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2   December 2010  The African Professional - Houston   WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG
EDITORIAL NOTE
  W
           ELCOME to the
           second edition
           of The African
  Professional-Houston.
                                                                                                          CONTENTS                 FOUNDER’S WORD
  The purpose of this
  Journal is to build upon                                                                                                      PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE
  the mission and vision                                                                                                            2010 AT A GLANCE
  of AFRIPRO Houston
  and celebrating Africa                                                                                                              AfriPRO Houston
  through editorial pieces
  and special highlights.
                                                                                                                                 Business & Economics
                                                                                                                                       Socio-Political
  The purpose of AfriPRO
  Houston is to motivate                                                                                                                Arts & Leisure
  its network of African                                                                                                                   Editorial
  professionals to build
  a new positive image
  of Africa by organizing                                                                                                     The African Professional Houston
  business, charitable,                                                                                                       :: 2ND EDITION ::
  and professional networking events that inform, educate,

                                                                                                         EDITORIAL STAFF
  empower, and celebrate Africa and Africans.                                                                                FOUNDER, AfriPRO Houston Folake Ayoola

  This edition features “Africa: Our True Image” and our                                                               PRESIDENT, AfriPRO Houston 2010 Okechukwu Ofili
  aim is to show areas where Africans and Africa as a
  continent have worked to affect positive change through                                                                               EDITOR-IN-CHIEF
                                                                                                                                     Clementina Nwanekezie
  the Profiles in Business, Charitable Organization, Educa-
  tion, Entertainment and International Affairs as well as our                                                                       :: EDITORIAL TEAM ::
  editorial on POLITICS: Vote or Quench. Additionally, the
  Journal has five sections that will be present in every issue:                                                              MARKETING & CONTRIBUTING EDITOR
  AfriPRO Houston, Business &Economics, Socio-Political,                                                                           Joso-Fatimaah Menefee
  Arts & Leisure, and Editorial.
                                                                                                                           CONTRIBUTING CONSULTANT Linda Anukwuem
  AfriPRO Houston has been very active this year- we have
                                                                                                                                 GRAPHICS DESIGN Myrna Galan
  included some pictures and narratives of our programs                                                                             www.galangraphix.com
  and activities inside the AfriPRO Houston section of the
  Journal and website: www.afriprohouston.org. On behalf                                                                      PRINT PRODUCTION Copy Plus Printing
  of the editorial committee, I would like to thank all those
  who contributed content and articles to this second edi-
  tion; you made the publication possible.

  I encourage AfriPRO Houston members and non members
  to contribute articles to upcoming editions of the Journal.                                                         OUR MISSION
                                                                                                                       is to motivate African professionals to build
  Thank you.
                                                                                                                      a new positive image of and appreciation for
                                                       Clementina Nwanekezie
                               Editor-in-Chief, The African Professional Houston                                       Africa and Africans by organizing business,
                                                                                                                         charitable, and professional networking
                                                                                                                       events that inform, educate, empower, and
The African Professional – Houston (ISSN 2152-0593) is a biannual publication by AfriPRO Hous-
ton. No portion of this publication may be reproduced in part or whole for any use whatsoever                                 celebrate Africa and Africans.
without the permission of the publisher. For reprint information, email taph@afriprohouston.org.
Opinions expressed in AfriPRO Houston do not necessarily express those of AfriPRO Houston or
AfriPRO Houston. No information in this journal shall be construed as legal, fi nancial, or medical
advice. The publication of any advertisement, advertorial, or article by AfriPRO Houston does not                            www.afroprohouston.org
constitute an endorsement of that product, service, or position. AfriPRO Houston reserves the right
to refuse any article, advertisement, or advertorial. Only the publication of an article or advertise-
ment shall constitute final acceptance.

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FOUNDER’S WORD                                                                                         BOARD of
                                                                                                      DIRECTORS

    O
                   n behalf of AfriPRO Houston (AH), I am delighted
                   to welcome you to another edition of our Afri-
                   PRO Houston Journal – The African Professional
                   – themed “Our True Image.” AfriPRO Houston’s
    mission is to build a new positive image of and appreciation
    for Africa and Africans by informing, educating, empowering,
    and celebrating Africa ad Africans through various program-
    ming and events, including the publishing of editorial pieces
    and special highlights. It is our hope that, with this Journal,
    we are able to appeal to a wide readership, while presenting
    interesting and informative articles about Africa and Africans.                                    Folake Ayoola, Founder
    As always, AH has been very active this year. As such, we have included some pictures and
    narrative of our programs and activities in this edition. On behalf of the entire AH family,
    I extend profound thanks to the Editor-in-Chief, Clementina Nwanekezie, and the entire
    editorial staff for working tirelessly on this edition.

    We just concluded six years of serving our community through various programs, includ-
    ing our very successful scholarship program where we awarded $5,000 to deserving col-
    lege & high school students; our mentoring program, our African Business Expo and other
    professional development programming and charitable outreach. Each year AH waxes
    stronger because of the tireless efforts of outstanding individuals. I use this opportunity        Folasayo “Babs” Ayoola
    to applaud AH’s Leadership for stepping up to the task, yet again, in 2010. Under the
    direction of our president, Okechukwu Ofili, and with the hard work of members of all
    committees, particularly the Executive Committee, we have been able to strengthen our
    established programs & expand our membership base. With the navigation of the Board
    and the tireless efforts of the Executives, we met our expectations for 2010.

    With our 7th year in sight, we are still committed to expanding our membership base. We
    will continue to pursue the advancement of our mission and objectives, strengthen our
    existing programs and honor our commitment by organizing business and professional
                                                                                                     Abayomi “Qudus” Majiyagbe
    networking events as well as community focused programming. I thank all our sponsors,
    in particular Arik Air and Efficient Home Care, as well as all other individuals and orga-
    nizations who have stood with us and supported our programs and activities. We greatly
    appreciate your support and goodwill, and thank you for identifying with the ideals of our
    association.

    I thank AH members–particularly those who powered AH Committees and those who at-
    tended our events or contributed to our programming–for your continued support. I am
    profoundly grateful to the Board for your service and to the Executives for your hard work
    and dedication. This year could not have been the success it was without you. Thank you!            Oluwaseun Oyeniran


    I conclude with hope and confidence that we will meet the task set before us in the com-
    ing year. We are always mindful of the challenges that lie ahead but we remain steadfastly
    attentive to the numerous opportunities available to be harnessed for the organization. I
    humbly ask that you continue to support us with your time, efforts, and resources. I wish
    you all a merry Christmas and a Happy New Year in advance.

                                            With gratitude,
                                            Folake K. Ayoola, Esq.
                                            Founder and Chair of the Board of Directors                  Kingsley Ewetuya
                                            2005 to 2007 President


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2010 EXECUTIVE                                      PRESIDENT’S
                COMMITTEE
                                                                         Message
                                                                  I
                                                                      have been involved with AfriPRO Houston
                                                                      for over 5 years and have been blessed
                                                                      with the opportu-
                                                                  nity to work with great
                                                                  people with a pas-
     Ugonwanne Onwudiegwu                Linda Anukwuem
           Vice President                Fundraising Officer       sion for serving their
                                                                  community. My ten-
                                                                  ure as President in
                                                                  2010 has been one
                                                                  of my most exciting
                                                                  and most fulfilling
                                                                  years within the or-
                                                                  ganization. We were
   Clementina (Tina) Nwanekezie             Nene Otum             able to double our
              Secretary                   Publicity Officer
                                                                  past year scholarship
                                                                  amount by giving out
                                                                  $5000 to college students in need. We also
                                                                  raised over $1000 to help buy SAT College
                                                                  Prep tutorial books for high school students
                                                                  to name a few. But more important than fi-
                                                                  nances were the individuals (too many to
                                                                  mention) who sacrificed their time and ef-
          Temilolu Ayoola              Humphrey Nnadiotu
              Treasurer              Community Relations Officer   fort to ensure this year was a success...
                                                                  individuals that sacrificed their thanksgiving
                                                                  holiday to serve the homeless, individuals
                                                                  that got up early in the morning passing out
                                                                  fliers to register voters, the individuals who
                                                                  spent hours and hours judging over 50
                                                                  scholarship applications, individuals who
                                                                  hosted us at their businesses or homes and
      Vincent Taharq Vereen              Ijeoma Udenkwo           those that came out to our events to simply
   Professional Development Officer       Membership Officer
                                                                  support…we appreciate you.

                                                                  To one of the greatest executive boards
                                                                  I have had the honor to work with…thank
                                                                  you for making my job easy…but most
                                                                  especially thank you for making the posi-
                                                                  tion fulfilling and fun. I am excited about the
                                                                  prospects of AfriPRO Houston’s growth un-
          Uche Chibueze              Mireille Laure Mekontso
      Community Service Officer            Technical Officer        der the leadership of Ugo Onwudiegwu, an
                                                                  individual who shares the vision and pas-
                                                                  sion and understanding of what it means
                                                                  to be AfriPRO Member. We can only grow
                                                                  bigger and better.
                                                                                              Okechukwu Ofili
                                                                                     AfriPRO Houston President 2010

          Ngozi Ndukwe                    Temi Siyande
             Gala Chair                  Scholarship Chair
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ARTS & LEISURE
    MEMOIRS OF AN IMMIGRANT:

    The Metamorphosis of the
    AFRICAN
        WOMAN
    I
        heard the words come out from my Mum’s mouth, but         dren. Even when the husband was physically abusive to
        I was too shocked to understand any of it. Mike had       his wife, the woman held on to the marriage. A sacrificial
        killed his father and committed suicide days after be-    act perpetrated to eradicate the creation of more Mikes
        ing arrested for drug possession. What pushed a child     in the world. But was the sacrifice necessary?
    so sweet and so lucky towards these acts? I remembered
    the times I stayed up in bed early cursing at my parents      According to the September 19th Washington Post article,
    for forcing us to go to bed early, but as I lay in bed that   the divorce rate in New Delhi, the capital city of India
    night, my heart heaved a painful sign of appreciation. I      has almost doubled. The main reason being the western
    had what Mike never had, a strong and loving family.          cultural influence. An influence absorbed by thousands
                                                                  of immigrants that empowers its women to speak out
    Quoting www.indidivorce.com “statistics show that only        against injustice “[In Korea] 66.7% of divorces in 2003
    1 out of 100 Indian marriages end up to a divorce…            were initiated by women, compared to 30.6% by men.”
    in comparison 50% of America’s marriages turning into         Injustice that in Nigeria would typically have been looked
    divorce [break ups].” Due to the large rural population       at as a necessary sacrifice. A sacrifice that Elizabeth
    and incomplete records, the divorce rate in Nigeria is        made for years as she was physically abused in her own
    largely unknown, but I would estimate it to be close to       home by the very same man that promised to love her
                                                                             for better for worse. But Elizabeth stayed. She
                                                                             fought hard but could never overcome the
                     Excerpts of “Lady” by Fela:
                                                                             strength of her monstrous husband, who in
                                                                             unpredictable but intermittent emotional rage
     African woman go dance she go dance the fire dance                       proceeded to beat her night after night. An act
               She know him man na Master                                    that occurred in the full view of her children
                    She go cook for am                                       and a nation slowly awakening to the rights of
                 She go do anything he say                                   a woman. For nights she cried but culture and
                     But Lady no be so                                       religion chose to keep quiet. Family mem-
                                                                             bers wandered around like they never saw the
                                                                             bruises or heard the cries…a norm in Africa
    the figures reflected in India. In Nigeria divorce is not     now frowned upon by legions of Nigerian re-immigrants.
    an option, it was taboo looked down upon by religious         It was in that same state that Mary found herself. What
    bodies and traditional cultures. In our eyes marriage         started out as an American dream for Mary turned into
    was permanent and I could understand why. Many times          a nightmare, like Elizabeth, Mary was exposed to nights
    dissolved marriages created more and more Mikes in the        of physical abuse. But unlike Nigeria her new community
    world. Children groomed in an atmosphere of artificial        chose to listen to her cries, chose to see her wounds and
    love who ended up losing out on the defining lessons of       chose to stand up against her injustice. Using the power
    life. So Nigerian couples tended to stay together in a bid    of divorce, Mary opted out of her nightmare. Taking with
    to maintain an artificial family atmosphere for their chil-   her a two year old child. Mary had overcome her abusive

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husband, but now had to overcome the world as single            Fela Anikulapo Kuti would say an empowered sophisticat-
mother faced with the gargantuan task of raising a child.       ed lady. In his upbeat hit song “Lady,” Fela takes a satiri-
Mary tried her best, but like Mike another child was bred       cal look at this trend comparing and contrasting between
confused and lost, a cultural embarrassment to the elders       a typical African woman and the newly evolving western-
of Nigeria and another ubiquitous by-product of a west-         ized African woman. In his song he portrays the African
ern culture saturated with divorce.                             woman as one willing to accept the man as the master,
                                                                but the “Lady” on the other hand is soiled with western
What should Mary have done, should she have sacrificed          influence and believes the man should wash plates and
herself for the mirage of a quasi marriage? That question       share in the household chores.
is answered with a startling “no” by Nigerian female im-
migrants to America. Who frown at the thought of staying        So what is best? A woman that sacrifices herself to up-
in an abusive marriage. A thought that is often preceded        hold a family, or a woman that speaks up against palpa-
with the mindset of an independent woman. A woman               ble injustice. I don’t know the answer, I wish I did. But as
whose idea of marriage is one in which both husband             I stare at that girl swaddled in the warm linen of blankets
and wife are equally responsible for the financial and so-      with that glistened look in her eyes. I can’t help but think
cial aspects of the family. But in the traditional definition   about Mike. Who shall we produce what shall we be-
of marriage that has never been the case. The man has           come? I don’t know but in the cold of the night I come to
always been marked as the head of the household with            realize that part of the solution lies in me. The man.
a woman there to support him. But this trend of female
                                                                                       Okechukwu Ofili
independence is fast engulfing the Nigerian landscape                              Author | Speaker | Coach
as the typical definition of an obedient African woman is                            ofili@ofilispeaks.com
now replaced with that of an empowered woman or as                    Copyright © 2010 Ofili Speaks, Inc. All rights reserved




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BUSINESS & ECONOMICS


    A Woman’s Worth
                Women-Owned Businesses Poised to Impact National and Global Economies
                Powerful. Tenacious. Commanding. Persistent.
                  Courageous. Brave. Daring. Determined.

