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SIT DOWN, SHUT UP
AND LISTEN
WHY ACTIVE LISTENING COULD BE THE MOST IMPORTANT
SKILL IN YOUR TOOLBOX
®
• Discover the real reason behind requirements or change requests
• Resolve communication problems between peers or the customer
• Avoid misunderstandings
• Sell that project to senior leadership
Active Listening
What sets you apart from others
®
®
®
Listening is Easy…Right?
Listening
45%
Speaking
30%
Reading
16%
Writing
9%
®
Distractions
®
Most people do not listen with the
intent to understand; they listen
with the intent to reply.
- Stephen Covey
®
Active Listening Helps With:
Understanding
Learning
Gaining Information
Building Trust
®
Sit Down ListenShut Up
Become a Better Active Listener:
®
Sit Down
(Non-Verbal)
®
Shut Up
(Pause)
®
Listen
(Understand)
®
Gain Trust
Reciprocated by Others
Solve Problems
Improve Productivity
Payoffs of Active Listening:
®
Ways to Increase Your Active Listening
• Observe Others
• Look for Listening Workshops
• Books/Audiobooks
• Madelyn Burley-Allen: Listening the Forgotten Skill
• Mark Goulston: Just Listen
Sit Down Shut Up Listen
®
“We have two ears and one
mouth, so we should listen
more than we say”
- Zeno of Citium
®
THANK YOU
Chanthaphonea@uberether.com
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Andrew Chanthaphone
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Sit down, shut up and listen

Notas do Editor

  1. Talk about the two main distractions 1.Man what’s for lunch today? Is she done yet? I already know the answer 2. (Pull out your phone) Oh what’s on twitter? The the nats fire rizzo yet? (add a big smile at end of that)
  2. <be silent to 5 seconds, let it martinate>
  3. Understand – Ensure you got everything the person said Example, I worked with a CO at a bank and was told why the bank is not allowed to send information from their IT dept in the USA to Luxembourg due to their internet laws Learn – Learn a new or existing process, maybe a new problem Example, understanding why offshore contractors required a different user prefix Information – is power Trust - #1 thing is to gain trust from your stakeholder – they will open up to you more
  4. Citium is pronounced Kee T um