What does Resiliency for Life do?
We help people learn how to bounce back and stretch in the face of life\'s upsets and adversities. We help them understand the process and develop the factors that deepen their capacity to thrive. We help them build their resiliency and develop their potential for more positive outcomes.
How does Resiliency work?
Most of us have been conditioned to see the negatives and dig for deficits in our lives. This can place large limits on personal and career achievement, education, relationships, health and happiness and successful outcomes personally and professionally.
3. Resiliency for Life
re·sil·ience
Noun
2. the capacity to recover from difficulties; toughness, tenacity,
flexibility.3. the ability of a substance or object to spring back into shape;
elasticity.
16. Threat / Shrink Opportunity / Stretch
X
Stuff Happens
Acceptance
Mastery / Learning
Helplessness
Hopelessness
Bitter Better
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Live here is not good
Live here is key
HOW?
20. ReActive Thinking/Feeling ~ Active Thinking/Feeling
X
~ Stuff Happens
Acceptance
Mastery / Learning
Helplessness
Hopelessness
Bitter Better
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Live here is not good
Live here is key
Process
21. Threatened ~ Opportunity
X
~ Stuff Happens
Acceptance
Mastery / Learning
Helplessness
Hopelessness
Bitter
Lack of wisdom
Does not always
equal lack of
knowledge but of
application.
What blocks you?
Better
Wisdom =
Knowledge Learned
& Applied
What builds you?
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Process
22. Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Focus
What hurts?
(Past / Future)
Focus
What am I missing?
Next steps?
(Present)
Normal Range
For coping
and thriving
23. Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Normal Range
Of being human
What type of behaviour builds or tears our resiliency
Frozen
Flicker
Frenzy
Floppy / Relation
Flow / Mindfulness
Fright and Fun
24. Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Increased Range
of Resilience
Less F-3’s
Frozen
Flicker
Frenzy
Increased F+4’s
Floppy / Relaxation
Flow / Mindfulness
Fright and Fun
25. Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Focus Past / Future
Resisting
Avoiding
Assuming Outward
Demanding
Normal Range
For coping
and thriving
Focus Present Big Stuff Little Stuff
26. Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Focus Past / Future
Normal Range
For coping
and thriving
Focus Present Big Stuff Little Stuff
Acceptance
Yielding
Observing Inward / Outward
Cruising (Time Out)
Implementing / Innovating /
Delegating
Follow Up / Tune Up
27. Reactive / Loss of Resiliency ~ Active / Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Focus Past / Future
Normal Range
Focus Present
Big Stuff Little Stuff
Personal Audit
Awareness Inwards and Outward
Self Leadership
Vision & Values
Relationships
Energy Management
Life Long Learning
28. Reactive / Loss of Resiliency ~ Active / Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Focus Past / Future
Normal Range
Focus Present
Big Stuff Little Stuff
Personal Audit
Awareness Inwards and Outward
Self Leadership
Vision & Values
Relationships
Energy Management
Life Long Learning
29. Reactive / Loss of Resiliency ~ Active / Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
How did we get here?
What keeps us here?
Normal Range
How do we achieve this?
What helps keep us here?
30. Reactive / Loss of Resiliency ~ Active / Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
What do you want to
do to move forward?
Normal Range
What are your next steps
to widen or deepen your
resilience?