In a talk delivered to the Family Online Safety Institute's annual conference in November 2015, Lenhart looked a broad themes around how teenagers use social media and mobile phones to create, maintain and end friendships and romantic relationships. Also includes basic statistics on teen internet use, social media platforms and device ownership.
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How American Teens Use Social and Mobile Technology for Friendship and Romance - FOSI Annual Conference November 2015
1. How American Teens Use Social &
Mobile Technology for Friendship and
Romance
Amanda Lenhart
FOSI | Annual Conference November 2015
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73% of Teens Have Access to a Smartphone
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Frequency of Internet Use by Teens
% of teens ages 13 to 17 who use the internet with the following frequencies
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Facebook, Instagram and Snapchat Top Social Media Platforms
For Teens
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Not than many teens using other sites of online
interaction
• 22% of teens use online pinboards (e.g., Pinterest,
Polyvore). 33% of girls use online pinboards, 11% of
boys use them.
• 17% of teens read or comment on online discussion
boards like reddit or digg.
• 11% of teens with cell phones have used anonymous
apps and sites like Whisper, YikYak or AskFM
6. Teens use social and mobile tech for romance & friendship…but
they don’t meet partners online for romantic relationships
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57% of All Teens Make
New Friends Online
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Teens Meeting Online Friends In-Person
• Often friends-of-friends, or part of extended network.
• Vet new friends using video and voice to ensure that they are a peer.
• Meet them with other friends, in public places.
“I used iMessage and I joined a group with a couple of my friends, and my friend
invited one of his friends. And then we all just kind of met through the group chat.”
– middle school boy
“I hang out with my friends and I tell [online friends] to hang out with us … I make sure
they FaceTime me so I can see them, and not some 42 year old guy.” – high
school boy
“I've met a person over Instagram, actually. And, I mean, you...it's not like you just kind
of comment on their picture like, hey, here's my number. Text me and let's hang
out. Like you can do that. But for me, I DMed the person. Direct messaged them.
And we talked for about a week, and then I decided he actually seems kind of chill.
I'm going to give him my number. And then I took it slow, like, ‘cause meeting
someone over the Internet isn't always the best idea. So if you’re going to do it,
like do it very carefully.” – high school girl
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Video Games and Friendships
Games are a critical site of friendship formation and interaction for boys
For boys who have made friends online, video games are on par with social
media as a site for making new friendships
52% of boys make new friends on social media sites; 57% make new friends
playing video games online
78% of girls make friends through social media; just 13% of girls make friends
through games.
78% of teen online gamers say when they play games online it makes them
feel more connected to friends they already know.
52% of online-gaming teens feel more connected to other gamers (whom they
do not consider friends) they play with online.
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Social Media as Conduit for Connection
& Social Support
83% of social media users say social media makes them feel more connected
to information about their friends’ lives.
70% of social media-using teens feel better connected to their friends’ feelings
via social media.
60% of teen social media users have had people on the platforms supporting
them through tough or challenging times.
59% of teens with relationship experience say social media makes them feel
more connected to what is happening in their romantic partner’s life.
44% of teen daters say social media helps them feel emotionally closer to their
romantic partner.
63% of teens with dating experience have posted or liked something on social
media as a way to indicate their support of one of their friends’ relationships.
11. Display & Performance of Self
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Social media platforms are sites of carefully calibrated displays
85% of teen social media users agree
that people get to show different
sides of themselves on social media
that they cannot show offline.
77% of social media-using teens agree
people are less authentic and real
on social media than they are
offline.
40% of teen social media users report
feeling pressure to post only content
that makes them look good to
others.
39% of teens on social media say they
feel pressure to post content that
will be popular and get lots of
comments or likes.
“It allows you to show, like, a different side
of yourself. … I mean, you can talk
about different things. If you're in
person with them, you can joke
around. But then like if you're texting
with them or talking about something
serious, you can talk about serious
things and politics and stuff, and it
shows a different side of yourself that
you might not talk about with them in
person.” – high school girl
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Display & Performance of Relationships
37% of teens with relationship experience have used social media to let their
partner know how much they like them in a way that was visible to other
people in their network.
