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1. Social Charisma Secrets

2. Many people believe they need to
have some really interesting stories to
talk about to be interesting.

3. Sounds kind of logical, but it's not.

4. If you've ever seen a stand up
comedian, they usually talk about
pretty everyday stuff, right?

5. But it's how they talk about it that's
funny.

6. If you want to become a powerfully
mesmerizing speaker, either in one on
one situations, or in front of groups, all
you need is the stories you've got in
your head right now.

7. To start, speak with bigger gestures.

8. Congruent gestures. Don't be afraid to
show emotions on your face.

9. It seems pretty scary at first, but when
you really show a wide range of
emotions that exaggerate the stories
you're telling, you'll turn a normal
incident at a stop light into something
people will remember for days or even
weeks.

10. The second thing is to break the
stories up.

11. If you're halfway through a story,
suddenly switch into a similar story
without really finishing the first one.

12. If you do these a few times, you'll be
creating "open loops."

13. The brain HATES unfinished business,
so every time you "open a new loop" it
will create a more desire and attention
in your listener.

14. To make yourself even more
persuasive and magnetic, take some
time to think of the "emotional flavor"
of all your stories. Sad, happy, exciting,
surprising, discovery, etc.

15. Ultimately, these are the three things
you're aiming for:

16. 1) Use a wide range of facial
expressions and gestures

17. 2) Create and leave many open loops

18. 3) Take your listeners through several
different emotions in a few minutes
time

19. Now, this does take practice, but once
you get the hang of it, it's pretty fun.

20. You'll show up at a party or something,
and start talking about random,
everyday stuff, and people will think
you are some social charisma super
hero.

21. There's another way to generate
massive magnetism, and it's pretty
easy.

22. All you've got to do is simply pay
attention to, and become interested in
the person you are talking to.

23. After all, the most interesting thing to
anybody are things about themselves.

24. If you can get them talking about
things they are interested in, and ask
the right questions at the right time to
get them even MORE fired up, this will
also put you in the "social charisma
super hero" category in their mind.

25. All it takes is getting out there, getting
social, and having fun.

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