                         We are here - 10.4 million strong.

                We are enthusiastic motivators and excited
          cheerleaders. We are the best at building relationships.
            We are women. We are caring nurturers, consistent
             hand-holders, boo boo kissers. We are mothers.




    W
                 e are also starting and           and grow our human resources with
                 building businesses at a          talented people? How do we do
                 faster rate than any other        more than remain afloat?
                 segment in the United
    States, with an estimated 10.4 million         Women-owned businesses are
    companies and growing. Together,               poised to increase jobs tremen-
    we spend more than $546 million                dously, decrease the unemployment
    dollars a year to pay salaries and
    benefits to our valued employees so
    they can care for their own families.                       WE NEED:
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                                                   • Robust financial and business        and globally, and help our country
    So why are women businesses still                plans that gain the attention of    climb out of its recession.
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    nominally to our family’s household              companies.                          We are here. The Women CEO Proj-
    income, as opposed to creating self-                                                 ect was created to provide women
    sustaining, million dollar enterprises         • Access to capital, relationships    entrepreneurs and business owners,
    that can provide for our children’s              with our business bankers and       not only motivation, but the essential
    children?                                        knowledge of our companies’         strategic support necessary for ap-
                                                     cash flows.                          preciable business and professional
    Do we lack vision? Or is our vision                                                  growth.
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2010
     A
                    friPRO Houston was founded in 2005 as a chapter of the bers and the community at large about
                                                                                               how to network with business leaders,
                    Global African Professionals Network (AfriPRO). Experienc- and with our expert panelist this year’s
                    ing steady growth since inception, our programming now topics ranged from How to Start a Busi-
                                                                                               ness, Resource for Business Startups,
                reaches hundreds of professionals in the Greater Houston and Creating Savings Plan.
     area and beyond. Our membership consists of attorneys, doctors, phar-
     macists, engineers, nurses, accountants, IT specialists, and entrepre-                        Professional Networking
                                                                                               AfriPRO Houston hosts monthly profes-
     neurs, to mention but a few.                                                              sional networking events to foster and
                                                                                               promote in African professionals, among
         Our 2010 Programming                       • AfriPRO Houston SAT Tutorial: ear-       other things, a sense of responsibility to-
                                                      lier in the year, we facilitated with    ward their communities. The year 2010
     Community Outreach & Service                     another organization to assist with      has been filled with many activities de-
     AfriPRO Houston seeks to support                 MATH/SAT tutoring.                       signed to cater to the diverse tastes of
     and promote in African professionals                                                      our members. Some of the activities:
     a sense of responsibility toward their         • Census Count: Members of Afri-
     communities and provide them with                PRO Houston had partnered with           AfriPRO UHNSA event: AfriPRO exec-
     opportunities to engage in charitable            the Census count for our commu-          utive members and members joined in
     activities and community based pro-              nity service and door to door out-       a panel discussion about giving back
     gramming. Below are some exam-                   reach on April 17th 2010                 the community, challenges and suc-
     ples of our programming:                                                                  cess after school, to the University of
                                                      Professional Development &               Houston Nigeria Student Association.
     • The AfriPRO Houston Mentoring Pro-               Educational Workshops
       gram is a structured program de-             We seek to foster a stimulating and        Welcome To Lagos event: This event
       signed to give our members the               interactive environment for African pro-   was geared towards educating mem-
       platform to support the development          fessionals to grow in their local com-     bers about the documentary by BBC
       of one another and others who are            munity and we encourage profes-            “This is Lagos”, followed by active
       less experienced. In this program,           sional excellence in the workplace by      group discussions of the documenta-
       we matched mentors with mentees to           fostering individual development. In       ry as it affects our life in the Diaspora.
       support specific goals including lead-       addition, we help facilitate increased
       ership development and career path           communication, interaction, and the        AfriPRO Houston Annual Holiday
       selection and provided group oppor-          exchange of ideals among African           Gala Awards 2010: This event geared
       tunities for mentoring to take place.        professionals, enabling them to learn      towards honoring outstanding mem-
                                                    new skills and acquire knowledge           bers of our community at large, This
     • Volunteerism: We volunteered at the          from each other. Below are some ex-        year we honor Indego Africa’s Tom Mi-
       George R Brown Convention Center             amples of our programming:                 tro, Houston Texans’ Amobi Okoye, Mr
       for Thanksgiving 2010 helping with                                                      Chido Nwangwu of USAfrica Multime-
       sorting, packing and distributing of do-     The 2010 AfriPRO Houston Entrepreneur      dia, Dikembe Mutombo, and Execu-
       nations for the needy in Houston, TX.        Forum was aimed to educate our mem-        tive and Member of the year. Hosted
                                                                                               by Nnete from 97.9 The BOX.
                  For more details of AfriPRO Houston events and pictures visit www.afriprohouston.org
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AfriPRO Houston 2010                                                                             Ngozi Ndukwe

Holiday Award Recipients
                                                                                                         Gala Chair




Merit Award Recipient -                                               Tackle, Amobi, now with the Houston Texans, purposes to
The Dikembe Mutombo Foundation                                        provide hope to Kids and Communities around the globe.
The Dikembe Mutombo Foundation is dedicated to improv-                Okoye graduated high school at the age of 15 and shortly after,
                  ing the health, education and quality of life       upon turning down many prestigious opportunities (including
                  for the people of the Democratic Republic           Harvard) to purse his football dream, he became the youngest
                  of the Congo. The Foundation strives to             NCAA athlete of all time pursuing his football dream at Univer-
                  accomplish this goal not only by providing          sity of Louisville. In 2007, Okoye became the youngest player
                  comprehensive health care at the Biamba             ever to be drafted into the NFL in the modern draft era at the
                  Marie Mutombo Hospital, but also through            age of 19, drafted by the Houston Texans in the first round.
                  an emphasis on primary health care and
                  disease prevention, the promotion of health         Distinguished Professional of the Year -
                  policy, health research and increased ac-           Chido Nwangwu
                  cess to health care education for the people        Chido Nwangwu, recipient of the Journal-
                  of the Congo                                        ism Excellence Award (1997), is the Founder
                                                                      and Publisher of the influential and respected
Host - Nnete                                                          USAfrica, USAfricaonline.com, the first African-
Nnete is the lady of the Madd Hatta Morning                           owned U.S.-based professional newspaper
Show and reports all the celebrity excitement                         to be published on the Internet, the Chinua
and drama from New York, L.A. and every-                              Achebe Project, the ultra-glossy CLASS mag-
where in between in “That’s Whats Up” at the                          azine, the exciting photos and events mega-
top of every hour. She also hosts 97.9 The                            site with the largest collection of contemporary
Box’s community program Conversations                                 images/events of continental Africans in America PhotoWorks.
with Nnete Sundays at 6:30am. Nnete wears                             TV, the Black Business Journal, several blogs, and USAfrica The
many hats as a budding comedian/host,                                 Newspaper, which was voted the Number One community news-
actor and entrepreneur. She owns Houston’s                            paper in Houston in the annual ranking by the readers and editors
premier plus-size boutique, Strut, hosts Nnete’s Book Break and       of the Houston Press in 2001.
dedicates time to various community causes. Nnete earned a
Bachelor’s of Business Administration in Finance from the Universi-   Officer Of The Year - Uche Chibueze
ty of Houston and is a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc.     Uche Chibueze, our Community Service Officer, is a psycholo-
                                                                                           gist for the forensic department at the Harris
Charity Of The Year - Indego Africa                                                        County Juvenile Justice Center. She is also
Indego Africa is an innovative social enterprise that partners with                        employed as an adjunct professor for the Uni-
                     women artisans in Rwanda on a fair trade                              versity of Houston, University of Phoenix, and
                     basis to drive forward a sustainable, long-                           South University. Uche earned her Bachelor’s
                     term solution to systemic poverty in Africa.                          degree in Psychology and a Master’s degree
                     Indego Africa sells its partners’ contempo-                           in Community Counseling from Baylor Univer-
                     rary accessories and home décor products                              sity. In addition, she completed her Doctorate
                     at high-end retailers and on its online store,                        degree in Clinical Psychology at Texas School
                     returning 100% of its profits to the women                            of Professional Psychology. Uche has a
                     for ground-breaking long-term skills training                         strong interest in working with high risk adoles-
                     programs. Indego Africa is a proud member                             cents and is currently working on establishing
                     of the Fair Trade Federation and the subject     a private practice that is geared towards providing psychological
                     of a Harvard Business School case study.         services for the African immigrant community.
Indego Africa unleashes the potential of thousands of indepen-
dent African businesswomen. 100% of the                               Member Of The Year - Victor Ike
profits raised from our 4th Annual Gala will                          Victor Ike graduated from of the University of
go to support Indego Africa.                                          Pittsburgh with a Bachelors Degree in Com-
                                                                      puter Engineering. He worked for 6 years as
Image Award Recipient - Amobi Okoye                                   a Supply Chain Operations Leader for GE.
The Amobi Okoye Foundation opened its                                 Currently, he is pursuing his MBA in Marketng
doors in 2008 with the purpose of providing                           from the University of Houston and working
hope to Kids & Communities around the                                 as an IT Support Analyst. In his free time, he
globe. Founded by University of Louisville                            enjoys volunteering, physical fitness, acting,
graduate and former Cardinal Defensive                                web design, and all facets of music.
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A Step to Greatness
     I
         t is an honor to write                                  tomorrow. Leaders must             be great’. I encourage us all to start
         this note of congratula-                                rise and lead with integrity,      2011 on a path to being great and let
         tions to Afripro for its                                and the people must stand          confidence move our feet beyond the
         efforts in encouraging                                  with a positive mental             doors of fear and into the space of
     and recognizing African                                     attitude. Let us fly with           progress. Nurture your talents today,
     talents and achievements                                    wings as eagles and create         and watch the reward clear the road
     through its community                                       a legacy that will encour-         to success. In the words of our illustri-
     events, annual Gala and                                     age others to do well. Too         ous President (Obama)– Yes we can!
     awards night.                                               often we hold ourselves
                                                                 back with excuses that we                         Thank you, Veronica Oladeji
     My view is that we were                                     are waiting…we are not
     all born with a purpose in life, and           where we should be. Well, we never
                                                                                                    Veronica Oladeji, is the Editor and founder of
     all could play a role in encouraging           will be, if we don’t take the first step         APINKE Magazine (www.apinke.com), A glossy
     each other to reach our full potential.        to getting there. Someone once told             lifestyle publication which portrays the positive ar-
                                                                                                    eas of the global African community, culture and
     Africans need to stand united today            me: ‘you don’t have to be great to get          lifestyle. APINKE is a Yoruba word which means to
     in order to transform the continent            started, but you have to get started to         share and nurture together




           Nnete: Host, Afri PRO Psychology in Africa
                  Houston Gala
                                                                                   Introduce yourself to our readers. My name is Sandra Ain-
                                                                                   abe, I am Ekpoma from Edo State. I have an undergraduate
                                                                                   degree in psychology and a Masters in Counseling-LPC. I
                                                                                   will be working on my PhD the beginning of next year.



