1. The Agent and the Target
The Agent
Conveyor of culture(s)
Conveyor of values
Savior
Sustainer
Creator (?)
The Target
Reproducer of culture
Reproducer of values
Military reserve
Labor force
Bureaucratic store
2. Children
Youth
Grown-ups
Needs defined and met by
grown-ups for youngsters
Needs defined and met by
Needs defined and met by
grown-ups and youth
grown-ups for grown-ups
interactively for youth (albeit (not necessarily “adults”)
with a considerable tension)
3. The Clash of Developmental Tasks
Youth has its own:
Aims
Targets
Future expectations
Behaviors
Language
Manners
Independency
Society/community/family/
state expects youth to be:
Seated
Situated
Targeted
Predictable
Well-defined
Shaped
Dependent
4. The Riddle and the Proposal
The Riddle
Neither families nor the
state have necessary (let
alone sufficient)
background, experience,
and equipment to
negotiate with the youth.
Very questionable if with the
children.
The Proposal
Re-subjectification of
objectified subjects.
5. What is the (behavioral) technology?
Kindness
Right to have/adopt any strong/weak belief, thought, attitude,
emotion, sense, ability, capacity, etc. with accompanying
behaviors and relationships.
Right to not being imposed on by any of the above.
Differentiate if the action/behavior is coercive or nourishing.
Actual action (effective behavior) is the only criterion.
Example:
I want (need) to do this to/for you. | I want (need) you to do this to/for me.
vs.
I want (need) to do this with you.
6. What changes the changers?
PROJECTS
Do things for the others
(conscious intent)
VOLUNTEERS
MOBILITY
Do things for oneself
(consciously or
consciously)
ACTIVISTS
7. What is the outcome?
PROJECTS
Negotiations with grownups are suspended under
the pretext of “for the
benefit of the destitute”.
The destitute: The ones who need
‘your’ benevolence.
CHARITY
MOBILITY
Negotiations with grownups continue to expand
the area of alternatives for
oneself and for others.
Others: The ones who constitute
parts in you and, in turn, you
constitute parts in them.
SOLIDARITY