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LET’S DANCE!
Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers “Isn’t This A Lovely Day” from the movie “Top Hat” (1935) from the movie “Top Hat” (1935) from the movie “Top Hat” (1935) from the movie “Top Hat” (1935)
 
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Life is Relationships; The rest is just details. The rest is just details.
Everything in life that truly matters can be boiled down to Relationships
We are constantly involved with people. There is no escaping relationships. Unfortunately, we have developed patterns, cycles and behaviour that lead to a “destructive dance”. Unfortunately, we have developed patterns, cycles and behaviour that lead to a “destructive dance”. Unfortunately, we have developed patterns, cycles and behaviour that lead to a “destructive dance”. Unfortunately, we have developed patterns, cycles and behaviour that lead to a “destructive dance”.
Relationship Crisis ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Practically all individual, familial, societal, communal, national, and global crises, small or large, can be reduced to  one  thing -  the breakdown of relationships the breakdown of relationships
The DNA of Relationships ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
The Relational DNA Code ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
1.  You are made for relationships ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
You are made for 3 kinds of relationships ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
You have a relationship with others ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
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[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],You have a relationship with yourself
You have a relationship with God ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
When you have a healthy relationship with God, you are in the best position to see yourself as He sees you, which will result in a healthier relationship with yourself.  When it is not healthy, you cannot see yourself properly and you lack the power to change or enjoy life as He intended.  It gets more complicated when the other person also has an unhealthy relationship with God.  Then neither of you is seeing yourself clearly.  What happens then is that you begin to react to each other for the wrong reasons - sometimes with an inflated sense of who you are, and sometimes with a deflated sense of who you are.  If neither of you can see yourself accurately, how on earth do you expect the relationship to work?
Our relationship with God is the first and greatest relationship, and our ability to love others is directly related to our ability to love ourselves. All three relationships must be in balance. All three relationships must be in balance. All three relationships must be in balance.
2.  You are made with the capacity to choose ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
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Serenity Prayer God grant me the serenity  to accept the things I cannot change;  courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference. and wisdom to know the difference. and wisdom to know the difference.
3.  You are made to take responsibility for yourself ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
The dance that destroys relationships ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
The Dance of Fear Steps ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
The Damaging Fear Dance When someone pushes your fear button, you tend to react with unhealthy words or actions calculated to motivate the other person to change and give you what you want. Often your reaction triggers the core fear of the other person, who then reacts with unhealthy words or actions to try to get you to fulfill his or her wants. And suddenly the two of you end up in a full-blown Fear Dance.
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We can break the rhythm of the Fear Dance By identifying our core fears and by understanding that the other person isn’t the problem nor the solution, we can begin to learn new dance steps to healthier relationships
We need to learn new dance steps How? How? How?
Attend kayo ng next >2 episode...

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>2: Let's Dance

  • 2. Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers “Isn’t This A Lovely Day” from the movie “Top Hat” (1935) from the movie “Top Hat” (1935) from the movie “Top Hat” (1935) from the movie “Top Hat” (1935)
  • 3.  
  • 4.
  • 5. Life is Relationships; The rest is just details. The rest is just details.
  • 6. Everything in life that truly matters can be boiled down to Relationships
  • 7. We are constantly involved with people. There is no escaping relationships. Unfortunately, we have developed patterns, cycles and behaviour that lead to a “destructive dance”. Unfortunately, we have developed patterns, cycles and behaviour that lead to a “destructive dance”. Unfortunately, we have developed patterns, cycles and behaviour that lead to a “destructive dance”. Unfortunately, we have developed patterns, cycles and behaviour that lead to a “destructive dance”.
  • 8.
  • 9. Practically all individual, familial, societal, communal, national, and global crises, small or large, can be reduced to one thing - the breakdown of relationships the breakdown of relationships
  • 10.
  • 11.
  • 12.
  • 13.
  • 14.
  • 15.
  • 16.
  • 17.
  • 18. When you have a healthy relationship with God, you are in the best position to see yourself as He sees you, which will result in a healthier relationship with yourself. When it is not healthy, you cannot see yourself properly and you lack the power to change or enjoy life as He intended. It gets more complicated when the other person also has an unhealthy relationship with God. Then neither of you is seeing yourself clearly. What happens then is that you begin to react to each other for the wrong reasons - sometimes with an inflated sense of who you are, and sometimes with a deflated sense of who you are. If neither of you can see yourself accurately, how on earth do you expect the relationship to work?
  • 19. Our relationship with God is the first and greatest relationship, and our ability to love others is directly related to our ability to love ourselves. All three relationships must be in balance. All three relationships must be in balance. All three relationships must be in balance.
  • 20.
  • 21.
  • 22. Serenity Prayer God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference. and wisdom to know the difference. and wisdom to know the difference.
  • 23.
  • 24.
  • 25.
  • 26. The Damaging Fear Dance When someone pushes your fear button, you tend to react with unhealthy words or actions calculated to motivate the other person to change and give you what you want. Often your reaction triggers the core fear of the other person, who then reacts with unhealthy words or actions to try to get you to fulfill his or her wants. And suddenly the two of you end up in a full-blown Fear Dance.
  • 27.
  • 28.
  • 29. We can break the rhythm of the Fear Dance By identifying our core fears and by understanding that the other person isn’t the problem nor the solution, we can begin to learn new dance steps to healthier relationships
  • 30. We need to learn new dance steps How? How? How?
  • 31. Attend kayo ng next >2 episode...