                             N
                                      nete’s quick wit and comedic timing is
                                      what has cemented her reign as the First     Congratulations! That sounds awsome, i have some ques-
                                      Lady of the Madd Hatta Morning Show.         tions for you, why the field of psychology? I have always
                                      In addition to being the feminine voice      liked helping people. My friends always came to me for
                             of reason, she is the ultimate go-to source for all   advice on whatever dilemmas they might be experiencing. I
                             things Entertainment. She also hosts 97.9 The         have always wanted to have a home for children preferably
                             Box’s community program “Conversations with           young girls. After I worked with child protective services for
                             Nnete” on Sunday mornings.                            two years, I knew that I needed to further my education and
                                                                                   become a licensed professional counselor.
                             Nnete wears many hats as a budding comedi-            How can therapy help us as african people? Therapy can
                             an, actor, and entrepreneur. Currently, she serves    help anyone if they are willing and are accepting counsel-
                             as the national host for the first African American   ing services. There are situations that I only discuss with my
                             to walk in space, former astronaut, Dr. Bernard       therapist that I would not even discuss with my family mem-
     Harris’s Dream Tour, where they encourage students to pursue Science,         bers or significant other because the therapist is a neutral
     Technology, Engineering, and Mathematics field of study. She is definitely    individual. Their primary goal is to help you and guide you
     active in the community and promoting a positive image for our young-         to a solution or acceptance of your situations or dilemma.
     er generation. As a contributor with the Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Inc.
     Metropolitan Alumni Annual Teen Summit she serves as host to promote          What are some taboo issues which you think we need to
     HIV, sexually transmitted disease protection, safe sex, and abstinence.       tackle as a people? Prior to my bachelors’ degree and
     In addition, she is a mentor for the Boys and Girls Club and My Sister’s      educational exploration in the field of psy-
     Keeper – Texas Southern University Summer Girl’s Camp. As she con-            chology I used to think that someone who
     tinues to grow as an entrepreneur, she participates with the One Woman        visited a therapist was “crazy” or I taught
     Conference-Teen Entrpreneurship program, where a forum is created to          that only rich white people had a therapist.
     equip today’s youth with practical knowledge to survive in our economy.       I feel that the reason there are so many ta-
                                                                                   boo associated with people visiting a thera-
     Nnete is a strong advocate in educating our youth and creating aware-         pist is mainly ignorance. We as a people
     ness. As a radio personality, she uses that platform to encourage and         tend to tune off or judge and misjudge situ-
     motivate youth in their education. During the academic school year, she       ations that make us feel insecure or take us
     uses her time to visit various schools as a TASK Pep Rally Motivator. She     out of our comfort zone. I feel that the best
                                                                                   way to tackle the taboo is taking the time to
     continues to speak at career fairs and universities to share her experience
                                                                                   attend a counseling session, read journal
     and the appreciation of what she has learned along the way. Nnete has         articles before we come to negative conclu-
     definitely earned her title with eloquence.                                   sions. People visit therapists for different reasons that range
                                                                                   from : financial, marital, job coaching, and so many other
     Nnete earned a Bachelor’s of Business Administration in Finance from the      reasons that are not associated with mental health.
     University of Houston and is a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc.
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is an innovative award-winning non-profi t               and traditional non-profi ts, which fo-
organization that is using a social enterprise           cus only on skills or hand-outs, by off
approach to empower hundreds of Rwandan                  ering an innovative hybrid approach.
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poverty. Indego Africa is a member of the Fair           women in our partner cooperatives to
Trade Federation and was the 2008 winner                 take care of their immediate needs,
of the Social Entrepreneurship & Innovation              diversify their income-generating and
Competition. Indego Africa’s model is simple,            entrepreneurial skills, and cultivate
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                                                         trauma; have little formal education;
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   50% in advance of production;                         orphans from the Genocide in 1994;
                                                         and are the sole providers for their
d) return 100% of the profi ts to its Hand Up            households.
   program for culturally-tailored training
   programs in Financial Management, En-
   trepreneurship & Microfi nance, Literacy,
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e) harness local talent to conduct the train-
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                                                                                           or all intents and
ARTS & LEISURE                                                                             purposes, I am a
                                                                                           self taught artist.
                                                                                           While high school art
                                                                                           classes taught me
                                                                                           quite a bit, complet-



     RELEASE
                                                                            ing a piece requires a lot of ef-
                                                                            fort. I enjoy the challenge. I want
                                                                            to inspire others to AWAKEN
                                                                            THEIR INNER ARTIST. Recall the

                             your Inner                                     things you have learned or sim-
                                                                            ply start from scratch to create




         ARTIST!
                                                                            and express your thoughts and
                                                                            feelings NOW. Discover new
                                                                            avenues of self discovery by
                                                                            RELEASING YOUR INNER ART-
                                                                            IST! www.dannawhitesite.com.

                                                          By Danna White Like so many people, I have
                                                                         always enjoyed creative expres-
                                                                         sions. I have always enjoyed
                                                                         painting and drawing on large
                                                                         surfaces. Larger canvasses are
                                                                         still my favorite. I walked away
                                                                         from art and creative expression
                                                                         yet I yearned for a way to fill that
                                                                         void. Now that I have returned to
                                                                         my passion, I enjoy bright, bold
                                                                         colors and strong movement
                                                                         through obvious brush strokes
                                                                         and using creative techniques.

                                                                            I learned most of what I know
                                                                            about artistic techniques in high
                                                                            school. My art teacher enjoyed
                                                                            teaching art and made a life
                                                                            long impression on my artistic
                                                                            creativity. I use many of those
                                                                            techniques today in my work. I
                                                                            still hear her comments when I
                                                                            am working on a piece, “Please
                                                                            explain your compositional
                                                                            movement” or “I’d rather a piece
                                                                            to evoke a feeling of hate rather
                                                                            evoke no feeling at all.” I hope
                                                                            my works inspire others to use
                                                                            their talents to do the same…
                                                                            evoke something in others.
                                                                            Good or bad…evoke! Release
                                                                            Your Inner Artist!

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M
                                                                       any people think there is no skill or ex-
FAMILY
                                                                       perience needed to finding a nanny. You
                                                                       just ask a friend or family member and
                                                          the perfect nanny shows up at your door step. This
                                                          is a huge mistake that people continue to make ev-
                                                          ery day. Before you waste anyone’s time including
                                                          your own make sure you know what you want versus




 How to
                                                          what you need, and most importantly what you can
                                                          pay for. Hiring a nanny is a lot like buying a pair of
                                                          designer shoes, it takes a lot of patience, time and it



   Hire a
                                                          can be very frustrating. When you hire a nanny, you
                                                          are making a very vital decision that will impact your




 “Good”
                                                          child’s life forever.


                                                          At My Good Nanny, we have our premium servic-
                                                          es where we work with you one on one to find that




  Nanny
                                                          “good” nanny. We have the experience, success rate,
                                                          and connections to give each customer what they
                                                          need and want. We also have our ‘Do It Yourself’ ser-
                                                          vices that our more experienced customers can enjoy.


                                                          Here are my Top Ten List for Parents:
                                                          1. Meet the Nanny or Service Provider in their home or
 By Mrs. TosiUfodike                                      place of residence. It says a lot about a person, when you
                                                          see where they live and how they live, etc. A lot of people
                                                          make a huge mistake and conduct the interview at their
                                                          house because it is more convenient. This is a huge mis-
                                                          take. Take the time and go to where the Nanny or Service
                                                          provider lives.

                                                          2. Call References. Take the time and talk to people who
                                                          are listed as references. Ask questions about experiences
                                                          and skills. This step is often overlooked. By calling the
                                                          references and interviewing them as well, you can obtain
                                                          some great information that can help you in your hiring
                                                          process.

                                                          3. Discuss salary up front. Be honest with what you can af-
                                                          ford. Make sure both parties are in agreement before the
                                                          first day of work. Have a pay schedule and stick to it. If you
                                                          tell the nanny you will pay her bi-weekly then please pay
                                                          her bi-weekly. Discuss vacation time and sick time.
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4. Have a two week trial period - this is
very important. People can say all the
right things and ace an interview. How-
ever, it is very hard to hide your true self
day in and day out. Take this time to
watch and learn. Inform the nanny that
there will be a probationary period. Use
this time to ensure that the person works
well for your family.

5. Develop a work contract and have
both parties sign it. Don’t hire a nanny
for two kids and then when she starts you
have 2 of your sister’s kids, 5 neighbors’
kids, 3 cousins, and a dog. A lot of nan-
nies get frustrated when people are not
up front with expectations and job duties.
By putting everything in writing, you al-
leviate a lot of unnecessary drama.

6. Give Bonuses. When you find a good
nanny who takes care of your children well, you want to         10. Hidden cameras are wonderful. They tell a lot about
reward her for her hard work. We all know good workers          what is happening to your child, I emphasize this especially
are HARD to find. Make sure you show your appreciation          to parents with infants. It does not matter that you met
by saying Thank you and giving her a bonus when it is           her at church, that she has 6 children back home, is from
deserved.                                                       your village or home town, and so on and so forth. People
                                                                have a lot of issues. Mental issues are often not properly
7. Ask the nanny if she has specific                                                  diagnosed. You want to be safe and
training or certifications. At My Good          By calling the references and         not sorry.
Nanny we offer FREE Nanny Training             interviewing them as well, you
to all our nannies. We offer informal                                                   Remember the My Good Nanny rule.
                                               can obtain some great infor-
and formal etiquette training to all our                                                Pray over anybody that comes into
nannies. .                                     mation that can help you in              contact with your children. Be polite
                                                   your hiring process.                 and professional. Thank the nanny for
8. When you conduct the interview,                                                      their time and keep smiling no matter
please have your children around. Observe the nanny and how things went during the interview. Nannies that may not
see if she tries to make a connection with your children. If work for you or your family provide great nanny referrals.
she seems frustrated or does not even hold or look at the
child that is a red flag, so take heed.                        Please visit us online at www.mygoodnanny.com. We are
                                                               here 24/7. Call our toll free number 1-866-950-2495.
9. Nannies are not parents, they are Nannies. No Nanny
or Service Provider will love your child like you do, or treat
them like you do. Always remember good nannies work
very hard and are not perfect. Many nannies form very
serious bonds with the children they look after. It takes a
special person to take care of other’s people kids. What
you are looking for is someone who is passionate about
their job, honest, and has a real desire to work with you Mrs. TosiUfodike is CEO & Founder of My Good Nanny and Author of
and your family.                                               the best selling Children’s book: Princess Amara & The Magic Fruit.

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EXECUTIVE SUMMARY




        The AMOBI
          OKOYE
        Foundation
     T
           he Amobi Okoye Foundation, Inc. was founded in
           2008 by Houston Texan defensive linemen Amobi
           Okoye. The Foundation’s mission is to provide
     hope to kids and communities around the world. Amobi
     entered high school at the young age of twelve and he
     distinguished himself both athletically and scholastically.
     He then graduated Lee High School in Huntsville, Ala-
     bama at fifteen. Amobi’s academic prowess was evident
     to all; he was offered a scholarship to Harvard University,
     which he turned down in lieu of a football scholarship
     to the University of Louisville. After four football seasons       Domestic programs are currently based in Katy, Texas a
     and three and half years of study, he graduated with a             suburb west of downtown Houston. We also have of-
     degree in psychology, and became the youngest player               fices in Huntsville, AL and Louisville, Kentucky, the place
     to ever be drafted into the NFL at nineteen. Amobi has             of Amobi’s collegiate career. To accomplish program
     a passion to help children by                                                                 objectives, ensure sustainable
     giving them a hope and a future                                                               funding and garner sufficient
     and letting them know they can           • Tackle Hunger: Provides temporary suste-           community support, The Amobi
     achieve great things. Amobi is              nance for needy families while encourag-          Okoye Foundation has ad-
     equally passionate about seeing             ing an atmosphere of hope that will lead          opted a sound strategic plan
     communities transformed. He                 to personal sustainability.                       that incorporates an aggressive
     believes that through partner-                                                                public information campaign; a
     ship and collaboration we can            • Kickoff for Kids: Series of youth activities       power-packed Board of Coun-
     see the inner cities of America             that uses athletics to motivate and inspire       cilors comprised of thoughtful
     renewed, and impoverished na-               this generation                                   leaders and key influencers,
     tions enriched.                                                                               and has conferred with the best
                                              • Amobi’s House: Community achieve-                  of professionals to ensure the
     Programs of the Amobi Okoye                 ment center where kids can learn and              integrity of programs offered.
     Foundation can be catego-                   play in a safe nurturing environment              Through a comprehensive pro-
     rized into two main groups                                                                    gramming model, sustainable
     that include: Domestic youth             • C.A.T.E. (Changing Africa Through Edu-             funding and transparent report-
     and community programs and                  cation): Global education initiative that         ing, The Amobi Okoye Founda-
     International Outreach based in             offers academic and athletic scholarships         tion is making a difference in
     Nigeria, West Africa.                       to support achievement and excellence             the lives of thousands around
                                                 among youth in developing nations.                the globe.

