Great leaders build Trust, Engage and are Competent (TEC). After citing 187 white papers, articles and books on leadership, Ian Rheeder proved that leadership boils down to three TEC domains – Trust, Engagement and Competence. 649 leaders were trained to validate the TEC Leadership System (2013), and every single leader strongly agreed that the TEC System worked.
16. The Neuroscience
What the science has proven?
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1. Be the First to do a small favour (reciprocity)
2. Be Likable
1. Body language & tone (mirror neurons)
2. Similar to us (1:1 small talk doubles chances of winning a
negotiation)
3. Pay genuine compliments (positive feedback)
4. Cooperate (concede on something, win-win)
3. Consensus: when people at all levels follow the leader (law of social
acceptance), everyone starts to follow
Copyright Ian Rheeder
Trust
Empathy
21. People have an unconscious
aversion to being persuaded.
Harvard!Professor,!Thales!Teixeira.!The!New!Science!of!Viral!Ads.!!Harvard!Business!
Review,!Mar!2012,!p.25!
22. The Expert Negotiator
Trust is like a
squeeze tube – once
it’s squeezed out, it’s
difficult to push back
in.
Ian Rheeder, Markitects
So!how!do!you!persuade!then?!
28. Trust!before!Engagement!&!Competence!
1. TRUST: "What are my leader’s
intentions?”
2. ENGAGEMENT: “If there is no trust
(i.e. disgust), then their engagement
must be to manipulate me.”
3. COMPETENCE: "Is my leader
capable of acting on those intentions
(in #1 above)?”