47% of teen daters say social media makes them feel like they have a place to
show how much they care about their boyfriend, girlfriend or significant
other.
“Yeah. You need to have the padlock emoji with the heart and two people
holding hands.”
On how girls show interest in Instagram:
“Emojis, but the main way you’re going to
know is like when they first say ‘hey.’ How
many y’s do they put on their ‘hey?’”
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Challenges with Relationships & Social Media
Loss of control over presentation of self - 42% of social media-using teens have
had someone post things about them that they cannot change or control
Oversharing – 88% of teen social media users believe that people share too
much information about themselves on social media
Over-involvement – 69% of teen daters agree that too many people can see
what’s happening in their relationship on social media
Uncertainty – information you see online can be hard to interpret, leading to
jealousy and uncertainty in romantic relationships. 27% of teen daters say
social media makes them feel jealous or unsure of their relationships.
Negative feelings – 21% of teen social media users feel worse about their
own life because of what they see from other friends on social media.
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Few Teens Engage in Annoying or Harmful Behaviors Towards
Current or Ex-Partners
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A Small Share of Teens
Have Experienced
Controlling or Harmful
Behaviors from a
Current or Former
Romantic Partner
% of teens with dating experience who have
experienced the following from a current
or former romantic partner…
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Takeaways
• Smartphones are reshaping our digital landscape
• Teens meet friends online, fewer romantic partners
• Video games are important sites of friendship for many
boys
• Social media = places of connection, support and
display…
• …but also of pressure, oversharing, jealousy and in a few
cases, control and harm
How Teens Use Tech For Peer Relationships - Lenhart
Source: Pew Research Center’s Teens Relationships Survey, Sept 25-Oct. 9, 2014 and Feb 10 – March 15, 2015. (n=1060 teens ages 13 to 17). From the report, Teens, Social Media and Technology Overview 2015: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/04/09/teens-social-media-technology-2015/
Source: Pew Research Center’s Teens Relationships Survey, Sept 25-Oct. 9, 2014 and Feb 10 – March 15, 2015. (n=1060 teens ages 13 to 17). From the report, Teens, Social Media and Technology Overview 2015: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/04/09/teens-social-media-technology-2015/
Source: Pew Research Center’s Teens Relationships Survey, Sept 25-Oct. 9, 2014 and Feb 10 – March 15, 2015. (n=1060 teens ages 13 to 17). From the report, Teens, Social Media and Technology Overview 2015: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/04/09/teens-social-media-technology-2015/
Source: Pew Research Center’s Teens Relationships Survey, Sept 25-Oct. 9, 2014 and Feb 10 – March 15, 2015. (n=1060 teens ages 13 to 17). From the report, Teens, Social Media and Technology Overview 2015: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/04/09/teens-social-media-technology-2015/
Source: Pew Research Center’s Teens Relationships Survey, Sept 25-Oct. 9, 2014 and Feb 10 – March 15, 2015. (n=1060 teens ages 13 to 17). From the report, Teens, Technology and Romantic Relationships: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/10/01/teens-technology-and-romantic-relationships/
Source: Pew Research Center’s Teens Relationships Survey, Sept 25-Oct. 9, 2014 and Feb 10 – March 15, 2015. (n=1060 teens ages 13 to 17). Data from Teens, Technology and Friendships Report, http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/08/06/teens-technology-and-friendships/
Source: Pew Research Center’s Teens Relationships Survey, Sept 25-Oct. 9, 2014 and Feb 10 – March 15, 2015. (n=1060 teens ages 13 to 17). Teens, Technology and Friendships Report http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/08/06/teens-technology-and-friendships/ and from Teens, Technology and Romantic Relationships Report: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/10/01/teens-technology-and-romantic-relationships/
52% making new friends on social media sites | 57% making new friends playing video games online (34% all teen boys)
78% of teen online gamers say when they play games online it makes them feel more connected to friends they already know. [42% of all teens ages 13 to 17.]