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ARTS & LEISURE


My Virginity is Ruining
                My Sex Life
W
             hat does “virginity” really mean? Is there really   Whether dealing with lack of self-control, or hurt from
             any difference between sexual intercourse           participating in sexual activities, or with emotional and out
             and making out? My Virginity is Ruining My          of control relationships, My Virginity is Ruining My Sex Life
             Sex Life discusses everything about virginity,      encourages and challenges readers to make a choice
all the questions that ravage today’s youth, what to do—         to walk in abstinence and not to give up the fight to stay
                                 and what “not” to do—with       sexually pure.
                                 the opposite sex. An hon-
                                 est first book that is both      Vivian Elebiyo (800) 733-5117 vivianelebiyo@yahoo.com
                                 brutally frank
                                 and firmly mor-
                                 ally grounded, it
                                 will be instantly
                                 recognized
                                 as an invalu-
                                 able addition
                                 to the literature
                                 on abstinence.




What the book has to
say is so forceful, so
charged, so unflinch-
ing—yet, so true—it
will leave readers both winc-
ing in embarrassment and nodding in assent
on recognizing its truth.

My Virginity is Ruining My Sex Life is a book
geared towards young adults, it teaches the
tools to saying “No” to premarital sex and
it gives good dating tips and tips on setting
boundaries. In today’s world young adults
are bombarded with sexual innuendos on T.V.,
sexually perverse messages on the radio, and
nude images on magazines. My Virginity is
Ruining my Sex Life helps them find that inner
strength to stay untouched by the gratification
the world has to offer which does not last long.
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ARTS & LEISURE

                                                            MOYEEN
                                                             and her MUSIC                     By Linda Anukwuem
                                                                                          for White Flame Firm.com




                                                            M
                                                                           usic, the universal language of life, has
                                                                           evolved over the years. These days,
                                                                           music means scantily clad artists singing
                                                                           repetitious lines over a highly synthesized
                                                            beat. It is rare to hear non-hormonal music that has a positive mes-
                                                            sage. And just when I thought K’naan’s “Waving Flag” was the only
                                                            self-empowerment anthem I’d experience this year, I came across
                                                            Nigerian singer-song writer: Moyeen of www.MoyeenMusic.com and
                                                            I was pleasantly surprised at the quality and content of her music! I
                                                            introduce you to Moyeen and her musical universe where R&B Soul,
                                                                         Jazz and Naija music coexist in harmony. I have to warn
                                                                         you though; her music is miles away from bubble gum-pop
                                                                          as she is no pop princess. Let’s just say she is unique, soul-
                                                                          ful and real.

                                                                       Her first single “Follow My Dreams” makes a grand
                                                                       impression. This classical soul inspired tune confirms her
                                                                        truthfulness as an artist as she shows her vulnerability by
     “Even when you are                                                  giving us a glimpse of her journey into pursuing her pas-
                                                                         sion. In this soulful ballad, Moyeen explores the fears
     discouraged make                                                     and uncertainties associated with following the path
     you hold on, the sun                                                 less traveled. . With a unique velvet smooth voice, she
                                                                           engages listeners with clever harmonies as she deliv-
     will surely come after                                                ers the verses revealing her story. Right when you think
                                                                            you heard it all she dives into the defiant and victori-
     the storm…
                                                                            ous chorus singing:”Omo Naija ni mii (I’m Nigerian),
     no matter what people                                                   come a little bit closer you’ll see”! Moyeen clearly
                                                                             embraces her roots and encourages her listeners
     say, look to the mirror,                                                 to do the same. Not to mince words “Follow My
     say its okay, it’s going                                                  Dreams” is a praise-worthy ballad that keeps you
                                                                            wanting more. Thankfully her album is due for a
     to be a brighter day.”                                 January 2011 & “Follow My Dreams” is available on her website.
         Lyrics from “Follow My Dreams”
           by singer/song writer Moyeen                     Moyeen’s music did not start overnight though; she has been under
                                                            the radar: honing her skills, writing, performing and even mentoring
                                                            younger artists. A lot of focus, discipline and hard work have finally
                                                            paid off as she is steadily gaining critical acclaim performing across
     For more info on Moyeen                                the country. She draws inspiration from life, love, emotions, thoughts,
     Join her on Facebook:                                  relationships, other people’s experiences, and most importantly, God,
     www.facebook.com/moyeenmusic4u                         whom she credits for the gift of music!

     Follor her on Twitter:                                 You can definitely expect to hear more from this budding Naija export
     www.twitter.com/moyeenmusic                            , her sound is fresh , her voice is distinct, and her message gives the
                                                            kind of positive vibes you need on a daily basis.
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INTERNATIONAL AFFAIRS:


              ACCORDING to
               AFRICA and ASIA              By Joso-Fatimaah Menefee




       A
                    frica and Asia have                                Policy initiatives and frameworks such
                    always had a trad-                                 as the: - Focus Africa Program, TEAM-
                    ing business relation-                             9 and The Pan-African Network are
                    ship, which dates                                  becoming modern day pioneers in this
       back to when our continent                                      field.
       wasn’t known by countries,
       no romance languages were                                       The Focus Africa program began
       spoken. China and India have                                    with the focus on Sub-Saharan Af-
       been managing an economic                                       rica but now includes Nigeria, South
       relationship with the continent                                 Africa, Mauritius, Kenya, Tanzania and
       that has shown to be quite                                      Ghana account for 69% of India’s total
       fruitful. If “the powers that be”                               bilateral trade with the Sub-Saharan
       maintain balance including                                      African region. As of current day the
       a checks and balances, the                                      program is all over the continent of
       growth potential for Africa’s role                              Africa.
       in the global economy will be immense. Rate of
       exports between Sub-Sahara Africa and china           Team-9 is focused more on polishing com-
       have increased rapidly, faster than rates of the      mercial relations on various levels from govern-
       European Union and the United States.                 mental, institutional and private sectors to share
                                                             economic opportunities through physical and
       The major differences between the two con-            intellectual resources with countries located in
       tinents such as: labor, capital and natural           West Africa and the Government of India. This
       resources are actually blessings in disguise.         approach is known as the Techno-Economic
       The word middle class in America is becoming          Approach for Africa India Movement (Team-9 Ini-
       extinct; however in this part of the world this is    tiative). The countries focused here are: Burkina
       not only a reality but incomes are rising steadily.   Faso, Chad, Cote d’Ivorie, Equatorial Guinea,
       The relationship between this two continents hold     Ghana, Guinea-Bissau, Mali, and Senegal.
       strong value to the social-economic develop-
       ment of the continent.                                Finally the Pan- African E-Network Project funded
                                                             entirely by India has a budget of $50 million for
       In the last couple of years numerous partner-         installation, operating and maintaining; com-
       ships have forged for Indian and African cor-         munication technologies that is solely focused
       poration leaders, academic leaders and major          on ending the digital divide in the continent. The
       policy makers to network for a joint venture while    goal is to connect all countries in Africa by a
       building stronger initiatives. African policy mak-    satellite through fiber-optic networks and wireless
       ers ought to hold investors to higher social-eco-     links. The network will provide: e-education, Inter-
       nomic standards: by only working with investors       net and video-conferencing services, support for
       willing to stimulate their respective country’s       e-governance, e-commerce, resource mapping
       economy with employment incentives for recent         and meteorological services connectivity. The
       graduates to help stop the brain drain the conti-     network will connect 5 universities, 53 learning
       nent suffers from and also by transferring differ-    centers, 10 super specialty hospitals, and 53
       ent technologies.                                     remote hospitals in the 53 Pan-African countries.


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POEMS/POETRY




                                         REAL. TRUTH. IMAGE.
                                         My voice,                            Out my image, my face
                                         My obsolete greatness,               Into a horror, and defaced.
                                         Inside your historic facet,          Is your memory selective,
                                         Reside that real image,              For, you were not that protective.
                                         That face: the vintage,              Your politics’ digressive,
                                         That trace: the lineage,             You are not that possessive.
                                         That place: the village,             Are my words not assertive?
                                         Now a peeled page,                   Does my burning hut ring you praise,
                                         Erased, as I’m left to wonder        Where my bones range,
                                         These ashes overtaking my place.     Inside the debris,
                                         I am left to relay                   Where my flesh simmered?
                                         Another smoke of religion’s adage,   If only this heat
                                         As I inhale                          Was all I received for dinner.
                                         The darkness,                        If only this heated my feet
                                         Burdensome tears                     During each cold harmattan.
                                         Peeling my burning skin,             Better late than never,
                                         Turbulent fears                      Yet I feel late as ever.
                                         Fading my infancy.                   My image now seems dimmer.
                                         I wonder if these kings              Listen!
                                         Felt the instant kill,               I am Africa!
                                         When they sealed,                    Until you defend me,
                                         And spilled my kinship?              Protect, feed,
                                         I hunger, when their prince,         Address, respect, and
                                         Would remotely redeem me             Restore me,
                                         Even so dimly,                       You have no face,
                                         The family within me                 No image, no trace;
                                         Retraced. But,                       No voice.
                                         I would not take my place.           You are nothing
                                         For, you heard not my cry            Without this noise.
                                         Suffocated between her thigh,        Your greatness
                                         Preserved for my last breath,        Lies within
                                         Between my mothers’ last sigh.       My voice.
                                         I will not shy from the lie          I am,
                                         When I did die,                      Your Real,
                                         Your machete did slice,              Your Truth,
                                         Boko Haram did dice                  Your Image.


                                                                              REXX D’Artist © 1013103




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THE RUNNING BEAUTY      Outspoken Bean www.outspokenbean.com

I’m the worst person to share- feel-   Running then finds me, then
ings with.                             asked me “why doesn’t
She didn’t care - she came running     boyfriend like me?”
as her masquera that did the same.
                                       Searching for answers and
Running her 14 teen year old heart     acceptance in an empty
was smeared with puppy love tears      human cavities.
chasing her own tail of immaturity.
                                       She yearned for fulfillment.
                                       I gave the only retort that i
                                       thought could work.

                                       I don’t know what he did
                                       but I know what he can do.

                                       Remembering this is the
                                       same girl in the back of the
                                       class room who wrote love                    I lacked the tools to repair she dis-
                                       songs with do you like me question-          agreed
                                       naires at the end.                           She felt i was well equipped she says
                                                                                    your poet Mr. Bean
                                       I never seen pink two pink boxes             Your words can fix anything
                                       have so much power from a mere               Well, let me give you a tip
                                       check.                                       I lack the gravity of the advise you
                                                                                    seek so my gratuity wouldn’t do much
                                       This is the same girl who’s artistry         for you it would be just generous
                                       hid behind her shyness where timid
 Boxing
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Jay Thomas
         “Service Based on Trust” Exemplary
         real estate service distinguishes Jay
         Thomas as a true professional.



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                 e is responsive to his                                                        them as he works diligently,
                 clients and customers who                                                     often going the extra mile
                 benefit when Jay Thomas                                                       when it serves their needs
         shares his experiences by provid-                                                     and desires. “With the kind
         ing them with sound advice on all                                                     of know-how that comes
         aspects of the real estate transac-                                                   from years of success, I
         tion. Much of his success comes                                                       take my responsibilities
         from referrals or repeat business from former clients      very serious. My client’s needs are foremost impor-
         attesting to the quality of results he achieves on their   tant in every situation. My success in this business
         behalf. Buyers and sellers who work with Jay Thom-         is not only measured by my client’s satisfaction, but
         as quickly find out that he genuinely cares about          also by the number of referrals that are sent to me.”

