Better parenting

1. Better Parenting

2. Home is the place where
boys and girls first learn how
to limit their wishes, abide by
rules, and consider the
rights and needs of others

3. Children are born angels parent
make them frogs
Parenting starts from womb
Make home a place of happiness

4. Mother to teach the child to respect
father
Respect, even though it is taught at
school, must also be learned at home.
Parents have more influence with
regards to respect when compared to
the teachers

5. Love is learnt from mother
Teach them values, never
compromise
Birth Order - Gender Roles
Teach them sharing

6. Your children are the children of GOD,
don’t be possessive
Share financial problems with them
Never tell your child that I do not need
anything from you
Examine their demands

7. Family meetings 17 – 18 years
During family discussions child to be an
important person
Family should have one meal together
Do not scold while eating – only positive
talks, avoid hatred

8. Play with your child
Maintain good relationship
Do not compare them with others
Not worldly pleasures, extend
moral support & moral courage

9. He is unique person, respect his
personality
Listen, understand & believe them
Tell him that you love him very
much.
Provide them with unconditional
love

10. •
You reap what you sow, ensure you
sow the right seeds
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Set a good example for your children
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Provide your children with a lot of
verbal & physical affection

11. In the eyes of a child, you rank right up
there under GOD
Make time for your children
You cannot afford to make mistakes in
parenting – life is a final stage show

12. Peers tend to be for role models,
provide guidance, encouragement
Develop team work
Develop decision makings skills in
them

13. Closely monitor your child
Encourage and develop habit of
thinking
Train children for community life
Refuse to Criticize, argue & complain

14. If you plan for 1 year you will plant corn
If you plan for 10 years you will plant
trees
If you plan for 100 years you will give
education, training & teach them
values in life

15. View your parenting towards the
goal of producing an adult who can
live their own making wise choices
& decisions in life

16. Parents must give the child the best
of themselves & live in tune with their
momentary role, even controlling their
thoughts & feelings,
To play this role requires some selfeducation.

17. Always compliment them.
When your child is old enough, let
him make his own decisions and
take responsibility of the
consequences from that action.

18. Show love!
Tell your love. say, "I love you" often.
Hugs and kisses are great.
Never insult, embarrass or make fun of
your child – especially in public. This will
only affect his self-esteem.

19. Look at what is left and not what is lost
Life is like a tennis match if you want to
win you have to serve well, remember
the game starts with love all

20. FAMILY
Father
And
Mother
I
Love
You

21. Be a role model parent
Always give life the very best &
proud to be a parent

22. A Big Thank you
Appu Joseph Chacko
Life Skills Coach & Career Guide
CEO, Tattwa Centre of Excellence,
Tiruvalla
Mobile: 94474 14963
Email: jc.joseph@yahoo.com