52% of online-gaming teens feel more connected to other gamers (whom they do not consider friends) they play with online. [28% of all teens ages 13 to 17.]
Source: Pew Research Center’s Teens Relationships Survey, Sept 25-Oct. 9, 2014 and Feb 10 – March 15, 2015. (n=1060 teens ages 13 to 17). From the report, Teens, Technology and Friendships: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/08/06/teens-technology-and-friendships/
Boys are somewhat more likely than girls to say social media facilitates deeper connections (65% vs. 52% of girls) and closeness (50% vs. 37% of girls).
Source: Pew Research Center’s Teens Relationships Survey, Sept 25-Oct. 9, 2014 and Feb 10 – March 15, 2015. (n=1060 teens ages 13 to 17). Source: Pew Research Center’s Teens Relationships Survey, Sept 25-Oct. 9, 2014 and Feb 10 – March 15, 2015. (n=1060 teens ages 13 to 17). From the reports, Teens, Technology and Romantic Relationships: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/10/01/teens-technology-and-romantic-relationships/ and Teens, Technology and Friendships: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/08/06/teens-technology-and-friendships/
Source: Source: Pew Research Center’s Teens Relationships Survey, Sept 25-Oct. 9, 2014 and Feb 10 – March 15, 2015. (n=1060 teens ages 13 to 17). From the report, Teens, Technology and Romantic Relationships: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/10/01/teens-technology-and-romantic-relationships/ and Teens, Technology and Friendships: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/08/06/teens-technology-and-friendships/
Source: Pew Research Center’s Teens Relationships Survey, Sept 25-Oct. 9, 2014 and Feb 10 – March 15, 2015. (n=1060 teens ages 13 to 17). From the report, Teens, Technology and Romantic Relationships: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/10/01/teens-technology-and-romantic-relationships/
Source: Pew Research Center’s Teens Relationships Survey, Sept 25-Oct. 9, 2014 and Feb 10 – March 15, 2015. (n=1060 teens ages 13 to 17). From the report, Teens, Technology and Romantic Relationships: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/10/01/teens-technology-and-romantic-relationships/ and Teens, Technology and Friendships: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/08/06/teens-technology-and-friendships/
Source: Pew Research Center’s Teens Relationships Survey, Sept 25-Oct. 9, 2014 and Feb 10 – March 15, 2015. (n=1060 teens ages 13 to 17). From the report, Teens, Technology and Romantic Relationships: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/10/01/teens-technology-and-romantic-relationships/
Source: Pew Research Center’s Teens Relationships Survey, Sept 25-Oct. 9, 2014 and Feb 10 – March 15, 2015. (n=1060 teens ages 13 to 17). From the report, Teens, Technology and Romantic Relationships: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/10/01/teens-technology-and-romantic-relationships/
Source: Pew Research Center’s Teens Relationships Survey, Sept 25-Oct. 9, 2014 and Feb 10 – March 15, 2015. (n=1060 teens ages 13 to 17). Teens and Technology and Friendships Report: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/08/06/teens-technology-and-friendships/, Teens, Technology and Romantic Relationships: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/10/01/teens-technology-and-romantic-relationships/ and Teens, Social Media and Technology Overview 2015: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/04/09/teens-social-media-technology-2015/
Source: Pew Research Center’s Teens Relationships Survey, Sept 25-Oct. 9, 2014 and Feb 10 – March 15, 2015. (n=1060 teens ages 13 to 17). Teens and Technology and Friendships Report http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/08/06/teens-technology-and-friendships/, Teens, Technology and Romantic Relationships: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/10/01/teens-technology-and-romantic-relationships/ and Teens, Social Media and Technology Overview 2015: http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/04/09/teens-social-media-technology-2015/