                     Jubril “Jay” Thomas, Realtor® | Direct: (832) 889-5607 | Email: jay.thomas@realmpro.com
                             Realm Properties LLC. | 4543 Post Oak Place # 107 | Houston, Texas 77027




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               ife itself is a journey, ever wonder how easy life’s   am passionate about as a result, I started growing it while
               journey will be if there was a navigation system;      transitioning from corporate America and within a short pe-
               OnStar, GPS or something in that sense, helping        riod of time, I was able to transition totally into running my
               us get to our “there” without missing direction. As    own personal business, my passion yielding tremendous
     we journey through life, one of the questions that we each       profits and I was blown away. I wake up every day happy,
     ask ourselves is, “Am I living the life that God designed        excited and ready to take on my day, more like a hobby.
     for me to live.” We all have been fearfully, wonderfully and     Subsequently, my organization has grown to become a
     uniquely made hence we each have different and unique            conglomerate of many other successful businesses, with
     gifts and talents that God has deposited inside each and         two books about to be released, I am excited to share this
     every one of us. Yet a question that seem to hover around        topic of living life on your own terms and outlining seven
     us is, “How do I discover my gifts.” There after the next        (7) simple and easy to follow steps yet transforming! Your
     question might be, “how can I leverage such passion and          destiny should excite you, believe it or yes, if you are not
     turn it into profits.                                            moving toward your God-ordained destiny, there will al-
                                                                      ways be tension and dissatisfaction growing in your inner
     I personally was there years back when I used to work for        being. They don’t just go away with time; it remains until
     a telecommunication company, even though it was a great          you take action towards living a life of passion and pur-
     company to work for at the time, having just migrated to the     pose. You have been created to create, you have a dream
     United States from Nigeria. I was eager to mingle and learn      that nobody else can live out but you. Don’t go through




     the new culture and know the people. I had worked for the        life enduring an average, mediocre life, take control today,
     company for over 5 years, not only was it a fair paying job,     and watch YOU shine! Here are some questions that will
     they also paid my tuition up to Masters level but at some        help you in your process of discovering your passion:
     point, I was tired of the routine. I used to be unbelievably
     excited when Friday came around, ecstatic to delve into          • What am I passionate about?
     the weekend, Sunday morning, I am in church all happy,           • What do I really love to do and Why?
     and then it hits me in the evening, the familiar “cloud” of
                                                                      • What are my values?
     depression and pressure comes over me just because
     Monday is around the corner. I felt something was missing,       • Are my activities getting me close to my dream?
     there had to be another way out, but just couldn’t connect       • If not, when do I start growing and living out my dream?
     the dots. I was almost beginning to settle until I decided to    • What does success look like for me? (Vacation,
     go back to school again; it was then that I started doing re-     spending family time, philanthropic lifestyle etc.)
     search on successful people and how they became suc-
     cessful. Consequently, I realized the power of discovering       In answering these questions above, it will help you create
     and living out ones passion and not just that, but also turn-    a tie with these 7 Steps below which outlines how to dis-
     ing such passion into great profit. In researching, I care-      cover your passion and grow it into profit. Remember that
     fully combed through my life to discover those things that I     a business is find a need; fill a need.

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2010 Editor Project: The African Professional Houston 2nd Edition

