Original Title: Diversity - How and Why?
Event: TechTrends18 Berlin
Martina is a UX Psychologist, Strategist and Designer, who was invited to give her opinion to the whole Diversity debate, by being given the opportunity by @Talent to explore a new topic - something away from her usual UX-presentations. Being a psychologist she changes the perspective to ourselves, by emphasising, that a healthy approach to difficult people, topics and emotions should be what we strive for, to achieve real diversity. But she also points, that it is not possible for everyone to do something, as not everyone has the same chances. Hence it is important to stand up and live up to our good intentions.
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What can WE do?
WORK ON:
Creating a constructive approach with:
• difficult people and topics
• unpleasant emotions
But also, creating equal chances
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HOW and WHY?
PATIENCE
EMPATHY 2-WAYS
EMBRACING THE
UNCOMFORTABLE
STANDING UP
because:
Our brains are lazy.
We react emotionally…
Tension makes us move.
Not everyone has the same chances
exercising,
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• Prefer auto-pilot (in over 90% of the cases)
• Jump quickly to conclusions
• Especially when under pressure
• Tend to be superficial
Let’s play a game…
1. Our Brains are Lazy
image: https://www.industryweek.com/sites/industryweek.com/files/styles/article_featured_retina/public/uploads/2014/12/
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Anyone who had it all right?
1 2 3
4 5 6
R.I.P. Missing
R.I.P.
source: google.com; various online newspapers
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Our first impressions aren’t always right!
• Realise initial impulses
• Go beyond first impressions
• Get more info/context first
• Mum’s advice: “Count to 3 before you react.”
1. PATIENCE
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• Emotions activate before our consciousness
• They affect the chosen (re)actions
• We need to make sense of things
• Our brains pack everything into emotional stories
And we can’t help it…
2.We ARE Emotional!
image: https://www.maruedr.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Emotional-Reaction-vs-Transaction.jpg
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Emotions are a part of being human!
TOWARDS YOURSELF:
TOWARDS OTHERS:
2. Empathy 2-ways
• Allow your emotion (doesn’t mean express it!)
• Reflect: what triggered it and why?
• Ask and try to understand others
• Their context will make things easier for you
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• The uncomfortable creates tension
• Tension creates electrical impulses
• Which make, e.g. our muscles contract
• Without it, we won’t move or grow at all
3.Tension Makes Us Move
image: https://www.topuniversities.com/sites/default/files/styles/lead_article_image/public/blogs/lead-images/
Roar_and_other_stress_relievers.jpg
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"Drugs" won’t solve anything in the long-term…
• Difficult people
• Hard, bad moments and emotions; Fails and flaws
• Give more honest feedback!
• Break taboos → discuss constructively
3. Embracing the uncomfortable:
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It's time, we live up to our good intentions!
• If you are a Manager → Try to understand and integrate difficult people
• If you are a Majority → Reach out to the individual and be pro-active
• If you are an Expert → Share knowledge/mentor others for free
• If you are a Human → Stand up, when you see injustice!
4. Standing up!
BECAUSE, NOT EVERYONE HAS THE SAME CHANCES…