1.
By : Access
Consciousness

2.
Introduction
• The nature of the relationships is
simple: depending on the situations
sometimes you give more and
sometimes the other party gives
more. Generally, most of us tend to
think that because of the way we
treat others, other people will put
the same level of effort in return. In
fact, it's not always true. The
situation remains good while the
"give and take" principle balances
out. But I've discovered that not
everyone prefers playing by these
rules. This is when the
disappointment may come.

3.
Tips to Control Your Expectations and Find Happiness
• Improve your reality or lower your
expectations
• Accept without reservation and give
without expectation
• Expect the unexpected with a positive
attitude to life

4.
• Unrealistic expectations of life lead to total disappointment. Too often we
become so obsessed with getting the ideal partner or perfect job that find
ourselves in frustration when this doesn't happen. Sometimes, we don't
allow ourselves to enjoy the experience altogether focusing narrowly on
particular circumstances and living up to preconceived notions. If you feel
this way, don't stay on this dead-end road any longer.

5.
Accept Without Reservation and Give Without
Expectation
• Respecting people means allowing them to be themselves. It's true that you can't
change others. In fact, you shouldn't even try. I learned from experience that when
you leave off expecting others to act in a certain way, you begin to appreciate
them in the right manner. Usually, when you try hard to change someone, it brings
nothing but disappointments as they remain the same. But just let it go, allow
others to be as they are and you'll see the extraordinary transformation.

6.
Expect the Unexpected With a Positive
Attitude to Life
• Keep in mind that sooner or later life
will throw you a curveball. When
hard times come, remain confident
maintaining a positive attitude,
instead of sinking into a depression.
Don't rake over the dust and ashes of
the past, but look to the future with
aspirations. Just remember not to
make them too unreachable. When it
comes to expectations, there is one
paradoxical issue. If they are too high,
you risk ending up disappointed. But
if you don't have expectations at all,
your motivation to accomplish a goal
amounts to nothing. The balance
between these tendencies can save
you from the perfectionism, which is
far from a healthy lifestyle.

7.
Expectations and Happiness
• I think that many Get Rich Slowly readers have found this to be true. I
know that I have. I used to feel that I deserved to have nice things, that I
was entitled to have a new car and a big house and the latest gadgets. I
wanted to have what my parents had — but I wanted it when I was 30
instead of 50. Because my expectations were high, I spent to meet them.

8.
• Access Consciousness is a life changing company
that is based on the idea that you know and that
your choice is what will create your future.