  • 2. www.culturally-yours.org 2 December 2010  The African Professional - Houston WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG
  • 3. EDITORIAL NOTE W ELCOME to the second edition of The African Professional-Houston. CONTENTS FOUNDER’S WORD The purpose of this Journal is to build upon PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE the mission and vision 2010 AT A GLANCE of AFRIPRO Houston and celebrating Africa AfriPRO Houston through editorial pieces and special highlights. Business & Economics Socio-Political The purpose of AfriPRO Houston is to motivate Arts & Leisure its network of African Editorial professionals to build a new positive image of Africa by organizing The African Professional Houston business, charitable, :: 2ND EDITION :: and professional networking events that inform, educate, EDITORIAL STAFF empower, and celebrate Africa and Africans. FOUNDER, AfriPRO Houston Folake Ayoola This edition features “Africa: Our True Image” and our PRESIDENT, AfriPRO Houston 2010 Okechukwu Ofili aim is to show areas where Africans and Africa as a continent have worked to affect positive change through EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Clementina Nwanekezie the Profiles in Business, Charitable Organization, Educa- tion, Entertainment and International Affairs as well as our :: EDITORIAL TEAM :: editorial on POLITICS: Vote or Quench. Additionally, the Journal has five sections that will be present in every issue: MARKETING & CONTRIBUTING EDITOR AfriPRO Houston, Business &Economics, Socio-Political, Joso-Fatimaah Menefee Arts & Leisure, and Editorial. CONTRIBUTING CONSULTANT Linda Anukwuem AfriPRO Houston has been very active this year- we have GRAPHICS DESIGN Myrna Galan included some pictures and narratives of our programs www.galangraphix.com and activities inside the AfriPRO Houston section of the Journal and website: www.afriprohouston.org. On behalf PRINT PRODUCTION Copy Plus Printing of the editorial committee, I would like to thank all those who contributed content and articles to this second edi- tion; you made the publication possible. I encourage AfriPRO Houston members and non members to contribute articles to upcoming editions of the Journal. OUR MISSION is to motivate African professionals to build Thank you. a new positive image of and appreciation for Clementina Nwanekezie Editor-in-Chief, The African Professional Houston Africa and Africans by organizing business, charitable, and professional networking events that inform, educate, empower, and The African Professional – Houston (ISSN 2152-0593) is a biannual publication by AfriPRO Hous- ton. No portion of this publication may be reproduced in part or whole for any use whatsoever celebrate Africa and Africans. without the permission of the publisher. For reprint information, email taph@afriprohouston.org. Opinions expressed in AfriPRO Houston do not necessarily express those of AfriPRO Houston or AfriPRO Houston. No information in this journal shall be construed as legal, fi nancial, or medical advice. The publication of any advertisement, advertorial, or article by AfriPRO Houston does not www.afroprohouston.org constitute an endorsement of that product, service, or position. AfriPRO Houston reserves the right to refuse any article, advertisement, or advertorial. Only the publication of an article or advertise- ment shall constitute final acceptance. WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG The African Professional - Houston  December 2010 3
  • 4. FOUNDER’S WORD BOARD of DIRECTORS O n behalf of AfriPRO Houston (AH), I am delighted to welcome you to another edition of our Afri- PRO Houston Journal – The African Professional – themed “Our True Image.” AfriPRO Houston’s mission is to build a new positive image of and appreciation for Africa and Africans by informing, educating, empowering, and celebrating Africa ad Africans through various program- ming and events, including the publishing of editorial pieces and special highlights. It is our hope that, with this Journal, we are able to appeal to a wide readership, while presenting interesting and informative articles about Africa and Africans. Folake Ayoola, Founder As always, AH has been very active this year. As such, we have included some pictures and narrative of our programs and activities in this edition. On behalf of the entire AH family, I extend profound thanks to the Editor-in-Chief, Clementina Nwanekezie, and the entire editorial staff for working tirelessly on this edition. We just concluded six years of serving our community through various programs, includ- ing our very successful scholarship program where we awarded $5,000 to deserving col- lege & high school students; our mentoring program, our African Business Expo and other professional development programming and charitable outreach. Each year AH waxes stronger because of the tireless efforts of outstanding individuals. I use this opportunity Folasayo “Babs” Ayoola to applaud AH’s Leadership for stepping up to the task, yet again, in 2010. Under the direction of our president, Okechukwu Ofili, and with the hard work of members of all committees, particularly the Executive Committee, we have been able to strengthen our established programs & expand our membership base. With the navigation of the Board and the tireless efforts of the Executives, we met our expectations for 2010. With our 7th year in sight, we are still committed to expanding our membership base. We will continue to pursue the advancement of our mission and objectives, strengthen our existing programs and honor our commitment by organizing business and professional Abayomi “Qudus” Majiyagbe networking events as well as community focused programming. I thank all our sponsors, in particular Arik Air and Efficient Home Care, as well as all other individuals and orga- nizations who have stood with us and supported our programs and activities. We greatly appreciate your support and goodwill, and thank you for identifying with the ideals of our association. I thank AH members–particularly those who powered AH Committees and those who at- tended our events or contributed to our programming–for your continued support. I am profoundly grateful to the Board for your service and to the Executives for your hard work and dedication. This year could not have been the success it was without you. Thank you! Oluwaseun Oyeniran I conclude with hope and confidence that we will meet the task set before us in the com- ing year. We are always mindful of the challenges that lie ahead but we remain steadfastly attentive to the numerous opportunities available to be harnessed for the organization. I humbly ask that you continue to support us with your time, efforts, and resources. I wish you all a merry Christmas and a Happy New Year in advance. With gratitude, Folake K. Ayoola, Esq. Founder and Chair of the Board of Directors Kingsley Ewetuya 2005 to 2007 President 4 December 2010  The African Professional - Houston WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG
  • 5. 2010 EXECUTIVE PRESIDENT’S COMMITTEE Message I have been involved with AfriPRO Houston for over 5 years and have been blessed with the opportu- nity to work with great people with a pas- Ugonwanne Onwudiegwu Linda Anukwuem Vice President Fundraising Officer sion for serving their community. My ten- ure as President in 2010 has been one of my most exciting and most fulfilling years within the or- ganization. We were Clementina (Tina) Nwanekezie Nene Otum able to double our Secretary Publicity Officer past year scholarship amount by giving out $5000 to college students in need. We also raised over $1000 to help buy SAT College Prep tutorial books for high school students to name a few. But more important than fi- nances were the individuals (too many to mention) who sacrificed their time and ef- Temilolu Ayoola Humphrey Nnadiotu Treasurer Community Relations Officer fort to ensure this year was a success... individuals that sacrificed their thanksgiving holiday to serve the homeless, individuals that got up early in the morning passing out fliers to register voters, the individuals who spent hours and hours judging over 50 scholarship applications, individuals who hosted us at their businesses or homes and Vincent Taharq Vereen Ijeoma Udenkwo those that came out to our events to simply Professional Development Officer Membership Officer support…we appreciate you. To one of the greatest executive boards I have had the honor to work with…thank you for making my job easy…but most especially thank you for making the posi- tion fulfilling and fun. I am excited about the prospects of AfriPRO Houston’s growth un- Uche Chibueze Mireille Laure Mekontso Community Service Officer Technical Officer der the leadership of Ugo Onwudiegwu, an individual who shares the vision and pas- sion and understanding of what it means to be AfriPRO Member. We can only grow bigger and better. Okechukwu Ofili AfriPRO Houston President 2010 Ngozi Ndukwe Temi Siyande Gala Chair Scholarship Chair WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG The African Professional - Houston  December 2010 5
  • 6. ARTS & LEISURE MEMOIRS OF AN IMMIGRANT: The Metamorphosis of the AFRICAN WOMAN I heard the words come out from my Mum’s mouth, but dren. Even when the husband was physically abusive to I was too shocked to understand any of it. Mike had his wife, the woman held on to the marriage. A sacrificial killed his father and committed suicide days after be- act perpetrated to eradicate the creation of more Mikes ing arrested for drug possession. What pushed a child in the world. But was the sacrifice necessary? so sweet and so lucky towards these acts? I remembered the times I stayed up in bed early cursing at my parents According to the September 19th Washington Post article, for forcing us to go to bed early, but as I lay in bed that the divorce rate in New Delhi, the capital city of India night, my heart heaved a painful sign of appreciation. I has almost doubled. The main reason being the western had what Mike never had, a strong and loving family. cultural influence. An influence absorbed by thousands of immigrants that empowers its women to speak out Quoting www.indidivorce.com “statistics show that only against injustice “[In Korea] 66.7% of divorces in 2003 1 out of 100 Indian marriages end up to a divorce… were initiated by women, compared to 30.6% by men.” in comparison 50% of America’s marriages turning into Injustice that in Nigeria would typically have been looked divorce [break ups].” Due to the large rural population at as a necessary sacrifice. A sacrifice that Elizabeth and incomplete records, the divorce rate in Nigeria is made for years as she was physically abused in her own largely unknown, but I would estimate it to be close to home by the very same man that promised to love her for better for worse. But Elizabeth stayed. She fought hard but could never overcome the Excerpts of “Lady” by Fela: strength of her monstrous husband, who in unpredictable but intermittent emotional rage African woman go dance she go dance the fire dance proceeded to beat her night after night. An act She know him man na Master that occurred in the full view of her children She go cook for am and a nation slowly awakening to the rights of She go do anything he say a woman. For nights she cried but culture and But Lady no be so religion chose to keep quiet. Family mem- bers wandered around like they never saw the bruises or heard the cries…a norm in Africa the figures reflected in India. In Nigeria divorce is not now frowned upon by legions of Nigerian re-immigrants. an option, it was taboo looked down upon by religious It was in that same state that Mary found herself. What bodies and traditional cultures. In our eyes marriage started out as an American dream for Mary turned into was permanent and I could understand why. Many times a nightmare, like Elizabeth, Mary was exposed to nights dissolved marriages created more and more Mikes in the of physical abuse. But unlike Nigeria her new community world. Children groomed in an atmosphere of artificial chose to listen to her cries, chose to see her wounds and love who ended up losing out on the defining lessons of chose to stand up against her injustice. Using the power life. So Nigerian couples tended to stay together in a bid of divorce, Mary opted out of her nightmare. Taking with to maintain an artificial family atmosphere for their chil- her a two year old child. Mary had overcome her abusive 6 December 2010  The African Professional - Houston WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG
  • 7. husband, but now had to overcome the world as single Fela Anikulapo Kuti would say an empowered sophisticat- mother faced with the gargantuan task of raising a child. ed lady. In his upbeat hit song “Lady,” Fela takes a satiri- Mary tried her best, but like Mike another child was bred cal look at this trend comparing and contrasting between confused and lost, a cultural embarrassment to the elders a typical African woman and the newly evolving western- of Nigeria and another ubiquitous by-product of a west- ized African woman. In his song he portrays the African ern culture saturated with divorce. woman as one willing to accept the man as the master, but the “Lady” on the other hand is soiled with western What should Mary have done, should she have sacrificed influence and believes the man should wash plates and herself for the mirage of a quasi marriage? That question share in the household chores. is answered with a startling “no” by Nigerian female im- migrants to America. Who frown at the thought of staying So what is best? A woman that sacrifices herself to up- in an abusive marriage. A thought that is often preceded hold a family, or a woman that speaks up against palpa- with the mindset of an independent woman. A woman ble injustice. I don’t know the answer, I wish I did. But as whose idea of marriage is one in which both husband I stare at that girl swaddled in the warm linen of blankets and wife are equally responsible for the financial and so- with that glistened look in her eyes. I can’t help but think cial aspects of the family. But in the traditional definition about Mike. Who shall we produce what shall we be- of marriage that has never been the case. The man has come? I don’t know but in the cold of the night I come to always been marked as the head of the household with realize that part of the solution lies in me. The man. a woman there to support him. But this trend of female Okechukwu Ofili independence is fast engulfing the Nigerian landscape Author | Speaker | Coach as the typical definition of an obedient African woman is ofili@ofilispeaks.com now replaced with that of an empowered woman or as Copyright © 2010 Ofili Speaks, Inc. All rights reserved WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG The African Professional - Houston  December 2010 7
  • 8. BUSINESS & ECONOMICS A Woman’s Worth Women-Owned Businesses Poised to Impact National and Global Economies Powerful. Tenacious. Commanding. Persistent. Courageous. Brave. Daring. Determined. We are here - 10.4 million strong. We are enthusiastic motivators and excited cheerleaders. We are the best at building relationships. We are women. We are caring nurturers, consistent hand-holders, boo boo kissers. We are mothers. W e are also starting and and grow our human resources with building businesses at a talented people? How do we do faster rate than any other more than remain afloat? segment in the United States, with an estimated 10.4 million Women-owned businesses are companies and growing. Together, poised to increase jobs tremen- we spend more than $546 million dously, decrease the unemployment dollars a year to pay salaries and benefits to our valued employees so they can care for their own families. WE NEED: We are providers. deficit, create opportunities locally • Robust financial and business and globally, and help our country So why are women businesses still plans that gain the attention of climb out of its recession. lagging in financial growth? Why, on investors. average, do our businesses remain Are you a business owner? Have small, with 10 or fewer employees? • Resources to learn and under- you developed your plan? Have you Why are we more likely to create life- stand strategic planning, bud- located the support you need? style businesses that only contribute geting and forecasting for our nominally to our family’s household companies. We are here. The Women CEO Proj- income, as opposed to creating self- ect was created to provide women sustaining, million dollar enterprises • Access to capital, relationships entrepreneurs and business owners, that can provide for our children’s with our business bankers and not only motivation, but the essential children? knowledge of our companies’ strategic support necessary for ap- cash flows. preciable business and professional Do we lack vision? Or is our vision growth. obstructed? How can we shift from • Focused, informed marketing sole proprietor “lifestyle” businesses and knowledge about leveraging The Women’s CEO Project is a virtual to progressive, successful compa- social media to grow virally on a community of entrepreneurs in the nies that support our families, send shoestring budget. U.S. and abroad whose members our children to college and leave advance their businesses through a legacy? How do we elevate our • Supportive, strategically identi- focused training (virtual and off-line), companies to the next level, gain a fied networks and partners, both constructive collaboration and profes- greater return on our investments, locally and internationally sional networking. Join us, www. Kristi L. Jackson, MBA | www.womenceoproject.com | Twitter @womenceo | (281) 808-4620 8 December 2010  The African Professional - Houston WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG
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  • 12. 2010 A friPRO Houston was founded in 2005 as a chapter of the bers and the community at large about how to network with business leaders, Global African Professionals Network (AfriPRO). Experienc- and with our expert panelist this year’s ing steady growth since inception, our programming now topics ranged from How to Start a Busi- ness, Resource for Business Startups, reaches hundreds of professionals in the Greater Houston and Creating Savings Plan. area and beyond. Our membership consists of attorneys, doctors, phar- macists, engineers, nurses, accountants, IT specialists, and entrepre- Professional Networking AfriPRO Houston hosts monthly profes- neurs, to mention but a few. sional networking events to foster and promote in African professionals, among Our 2010 Programming • AfriPRO Houston SAT Tutorial: ear- other things, a sense of responsibility to- lier in the year, we facilitated with ward their communities. The year 2010 Community Outreach & Service another organization to assist with has been filled with many activities de- AfriPRO Houston seeks to support MATH/SAT tutoring. signed to cater to the diverse tastes of and promote in African professionals our members. Some of the activities: a sense of responsibility toward their • Census Count: Members of Afri- communities and provide them with PRO Houston had partnered with AfriPRO UHNSA event: AfriPRO exec- opportunities to engage in charitable the Census count for our commu- utive members and members joined in activities and community based pro- nity service and door to door out- a panel discussion about giving back gramming. Below are some exam- reach on April 17th 2010 the community, challenges and suc- ples of our programming: cess after school, to the University of Professional Development & Houston Nigeria Student Association. • The AfriPRO Houston Mentoring Pro- Educational Workshops gram is a structured program de- We seek to foster a stimulating and Welcome To Lagos event: This event signed to give our members the interactive environment for African pro- was geared towards educating mem- platform to support the development fessionals to grow in their local com- bers about the documentary by BBC of one another and others who are munity and we encourage profes- “This is Lagos”, followed by active less experienced. In this program, sional excellence in the workplace by group discussions of the documenta- we matched mentors with mentees to fostering individual development. In ry as it affects our life in the Diaspora. support specific goals including lead- addition, we help facilitate increased ership development and career path communication, interaction, and the AfriPRO Houston Annual Holiday selection and provided group oppor- exchange of ideals among African Gala Awards 2010: This event geared tunities for mentoring to take place. professionals, enabling them to learn towards honoring outstanding mem- new skills and acquire knowledge bers of our community at large, This • Volunteerism: We volunteered at the from each other. Below are some ex- year we honor Indego Africa’s Tom Mi- George R Brown Convention Center amples of our programming: tro, Houston Texans’ Amobi Okoye, Mr for Thanksgiving 2010 helping with Chido Nwangwu of USAfrica Multime- sorting, packing and distributing of do- The 2010 AfriPRO Houston Entrepreneur dia, Dikembe Mutombo, and Execu- nations for the needy in Houston, TX. Forum was aimed to educate our mem- tive and Member of the year. Hosted by Nnete from 97.9 The BOX. For more details of AfriPRO Houston events and pictures visit www.afriprohouston.org 12 December 2010  The African Professional - Houston WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG
