This document discusses the importance of vulnerability for successful agile adoption. It argues that vulnerability involves uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure, and is the birthplace of innovation. However, many myths prevent people from being vulnerable, such as that it is a weakness. The document advocates recognizing and speaking about shame to build resilience, and outlines agile principles like welcoming changing requirements and self-organizing teams.
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MYTH #1: VULNERABILITY IS WEAKNESS
“Vulnerability sounds like truth and feels like
courage. Truth and courage aren’t always
comfortable, but they’re never weakness.”
Source: Brown, Brene. Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
Dr. Brené Brown
13. @andreagoulet
MYTH #1: VULNERABILITY IS WEAKNESS
“I want to experience your vulnerability but I
don’t want to be vulnerable. Vulnerability is
courage in you and inadequacy in me. I’m drawn
to your vulnerability but repelled by mine.”
Source: Brown, Brene. Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
Dr. Brené Brown
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MYTH #2: I DON’T DO VULNERABILITY
“We can’t opt out of the uncertainty, risk, and
emotional exposure that’s woven through our
daily experiences. Life is vulnerable.”
Source: Brown, Brene. Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
Dr. Brené Brown
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MYTH #2: I DON’T DO VULNERABILITY
“When we pretend that we can avoid
vulnerability we engage in behaviors that are
often inconsistent with who we want to be.”
Source: Brown, Brene. Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
Dr. Brené Brown
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MYTH #3: VULNERABILITY IS LETTING IT ALL HANG OUT
“Vulnerability is about sharing our feelings and
our experiences with people who have earned
the right to hear them.”
Source: Brown, Brene. Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
Dr. Brené Brown
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MYTH #3: VULNERABILITY IS LETTING IT ALL HANG OUT
“Trust is built one marble at a time.”
Source: Brown, Brene. Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
Dr. Brené Brown
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MYTH #4: WE CAN GO IT ALONE
“We simply can’t learn to be more vulnerable
and courageous on our own. Sometimes our first
and greatest dare is asking for support.”
Source: Brown, Brene. Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
Dr. Brené Brown
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MYTH #4: WE CAN GO IT ALONE
“Courage is contagious.”
Source: Brown, Brene. Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
Dr. Brené Brown
22. WHAT PREVENTS VULNERABILITY FROM TAKING ROOT?
SHAME
@andreagoulet
THE INTENSELY PAINFUL FEELING OR EXPERIENCE
OF BELIEVING WE ARE FLAWED AND THEREFORE
UNWORTHY OF LOVE AND BELONGING.
Source: Brown, Brene. Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
23. SHAME RESILIENCE REQUIRES THE FOLLOWING:
@andreagouletSource: Brown, Brene. Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
24. SHAME RESILIENCE REQUIRES THE FOLLOWING:
@andreagoulet
1. RECOGNIZING SHAME AND
UNDERSTANDING ITS TRIGGERS
Source: Brown, Brene. Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
25. SHAME RESILIENCE REQUIRES THE FOLLOWING:
@andreagoulet
1. RECOGNIZING SHAME AND
UNDERSTANDING ITS TRIGGERS
2. PRACTICING CRITICAL AWARENESS
Source: Brown, Brene. Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
26. SHAME RESILIENCE REQUIRES THE FOLLOWING:
@andreagoulet
1. RECOGNIZING SHAME AND
UNDERSTANDING ITS TRIGGERS
2. PRACTICING CRITICAL AWARENESS
3. REACHING OUT
Source: Brown, Brene. Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
27. SHAME RESILIENCE REQUIRES THE FOLLOWING:
@andreagoulet
1. RECOGNIZING SHAME AND
UNDERSTANDING ITS TRIGGERS
2. PRACTICING CRITICAL AWARENESS
3. REACHING OUT
4. SPEAKING SHAME
Source: Brown, Brene. Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead