1. Nov 2011
Love and Betrayal
Why Women Needs Commitment?
Why most men are disloyal?
By, Kaushal Mandalia
kaushalmandalia@gmail.com

2. Every woman Wants a man who calls her baby, kisses her like he means it, holds
her tight like he never wants to let go, doesn't make her jealous with other
women, instead makes other women jealous of her, is not afraid to let his friends
know how he really feels about her, and makes sure she knows how much he loves
her....
Women can have unending list of Expectation for Men... she requires all these
qualities in men for love to happen.... and men just need women to love.....
Women need many qualities in Men in order to select him as a partner. For men,
such restrictions normally are not applied. They got attracted to other women
easily. It happens with all men and no men under the sky are out of this. The
Misery is, if a man is attracted to other woman and they fall in any relationship, it
called as BETRAYAL – Courtesy: Emotional Atyachaar, Season 1 and Season 2. There
is a biological diversity in men and women and this diversity creates many
problem. Our social system is based on marriage, its based on the commitment.
When men falls in relationship outside this marriage system, its called betrayal. The
new version today is, when you are in relationship, women expects utmost
commitment from man. If any man could not live up to the commitment, then its
betrayal. Now we can only term man as disloyal, only if we expect that
commitment is the utmost priority in any relationship and nature helps man and
woman to live up to this commitment.
Let’s identify whether such gap is artificial and created by human race
or its natural

3. What is the sole purpose of life on
this planet earth? Why you are here?
Scientist and Spiritual Leaders came
to a consensus that we are a part of
random mutation and we are here to
make sure that existence of human
race continues in form of life on
planet earth. You are here to
reproduce, to make sure that travel
of your DNA remains unending.
Nature brings all things to you which
helps you to reproduce. The attraction between men and women is so strong,
that no one can stop it, no one can suppress it. Look at your body and their
functions, the moment you think for SEX, your body starts its preparation for
REPRODUCTION, it’s like your body does not want to leave any chance of error.
In this race for existence, duplication and reproduction, two elements required
for human race are SPERM and EGG. A Sperm meet an EGG in Ovary and that’s
where life begins.
In 28 days, A Woman releases one egg in fallopian tube. This EGG has all
potential to become a human body and continue the existence on planet earth.
While in case of men, in 28 days, they can release as many sperms, whose
count could be more than the total population of the planet earth. There is no
limitation on men to release sperms, there is no quota or restrictions. But in case
of Women, yes…in one month, there can be one egg only.
This diversity has psychological impact on the behavior of men and women.
Because of this diversity, it’s natural for men to get attracted to as many women
as possible. Whereas in case of woman, she wants commitment. She chooses
the right partner, who is strong enough to feed her children, to help her raising
her children. And she has to choose the best one. Woman requires time to fall in
love and for man, there is no limitation of time. They can fall in love within a
minute or second. A woman is the real chooser, and that’s why GOD gave her
powerful intuition which helps her to choose the right partner for reproduction.
Her desire for commitment is natural.

4. As nature reinforces the desire
of commitment in case of
woman, A Man’s desire for
other women is also Natural.
The real challenge is for man, to
control this desire in order
to sustain and protect the social
system, in benefit of the
generations. If we accept this
nature’s law, there is no
question for betrayal and love.
Both betrayal and love are two
sides of one coin, and this coin
represents Existence
(Evolution).