.
“Overcoming your fears is one of the most empowering things you can ever do for yourself. You’ll
prove to yourself you can truly accomplish anything!” I call it confidence booster.

2. Qambrani Shoaib Anwer
Inspirational Speaker
Once one of my friends invited me to deliver a speech and to read keynotes in their college, I accepted
his invitation and prepared my stuff, arrived there about 20 minutes earlier, having some pages in my
hand and I was reading all that for fluency purpose, meanwhile my friend said to me, get ready within 5
minutes it’s your turn and he went, I stood up and wanted to be alone for a while, I moved somewhere
and facing myself in mirror, after some minutes a lady came and asked me, Sir are you nervous? I
looked at her and imagined myself a Superhero, with deep voice I replied no, but she was not satisfied
by my answer again she asked, I did as same, after her last sentence. I was shocked, she simply said, if
you are not nervous what are doing in ladies toilet?
After all, I came to stage but that my nervousness was in my mind, I was not able to say a single word,
about 10 minutes, I stood behind rostrum, finally a student raised his voice loudly, Come on! Sir you can
do it. I felt a little bit happy and commenced my speech, at end, everyone stood in my honor.
That was the biggest trap for me to face such a situation, and my biggest failure of life.
Imagine yourself in that situation, and see what happens, if you start laughing it means you are going
to build a Countless Confidence, More success for less failure.
When the last time you celebrated your happiness? Remember; try to remember when it was the last
time, let’s remember together when it was last time we celebrated with heart, during college time
saying if we will get good grades in exam we will celebrate? Result comes we pass, no celebration, again
if we will get admission in university we will celebrate, even after graduating, we say, we’ll celebrate
after getting job. That’s it, keep saying, after salary, promotion, marriage etc. And we keep saying and
relaxing our self we will celebrate but in fact there is no celebration in our life, events come and go, rest
are the dates in calendar. And that’s the starting point we build a lack of confidence in ourselves.
You are now aware of, what is confidence, how it works. “Boost your confidence by Celebrating Events”
If you aren’t living on the edge, you’re taking up too much space…It has
nothing to do with thrill-seeking. It’s about making the most of every moment,
about stretching your own boundaries, about being willing to learn
constantly…Being out on the edge, with everything at risk, is where you
learn—and grow—the most.
If you have read my last session notes, I said we deal with illusions in this world, the more our illusions
are perfect, the more we are confident, yes right, Perfectionism is an illusion itself. Many people
complain about being not the right person for the right job, sometimes it’s said our workload is too
much, we are not heard etc. these are all the symptoms of confidence lack. Remember one thing,
always do what you are afraid of, that’s called confidence. “You know you can’t handle this situation but
you also know that if you try to do, you will be able to handle.”
Take a risk; take a chance make a change and breakaway.

3. Qambrani Shoaib Anwer
Inspirational Speaker
That’s all what I did to cross the lines of confidence, and build a countless confidence, more for less. You
must always have in your mind that confidence is made of, actions, fear and possibilities. Try my
countless magic script for crossing the lines of confidence.
Countless magic script: {Asaan Hai}. yes, that’s it the thing, will let you cross the confidence lines, when
you are in tough and difficult situation, recall the remedy three times, only you will see where your
confidence level goes, beyond the lines. You will not be yourself at that time after saying, Asaan hai.
Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can
help the man with the wrong mental attitude.
Thanks.
Confidence
You
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