  • 13. AfriPRO Houston 2010 Ngozi Ndukwe Holiday Award Recipients Gala Chair Merit Award Recipient - Tackle, Amobi, now with the Houston Texans, purposes to The Dikembe Mutombo Foundation provide hope to Kids and Communities around the globe. The Dikembe Mutombo Foundation is dedicated to improv- Okoye graduated high school at the age of 15 and shortly after, ing the health, education and quality of life upon turning down many prestigious opportunities (including for the people of the Democratic Republic Harvard) to purse his football dream, he became the youngest of the Congo. The Foundation strives to NCAA athlete of all time pursuing his football dream at Univer- accomplish this goal not only by providing sity of Louisville. In 2007, Okoye became the youngest player comprehensive health care at the Biamba ever to be drafted into the NFL in the modern draft era at the Marie Mutombo Hospital, but also through age of 19, drafted by the Houston Texans in the first round. an emphasis on primary health care and disease prevention, the promotion of health Distinguished Professional of the Year - policy, health research and increased ac- Chido Nwangwu cess to health care education for the people Chido Nwangwu, recipient of the Journal- of the Congo ism Excellence Award (1997), is the Founder and Publisher of the influential and respected Host - Nnete USAfrica, USAfricaonline.com, the first African- Nnete is the lady of the Madd Hatta Morning owned U.S.-based professional newspaper Show and reports all the celebrity excitement to be published on the Internet, the Chinua and drama from New York, L.A. and every- Achebe Project, the ultra-glossy CLASS mag- where in between in “That’s Whats Up” at the azine, the exciting photos and events mega- top of every hour. She also hosts 97.9 The site with the largest collection of contemporary Box’s community program Conversations images/events of continental Africans in America PhotoWorks. with Nnete Sundays at 6:30am. Nnete wears TV, the Black Business Journal, several blogs, and USAfrica The many hats as a budding comedian/host, Newspaper, which was voted the Number One community news- actor and entrepreneur. She owns Houston’s paper in Houston in the annual ranking by the readers and editors premier plus-size boutique, Strut, hosts Nnete’s Book Break and of the Houston Press in 2001. dedicates time to various community causes. Nnete earned a Bachelor’s of Business Administration in Finance from the Universi- Officer Of The Year - Uche Chibueze ty of Houston and is a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. Uche Chibueze, our Community Service Officer, is a psycholo- gist for the forensic department at the Harris Charity Of The Year - Indego Africa County Juvenile Justice Center. She is also Indego Africa is an innovative social enterprise that partners with employed as an adjunct professor for the Uni- women artisans in Rwanda on a fair trade versity of Houston, University of Phoenix, and basis to drive forward a sustainable, long- South University. Uche earned her Bachelor’s term solution to systemic poverty in Africa. degree in Psychology and a Master’s degree Indego Africa sells its partners’ contempo- in Community Counseling from Baylor Univer- rary accessories and home décor products sity. In addition, she completed her Doctorate at high-end retailers and on its online store, degree in Clinical Psychology at Texas School returning 100% of its profits to the women of Professional Psychology. Uche has a for ground-breaking long-term skills training strong interest in working with high risk adoles- programs. Indego Africa is a proud member cents and is currently working on establishing of the Fair Trade Federation and the subject a private practice that is geared towards providing psychological of a Harvard Business School case study. services for the African immigrant community. Indego Africa unleashes the potential of thousands of indepen- dent African businesswomen. 100% of the Member Of The Year - Victor Ike profits raised from our 4th Annual Gala will Victor Ike graduated from of the University of go to support Indego Africa. Pittsburgh with a Bachelors Degree in Com- puter Engineering. He worked for 6 years as Image Award Recipient - Amobi Okoye a Supply Chain Operations Leader for GE. The Amobi Okoye Foundation opened its Currently, he is pursuing his MBA in Marketng doors in 2008 with the purpose of providing from the University of Houston and working hope to Kids & Communities around the as an IT Support Analyst. In his free time, he globe. Founded by University of Louisville enjoys volunteering, physical fitness, acting, graduate and former Cardinal Defensive web design, and all facets of music. WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG The African Professional - Houston  December 2010 13
  • 14. A Step to Greatness I t is an honor to write tomorrow. Leaders must be great’. I encourage us all to start this note of congratula- rise and lead with integrity, 2011 on a path to being great and let tions to Afripro for its and the people must stand confidence move our feet beyond the efforts in encouraging with a positive mental doors of fear and into the space of and recognizing African attitude. Let us fly with progress. Nurture your talents today, talents and achievements wings as eagles and create and watch the reward clear the road through its community a legacy that will encour- to success. In the words of our illustri- events, annual Gala and age others to do well. Too ous President (Obama)– Yes we can! awards night. often we hold ourselves back with excuses that we Thank you, Veronica Oladeji My view is that we were are waiting…we are not all born with a purpose in life, and where we should be. Well, we never Veronica Oladeji, is the Editor and founder of all could play a role in encouraging will be, if we don’t take the first step APINKE Magazine (www.apinke.com), A glossy each other to reach our full potential. to getting there. Someone once told lifestyle publication which portrays the positive ar- eas of the global African community, culture and Africans need to stand united today me: ‘you don’t have to be great to get lifestyle. APINKE is a Yoruba word which means to in order to transform the continent started, but you have to get started to share and nurture together Nnete: Host, Afri PRO Psychology in Africa Houston Gala Introduce yourself to our readers. My name is Sandra Ain- abe, I am Ekpoma from Edo State. I have an undergraduate degree in psychology and a Masters in Counseling-LPC. I will be working on my PhD the beginning of next year. N nete’s quick wit and comedic timing is what has cemented her reign as the First Congratulations! That sounds awsome, i have some ques- Lady of the Madd Hatta Morning Show. tions for you, why the field of psychology? I have always In addition to being the feminine voice liked helping people. My friends always came to me for of reason, she is the ultimate go-to source for all advice on whatever dilemmas they might be experiencing. I things Entertainment. She also hosts 97.9 The have always wanted to have a home for children preferably Box’s community program “Conversations with young girls. After I worked with child protective services for Nnete” on Sunday mornings. two years, I knew that I needed to further my education and become a licensed professional counselor. Nnete wears many hats as a budding comedi- How can therapy help us as african people? Therapy can an, actor, and entrepreneur. Currently, she serves help anyone if they are willing and are accepting counsel- as the national host for the first African American ing services. There are situations that I only discuss with my to walk in space, former astronaut, Dr. Bernard therapist that I would not even discuss with my family mem- Harris’s Dream Tour, where they encourage students to pursue Science, bers or significant other because the therapist is a neutral Technology, Engineering, and Mathematics field of study. She is definitely individual. Their primary goal is to help you and guide you active in the community and promoting a positive image for our young- to a solution or acceptance of your situations or dilemma. er generation. As a contributor with the Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Inc. Metropolitan Alumni Annual Teen Summit she serves as host to promote What are some taboo issues which you think we need to HIV, sexually transmitted disease protection, safe sex, and abstinence. tackle as a people? Prior to my bachelors’ degree and In addition, she is a mentor for the Boys and Girls Club and My Sister’s educational exploration in the field of psy- Keeper – Texas Southern University Summer Girl’s Camp. As she con- chology I used to think that someone who tinues to grow as an entrepreneur, she participates with the One Woman visited a therapist was “crazy” or I taught Conference-Teen Entrpreneurship program, where a forum is created to that only rich white people had a therapist. equip today’s youth with practical knowledge to survive in our economy. I feel that the reason there are so many ta- boo associated with people visiting a thera- Nnete is a strong advocate in educating our youth and creating aware- pist is mainly ignorance. We as a people ness. As a radio personality, she uses that platform to encourage and tend to tune off or judge and misjudge situ- motivate youth in their education. During the academic school year, she ations that make us feel insecure or take us uses her time to visit various schools as a TASK Pep Rally Motivator. She out of our comfort zone. I feel that the best way to tackle the taboo is taking the time to continues to speak at career fairs and universities to share her experience attend a counseling session, read journal and the appreciation of what she has learned along the way. Nnete has articles before we come to negative conclu- definitely earned her title with eloquence. sions. People visit therapists for different reasons that range from : financial, marital, job coaching, and so many other Nnete earned a Bachelor’s of Business Administration in Finance from the reasons that are not associated with mental health. University of Houston and is a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. 14 December 2010  The African Professional - Houston WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG
  • 15. A SOCIAL ENTERPRISE SOCIAL ENTERPRISE IN ACTION INNOVATIONS F I ounded in November 2006 by Mat- ndego Africa sets itself apart from thew and Th omas Mitro, Indego Africa, both commercial handicraft export- a 501(c) (3) non-profi t organization, ers, which provide only income, is an innovative award-winning non-profi t and traditional non-profi ts, which fo- organization that is using a social enterprise cus only on skills or hand-outs, by off approach to empower hundreds of Rwandan ering an innovative hybrid approach. women and help them lift themselves out of Th is business model helps the poverty. Indego Africa is a member of the Fair women in our partner cooperatives to Trade Federation and was the 2008 winner take care of their immediate needs, of the Social Entrepreneurship & Innovation diversify their income-generating and Competition. Indego Africa’s model is simple, entrepreneurial skills, and cultivate yet powerful: self-worth and confi dence. Indego Africa’s social enterprise model is a) partner with cooperatives of world-class also replicable and transparent – artisans in Rwanda, made up entirely of institutional values that promote both women; sustainability and growth. b) sell their masterful fair trade handicrafts POPULATION SERVED I – from stylish yoga bags to vibrant wine ndego Africa partners with more coasters to exquisitely hand-crafted bas- than 250 remarkable women in kets – at high-end retailers across the U.S. Rwanda, many of whom cope with and on Indego Africa’s WebStore; HIV/AIDS; suff er from psychological trauma; have little formal education; c) pay the women a fair wage, including care for several children, including 50% in advance of production; orphans from the Genocide in 1994; and are the sole providers for their d) return 100% of the profi ts to its Hand Up households. program for culturally-tailored training programs in Financial Management, En- trepreneurship & Microfi nance, Literacy, Computers, & Global Commerce; and e) harness local talent to conduct the train- For more information on ing programs through a ground-breaking Indego Africa, please visit, internship program with Orphans of Rwanda International (ORI), a nonprofi t http://www.indegoafrica.org that provides university scholarships to high-achieving orphans. WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG The African Professional - Houston  December 2010 15
  • 16. F or all intents and ARTS & LEISURE purposes, I am a self taught artist. While high school art classes taught me quite a bit, complet- RELEASE ing a piece requires a lot of ef- fort. I enjoy the challenge. I want to inspire others to AWAKEN THEIR INNER ARTIST. Recall the your Inner things you have learned or sim- ply start from scratch to create ARTIST! and express your thoughts and feelings NOW. Discover new avenues of self discovery by RELEASING YOUR INNER ART- IST! www.dannawhitesite.com. By Danna White Like so many people, I have always enjoyed creative expres- sions. I have always enjoyed painting and drawing on large surfaces. Larger canvasses are still my favorite. I walked away from art and creative expression yet I yearned for a way to fill that void. Now that I have returned to my passion, I enjoy bright, bold colors and strong movement through obvious brush strokes and using creative techniques. I learned most of what I know about artistic techniques in high school. My art teacher enjoyed teaching art and made a life long impression on my artistic creativity. I use many of those techniques today in my work. I still hear her comments when I am working on a piece, “Please explain your compositional movement” or “I’d rather a piece to evoke a feeling of hate rather evoke no feeling at all.” I hope my works inspire others to use their talents to do the same… evoke something in others. Good or bad…evoke! Release Your Inner Artist! 16 December 2010  The African Professional - Houston WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG
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  • 18. M any people think there is no skill or ex- FAMILY perience needed to finding a nanny. You just ask a friend or family member and the perfect nanny shows up at your door step. This is a huge mistake that people continue to make ev- ery day. Before you waste anyone’s time including your own make sure you know what you want versus How to what you need, and most importantly what you can pay for. Hiring a nanny is a lot like buying a pair of designer shoes, it takes a lot of patience, time and it Hire a can be very frustrating. When you hire a nanny, you are making a very vital decision that will impact your “Good” child’s life forever. At My Good Nanny, we have our premium servic- es where we work with you one on one to find that Nanny “good” nanny. We have the experience, success rate, and connections to give each customer what they need and want. We also have our ‘Do It Yourself’ ser- vices that our more experienced customers can enjoy. Here are my Top Ten List for Parents: 1. Meet the Nanny or Service Provider in their home or By Mrs. TosiUfodike place of residence. It says a lot about a person, when you see where they live and how they live, etc. A lot of people make a huge mistake and conduct the interview at their house because it is more convenient. This is a huge mis- take. Take the time and go to where the Nanny or Service provider lives. 2. Call References. Take the time and talk to people who are listed as references. Ask questions about experiences and skills. This step is often overlooked. By calling the references and interviewing them as well, you can obtain some great information that can help you in your hiring process. 3. Discuss salary up front. Be honest with what you can af- ford. Make sure both parties are in agreement before the first day of work. Have a pay schedule and stick to it. If you tell the nanny you will pay her bi-weekly then please pay her bi-weekly. Discuss vacation time and sick time. 18 December 2010  The African Professional - Houston WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG
  • 19. 4. Have a two week trial period - this is very important. People can say all the right things and ace an interview. How- ever, it is very hard to hide your true self day in and day out. Take this time to watch and learn. Inform the nanny that there will be a probationary period. Use this time to ensure that the person works well for your family. 5. Develop a work contract and have both parties sign it. Don’t hire a nanny for two kids and then when she starts you have 2 of your sister’s kids, 5 neighbors’ kids, 3 cousins, and a dog. A lot of nan- nies get frustrated when people are not up front with expectations and job duties. By putting everything in writing, you al- leviate a lot of unnecessary drama. 6. Give Bonuses. When you find a good nanny who takes care of your children well, you want to 10. Hidden cameras are wonderful. They tell a lot about reward her for her hard work. We all know good workers what is happening to your child, I emphasize this especially are HARD to find. Make sure you show your appreciation to parents with infants. It does not matter that you met by saying Thank you and giving her a bonus when it is her at church, that she has 6 children back home, is from deserved. your village or home town, and so on and so forth. People have a lot of issues. Mental issues are often not properly 7. Ask the nanny if she has specific diagnosed. You want to be safe and training or certifications. At My Good By calling the references and not sorry. Nanny we offer FREE Nanny Training interviewing them as well, you to all our nannies. We offer informal Remember the My Good Nanny rule. can obtain some great infor- and formal etiquette training to all our Pray over anybody that comes into nannies. . mation that can help you in contact with your children. Be polite your hiring process. and professional. Thank the nanny for 8. When you conduct the interview, their time and keep smiling no matter please have your children around. Observe the nanny and how things went during the interview. Nannies that may not see if she tries to make a connection with your children. If work for you or your family provide great nanny referrals. she seems frustrated or does not even hold or look at the child that is a red flag, so take heed. Please visit us online at www.mygoodnanny.com. We are here 24/7. Call our toll free number 1-866-950-2495. 9. Nannies are not parents, they are Nannies. No Nanny or Service Provider will love your child like you do, or treat them like you do. Always remember good nannies work very hard and are not perfect. Many nannies form very serious bonds with the children they look after. It takes a special person to take care of other’s people kids. What you are looking for is someone who is passionate about their job, honest, and has a real desire to work with you Mrs. TosiUfodike is CEO & Founder of My Good Nanny and Author of and your family. the best selling Children’s book: Princess Amara & The Magic Fruit. WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG The African Professional - Houston  December 2010 19
