7. What does it look like?
• Ephesians 6:4 “Fathers, do not exasperate
your children; instead, bring them up in the
training and instruction of the Lord”
8. What does it look like?
• Ephesians 6:4 “Fathers, do not exasperate
your children; instead, bring them up in the
training and instruction of the Lord”
• What would it look like to bring them up in the
training and instruction of the Lord?
10. Discipline
• This is one of the most draining and
exhausting aspects of parenting
11. Discipline
• This is one of the most draining and
exhausting aspects of parenting
• Youʼve got to set the boundary
12. Discipline
• This is one of the most draining and
exhausting aspects of parenting
• Youʼve got to set the boundary
• By setting the boundary you tell them who is
in charge
16. Ten Commandments of
Rock Your Family
• #1) I am the parent and you arenʼt
• You make the rules
• You set the boundaries
17. I Am The Parent
• The second you set the boundary they are
going to challenge it
18. I Am The Parent
• The second you set the boundary they are
going to challenge it
• When they challenge the boundary, you
must enforce it
19. I Am The Parent
• The second you set the boundary they are
going to challenge it
• When they challenge the boundary, you
must enforce it
• If children have no boundary, they have no
security
20. I Am The Parent
• Enforced in a good, loving way
21. I Am The Parent
• Enforced in a good, loving way
• If you let them move the boundary, they will
22. I Am The Parent
• Enforced in a good, loving way
• If you let them move the boundary, they will
• Teaching children how to obey God
23. I Am The Parent
• Enforced in a good, loving way
• If you let them move the boundary, they will
• Teaching children how to obey God
• The fence has to be clearly defined
24. I Am The Parent
• When the rules are enforced consistently
they feel loved
25. I Am The Parent
• When the rules are enforced consistently
they feel loved
• It is important that children experience the
consequences of overstepping the boundary
26. I Am The Parent
• When the rules are enforced consistently
they feel loved
• It is important that children experience the
consequences of overstepping the boundary
• Good consequences and bad
consequences
27. I Am The Parent
• You donʼt want to discipline in anger
28. I Am The Parent
• You donʼt want to discipline in anger
• You have to decide what the consequences
will be when your children are young
29. I Am The Parent
• You donʼt want to discipline in anger
• You have to decide what the consequences
will be when your children are young
• If you are married, the decision must be
made together
30. I Am The Parent
• You donʼt want to discipline in anger
• You have to decide what the consequences
will be when your children are young
• If you are married, the decision must be
made together
• It has to be done in a loving way that your
kids understand
