The document discusses the importance of nurturing different areas of life including the physical, intellectual, emotional, spiritual, and financial. It emphasizes that success is measured not by how high one rises, but by how they bounce back from failures. Critical success factors include having a positive attitude, strong communication skills, self-confidence, and being a team player. Only 10% of an individual is visible to others, while 90% relating to their attitudes, values, and beliefs lies below the surface. Building a positive attitude involves changing one's focus, continuous learning, developing gratitude, and strengthening self-esteem while avoiding negative influences. The key message is that our choices shape how we react to situations and live our lives.
3. Areas of Life We Need to Nurture ?
• Physical
• Intellectual
• Emotional
• Spiritual
• Financial.
4. Success ?
• Success is not measured by How high we go
up in life but by How many times we bounce
back when we fall down.
• Success in Life is not determined by How we
are doing compared with others, but by
How we are doing compared with what we
are capable of doing
5. Critical Success Factors
• Positive attitude
• Proficiency
• Communication skills (oral and written)
• Interpersonal skills
• Self Confidence
• Critical thinking and Problem Solving Skills
• Flexibility
• Self-motivation
• Teamwork
• Leadership.
6. Success of an Individual, Organisation
or Country depends on the Quality of
their People
Total Quality People
People with
Character, Integrity, Good Values
and a Positive Attitude.
13. Options Available
We cannot change our past
We cannot change the fact that
people will act in a certain way
We cannot change the inevitable
The only thing we can do is to Refine
our Attitude and Think Positive.
14. ATTITUDE ?
• Ones’ Feelings or Mood toward
Things, Circumstances or People
• A complex mental state involving
beliefs and feelings and values and
dispositions to act in certain ways
15. Your Behaviour
Reactive
Stimulus Response
Responsive
Stimulus My My Response
Choices
20. You must have Money
to be given MORE money!
If you are a “Happy Person",
you'll get MORE Happiness.
21. Effect of Environment
In a Positive Environment, a
marginal performer's output goes up
In a Negative Environment, a good
performer's output goes down.
22. Influencing Factors - Attitude
• Environment
Home, School, Work, Media, Cultural & Religious
Background, Traditions & Beliefs, Social & Political
environment
• Experience
With People and Events in our Life
• Education
Formal and informal Education and Learning from it.
23. Building Positive Attitude
• Change Focus, Look For Positive
• Make Habit of Doing it Now
• Develop an Attitude for Gratitude
• Get into Continuous Learning Program …
24. Knowledge
• Knowledge is piling up facts, wisdom is
simplifying it
• Learn to Learn
• Intelligence is Quickness to Learn
• Ability is the Skill to Apply what is learned
• Competence is the ability and the desire to apply
what is learned
• Desire is the Attitude that makes a skillful
person competent
• An Expert is someone who knows all the answers
if you ask the right question.
27. Building Positive Attitude
• Change Focus, Look For Positive
• Make Habit of Doing it Now
• Develop an Attitude for Gratitude
• Get into Continuous Learning Program
• Build a Positive Self Esteem
28. Factors Affecting Self Esteem
• Education
• Role Models
• Unfair Comparison
• Failure or Success – A Ripple Effect
• Failing and Failure
• Expectations
• Discipline.
29. Building Positive Attitude
• Change Focus, Look For Positive
• Make Habit of Doing it Now
• Develop an Attitude for Gratitude
• Get into Continuous Learning Program
• Build a Positive Self Esteem
• Stay Away from Negative Influences
• Learn to Like the Things that are required to be
Done
• Start Your Day with a Positive Note.
30. Refine Your Attitude
• Angry or Feel Dull – Analyse the Root Cause
Try to Solve the Problem, if You can
• Bad Mood – Avoid Communicating with Others
• Shouting or Fighting with Others – Apologise to them
• Somebody’s Action Makes you Wild – Control Yourself
Be Professional, Concentrate on Your Job
and Think Positive.
32. Your Choice
Life is all about choices
When you cut away all the junk, every
situation is a choice
You choose how you react to situations
You choose how people will affect your mood
You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood
It's your choice how you live life
33. The Choice is YOURS
With a Bad attitude
you can never have a positive day
With a Positive attitude
you can never have a bad day
34. Remember to . . .
Watch your definitions -
they become thoughts
Watch your thoughts -
they become words
Watch your words -
they become actions
Watch your actions -
they become your destiny
35. A Commitment
I am only one, but still I am one.
I cannot do everything, but still I can do something;
and because I cannot do everything,
I will not refuse to do something I can do
36. Next Step
Make a list of ten positive things you can say about
yourself and repeat them daily
Act as if you have achieved your goals even before they
come to pass
Don't miss an opportunity to say something positive to
someone else
Seek out friends that support you by giving you positive
feedback
Monitor any negative thoughts you might have
Use love, humour, hope, faith and courage to overcome
the obstacles of life.
37. 3-step positive attitude formula
1. Keep cool and coolly examine the
situation. Turn it upside down, inside
out, downside up and outside in.
2. Suddenly you realize it could have been
worse. Find out how and why it could have
been worse.
3. Finally, the good side of it will just appear
to you. This can happen gradually or in a
flash. It all depends on parts 1 and 2.