  • 20. EXECUTIVE SUMMARY The AMOBI OKOYE Foundation T he Amobi Okoye Foundation, Inc. was founded in 2008 by Houston Texan defensive linemen Amobi Okoye. The Foundation’s mission is to provide hope to kids and communities around the world. Amobi entered high school at the young age of twelve and he distinguished himself both athletically and scholastically. He then graduated Lee High School in Huntsville, Ala- bama at fifteen. Amobi’s academic prowess was evident to all; he was offered a scholarship to Harvard University, which he turned down in lieu of a football scholarship to the University of Louisville. After four football seasons Domestic programs are currently based in Katy, Texas a and three and half years of study, he graduated with a suburb west of downtown Houston. We also have of- degree in psychology, and became the youngest player fices in Huntsville, AL and Louisville, Kentucky, the place to ever be drafted into the NFL at nineteen. Amobi has of Amobi’s collegiate career. To accomplish program a passion to help children by objectives, ensure sustainable giving them a hope and a future funding and garner sufficient and letting them know they can • Tackle Hunger: Provides temporary suste- community support, The Amobi achieve great things. Amobi is nance for needy families while encourag- Okoye Foundation has ad- equally passionate about seeing ing an atmosphere of hope that will lead opted a sound strategic plan communities transformed. He to personal sustainability. that incorporates an aggressive believes that through partner- public information campaign; a ship and collaboration we can • Kickoff for Kids: Series of youth activities power-packed Board of Coun- see the inner cities of America that uses athletics to motivate and inspire cilors comprised of thoughtful renewed, and impoverished na- this generation leaders and key influencers, tions enriched. and has conferred with the best • Amobi’s House: Community achieve- of professionals to ensure the Programs of the Amobi Okoye ment center where kids can learn and integrity of programs offered. Foundation can be catego- play in a safe nurturing environment Through a comprehensive pro- rized into two main groups gramming model, sustainable that include: Domestic youth • C.A.T.E. (Changing Africa Through Edu- funding and transparent report- and community programs and cation): Global education initiative that ing, The Amobi Okoye Founda- International Outreach based in offers academic and athletic scholarships tion is making a difference in Nigeria, West Africa. to support achievement and excellence the lives of thousands around among youth in developing nations. the globe. 20 December 2010  The African Professional - Houston WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG
  • 21. ARTS & LEISURE My Virginity is Ruining My Sex Life W hat does “virginity” really mean? Is there really Whether dealing with lack of self-control, or hurt from any difference between sexual intercourse participating in sexual activities, or with emotional and out and making out? My Virginity is Ruining My of control relationships, My Virginity is Ruining My Sex Life Sex Life discusses everything about virginity, encourages and challenges readers to make a choice all the questions that ravage today’s youth, what to do— to walk in abstinence and not to give up the fight to stay and what “not” to do—with sexually pure. the opposite sex. An hon- est first book that is both Vivian Elebiyo (800) 733-5117 vivianelebiyo@yahoo.com brutally frank and firmly mor- ally grounded, it will be instantly recognized as an invalu- able addition to the literature on abstinence. What the book has to say is so forceful, so charged, so unflinch- ing—yet, so true—it will leave readers both winc- ing in embarrassment and nodding in assent on recognizing its truth. My Virginity is Ruining My Sex Life is a book geared towards young adults, it teaches the tools to saying “No” to premarital sex and it gives good dating tips and tips on setting boundaries. In today’s world young adults are bombarded with sexual innuendos on T.V., sexually perverse messages on the radio, and nude images on magazines. My Virginity is Ruining my Sex Life helps them find that inner strength to stay untouched by the gratification the world has to offer which does not last long. WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG The African Professional - Houston  December 2010 21
  • 22. ARTS & LEISURE MOYEEN and her MUSIC By Linda Anukwuem for White Flame Firm.com M usic, the universal language of life, has evolved over the years. These days, music means scantily clad artists singing repetitious lines over a highly synthesized beat. It is rare to hear non-hormonal music that has a positive mes- sage. And just when I thought K’naan’s “Waving Flag” was the only self-empowerment anthem I’d experience this year, I came across Nigerian singer-song writer: Moyeen of www.MoyeenMusic.com and I was pleasantly surprised at the quality and content of her music! I introduce you to Moyeen and her musical universe where R&B Soul, Jazz and Naija music coexist in harmony. I have to warn you though; her music is miles away from bubble gum-pop as she is no pop princess. Let’s just say she is unique, soul- ful and real. Her first single “Follow My Dreams” makes a grand impression. This classical soul inspired tune confirms her truthfulness as an artist as she shows her vulnerability by “Even when you are giving us a glimpse of her journey into pursuing her pas- sion. In this soulful ballad, Moyeen explores the fears discouraged make and uncertainties associated with following the path you hold on, the sun less traveled. . With a unique velvet smooth voice, she engages listeners with clever harmonies as she deliv- will surely come after ers the verses revealing her story. Right when you think you heard it all she dives into the defiant and victori- the storm… ous chorus singing:”Omo Naija ni mii (I’m Nigerian), no matter what people come a little bit closer you’ll see”! Moyeen clearly embraces her roots and encourages her listeners say, look to the mirror, to do the same. Not to mince words “Follow My say its okay, it’s going Dreams” is a praise-worthy ballad that keeps you wanting more. Thankfully her album is due for a to be a brighter day.” January 2011 & “Follow My Dreams” is available on her website. Lyrics from “Follow My Dreams” by singer/song writer Moyeen Moyeen’s music did not start overnight though; she has been under the radar: honing her skills, writing, performing and even mentoring younger artists. A lot of focus, discipline and hard work have finally paid off as she is steadily gaining critical acclaim performing across For more info on Moyeen the country. She draws inspiration from life, love, emotions, thoughts, Join her on Facebook: relationships, other people’s experiences, and most importantly, God, www.facebook.com/moyeenmusic4u whom she credits for the gift of music! Follor her on Twitter: You can definitely expect to hear more from this budding Naija export www.twitter.com/moyeenmusic , her sound is fresh , her voice is distinct, and her message gives the kind of positive vibes you need on a daily basis. 22 December 2010  The African Professional - Houston WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG
  • 23. INTERNATIONAL AFFAIRS: ACCORDING to AFRICA and ASIA By Joso-Fatimaah Menefee A frica and Asia have Policy initiatives and frameworks such always had a trad- as the: - Focus Africa Program, TEAM- ing business relation- 9 and The Pan-African Network are ship, which dates becoming modern day pioneers in this back to when our continent field. wasn’t known by countries, no romance languages were The Focus Africa program began spoken. China and India have with the focus on Sub-Saharan Af- been managing an economic rica but now includes Nigeria, South relationship with the continent Africa, Mauritius, Kenya, Tanzania and that has shown to be quite Ghana account for 69% of India’s total fruitful. If “the powers that be” bilateral trade with the Sub-Saharan maintain balance including African region. As of current day the a checks and balances, the program is all over the continent of growth potential for Africa’s role Africa. in the global economy will be immense. Rate of exports between Sub-Sahara Africa and china Team-9 is focused more on polishing com- have increased rapidly, faster than rates of the mercial relations on various levels from govern- European Union and the United States. mental, institutional and private sectors to share economic opportunities through physical and The major differences between the two con- intellectual resources with countries located in tinents such as: labor, capital and natural West Africa and the Government of India. This resources are actually blessings in disguise. approach is known as the Techno-Economic The word middle class in America is becoming Approach for Africa India Movement (Team-9 Ini- extinct; however in this part of the world this is tiative). The countries focused here are: Burkina not only a reality but incomes are rising steadily. Faso, Chad, Cote d’Ivorie, Equatorial Guinea, The relationship between this two continents hold Ghana, Guinea-Bissau, Mali, and Senegal. strong value to the social-economic develop- ment of the continent. Finally the Pan- African E-Network Project funded entirely by India has a budget of $50 million for In the last couple of years numerous partner- installation, operating and maintaining; com- ships have forged for Indian and African cor- munication technologies that is solely focused poration leaders, academic leaders and major on ending the digital divide in the continent. The policy makers to network for a joint venture while goal is to connect all countries in Africa by a building stronger initiatives. African policy mak- satellite through fiber-optic networks and wireless ers ought to hold investors to higher social-eco- links. The network will provide: e-education, Inter- nomic standards: by only working with investors net and video-conferencing services, support for willing to stimulate their respective country’s e-governance, e-commerce, resource mapping economy with employment incentives for recent and meteorological services connectivity. The graduates to help stop the brain drain the conti- network will connect 5 universities, 53 learning nent suffers from and also by transferring differ- centers, 10 super specialty hospitals, and 53 ent technologies. remote hospitals in the 53 Pan-African countries. WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG The African Professional - Houston  December 2010 23
  • 24. POEMS/POETRY REAL. TRUTH. IMAGE. My voice, Out my image, my face My obsolete greatness, Into a horror, and defaced. Inside your historic facet, Is your memory selective, Reside that real image, For, you were not that protective. That face: the vintage, Your politics’ digressive, That trace: the lineage, You are not that possessive. That place: the village, Are my words not assertive? Now a peeled page, Does my burning hut ring you praise, Erased, as I’m left to wonder Where my bones range, These ashes overtaking my place. Inside the debris, I am left to relay Where my flesh simmered? Another smoke of religion’s adage, If only this heat As I inhale Was all I received for dinner. The darkness, If only this heated my feet Burdensome tears During each cold harmattan. Peeling my burning skin, Better late than never, Turbulent fears Yet I feel late as ever. Fading my infancy. My image now seems dimmer. I wonder if these kings Listen! Felt the instant kill, I am Africa! When they sealed, Until you defend me, And spilled my kinship? Protect, feed, I hunger, when their prince, Address, respect, and Would remotely redeem me Restore me, Even so dimly, You have no face, The family within me No image, no trace; Retraced. But, No voice. I would not take my place. You are nothing For, you heard not my cry Without this noise. Suffocated between her thigh, Your greatness Preserved for my last breath, Lies within Between my mothers’ last sigh. My voice. I will not shy from the lie I am, When I did die, Your Real, Your machete did slice, Your Truth, Boko Haram did dice Your Image. REXX D’Artist © 1013103 24 December 2010  The African Professional - Houston WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG
  • 25. THE RUNNING BEAUTY Outspoken Bean www.outspokenbean.com I’m the worst person to share- feel- Running then finds me, then ings with. asked me “why doesn’t She didn’t care - she came running boyfriend like me?” as her masquera that did the same. Searching for answers and Running her 14 teen year old heart acceptance in an empty was smeared with puppy love tears human cavities. chasing her own tail of immaturity. She yearned for fulfillment. I gave the only retort that i thought could work. I don’t know what he did but I know what he can do. Remembering this is the same girl in the back of the class room who wrote love I lacked the tools to repair she dis- songs with do you like me question- agreed naires at the end. She felt i was well equipped she says your poet Mr. Bean I never seen pink two pink boxes Your words can fix anything have so much power from a mere Well, let me give you a tip check. I lack the gravity of the advise you seek so my gratuity wouldn’t do much This is the same girl who’s artistry for you it would be just generous hid behind her shyness where timid Boxing The Fluent One www.thefluentone.com clouded her days not knowing her sunny smile still carries shine even Grade school students who have grown problems that succeeds the with braces. last straw that breaking camels backs Blood dripping from a shattered across America nose, Your not barred from anything. These kids are handed troubled twigs popcorn enticing nostrils fading that are the size California red woods to copper. This is the Same Girl Darien Albert - Red Wood! gloves heavy with fatigue. connecting only with air. The way pressured insecurities dress These hurtles they’re told to jump punches missing like winter in the her daily out fitting her situations and over are really mountains Bahamas if you were to let her tell it arms burning, I can’t phantom how he is your sweat extinguishing baby flames. you would have swore they were phantom He stands there, taunting. together for 35 years but it 3 and 1/2 sweet heart dried your tears your not Level headed as the arena weeks even on the brink of what’s to come stumbles around me. to you jeers echoing in rattled brain, Down her face were dried Mabeline So do me a gracous favor and forget reading my haphazard attempts to tire streaks vertically across her cheeks about what’s not worth remembering end this battle. It’s like he took the punches right Breathing like a fish out of water then smile welcoming your better out of my arms, the air she gasping for from him leav- days to come longer running left me with despair and pain. ing so calm down if you must run chase your promises the mat never felt so enticing. leaving your broke heart in the cast of hard as feather when I fall, He may have been breath taking but your eye shadow holding me tight against the canvas. he provides you with all the air you forget about what’s not worth re- gravity as my security blanket. need membering then smile welcoming defeat never tasted so wonderful. your better days to come longer Relief, a rose blush against my The last thing she wants to hear is running palette, something that sounds like prayer if you must run chase your promises to fall, and rise no more. When she feels she has been preyed leaving your broke heart in the cast of upon she’s in despair- your eye shadow WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG The African Professional - Houston  December 2010 25
  • 26. Jay Thomas “Service Based on Trust” Exemplary real estate service distinguishes Jay Thomas as a true professional. H e is responsive to his them as he works diligently, clients and customers who often going the extra mile benefit when Jay Thomas when it serves their needs shares his experiences by provid- and desires. “With the kind ing them with sound advice on all of know-how that comes aspects of the real estate transac- from years of success, I tion. Much of his success comes take my responsibilities from referrals or repeat business from former clients very serious. My client’s needs are foremost impor- attesting to the quality of results he achieves on their tant in every situation. My success in this business behalf. Buyers and sellers who work with Jay Thom- is not only measured by my client’s satisfaction, but as quickly find out that he genuinely cares about also by the number of referrals that are sent to me.” Jubril “Jay” Thomas, Realtor® | Direct: (832) 889-5607 | Email: jay.thomas@realmpro.com Realm Properties LLC. | 4543 Post Oak Place # 107 | Houston, Texas 77027 26 December 2010  The African Professional - Houston WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG
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  • 28. P- A - S - S - I - O - N L ife itself is a journey, ever wonder how easy life’s am passionate about as a result, I started growing it while journey will be if there was a navigation system; transitioning from corporate America and within a short pe- OnStar, GPS or something in that sense, helping riod of time, I was able to transition totally into running my us get to our “there” without missing direction. As own personal business, my passion yielding tremendous we journey through life, one of the questions that we each profits and I was blown away. I wake up every day happy, ask ourselves is, “Am I living the life that God designed excited and ready to take on my day, more like a hobby. for me to live.” We all have been fearfully, wonderfully and Subsequently, my organization has grown to become a uniquely made hence we each have different and unique conglomerate of many other successful businesses, with gifts and talents that God has deposited inside each and two books about to be released, I am excited to share this every one of us. Yet a question that seem to hover around topic of living life on your own terms and outlining seven us is, “How do I discover my gifts.” There after the next (7) simple and easy to follow steps yet transforming! Your question might be, “how can I leverage such passion and destiny should excite you, believe it or yes, if you are not turn it into profits. moving toward your God-ordained destiny, there will al- ways be tension and dissatisfaction growing in your inner I personally was there years back when I used to work for being. They don’t just go away with time; it remains until a telecommunication company, even though it was a great you take action towards living a life of passion and pur- company to work for at the time, having just migrated to the pose. You have been created to create, you have a dream United States from Nigeria. I was eager to mingle and learn that nobody else can live out but you. Don’t go through the new culture and know the people. I had worked for the life enduring an average, mediocre life, take control today, company for over 5 years, not only was it a fair paying job, and watch YOU shine! Here are some questions that will they also paid my tuition up to Masters level but at some help you in your process of discovering your passion: point, I was tired of the routine. I used to be unbelievably excited when Friday came around, ecstatic to delve into • What am I passionate about? the weekend, Sunday morning, I am in church all happy, • What do I really love to do and Why? and then it hits me in the evening, the familiar “cloud” of • What are my values? depression and pressure comes over me just because Monday is around the corner. I felt something was missing, • Are my activities getting me close to my dream? there had to be another way out, but just couldn’t connect • If not, when do I start growing and living out my dream? the dots. I was almost beginning to settle until I decided to • What does success look like for me? (Vacation, go back to school again; it was then that I started doing re- spending family time, philanthropic lifestyle etc.) search on successful people and how they became suc- cessful. Consequently, I realized the power of discovering In answering these questions above, it will help you create and living out ones passion and not just that, but also turn- a tie with these 7 Steps below which outlines how to dis- ing such passion into great profit. In researching, I care- cover your passion and grow it into profit. Remember that fully combed through my life to discover those things that I a business is find a need; fill a need. 28 December 2010  The African Professional - Houston WWW.AFRIPROHOUSTON.ORG