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Resiliency for Life
With Michael Ballard
Resiliency for Life
re·sil·ience
Noun
1. to bounce back.
Resiliency for Life
re·sil·ience
Noun
2. the capacity to recover from difficulties; toughness, tenacity,
flexibility.3. the ability of a substance or object to spring back into shape;
elasticity.
Resiliency for Life
re·sil·ience
4. The ability to change the quality of our experience
to create more positive experiences and outcomes.
But…
How do we get more of it?
What does that look like?
Here is a tour into The Land of Resiliency
for your consideration.
Resiliency for Life
Here is a tour using our introductory model of the Resiliency process.
Resiliency for Life
Resiliency for Life
Bitter — Better Line
Resiliency for Life
X
X
X
Stuff Happens
X
Shrink Stretch
X
Stuff Happens
Shrink Stretch
X
Stuff Happens
Impact includes: What else?
Shrink Stretch
X
Stuff Happens
Impact includes:
Rational
Physical
Emotional
What else?
Shrink Stretch
X
Stuff Happens
Acceptance
Mastery
Defending
Helplessness
Hopelessness
Bitter Better
Visit here normal
Live here is not good
Live here is key
Threat / Shrink Opportunity / Stretch
X
Stuff Happens
Acceptance
Mastery / Learning
Helplessness
Hopelessness
Bitter Better
Visit here normal
Live here is not good
Live here is key
HOW?
Shrink Stretch
X
Stuff Happens
Bitter Better
Key Factors
Awareness
Skills
Support
Understand the Process
Threat / Shrink Opportunity / Stretch
X
Bitter Better
Key Factors
Awareness
Skills
Support
Understand the Process
Shrink Stretch
X
Stuff Happens
Acceptance
Mastery / Learning
Helplessness
Hopelessness
Bitter Better
Live in past or future Live in present
Process
ReActive Thinking/Feeling ~ Active Thinking/Feeling
X
~ Stuff Happens
Acceptance
Mastery / Learning
Helplessness
Hopelessness
Bitter Better
Visit here normal
Live here is not good
Live here is key
Process
Threatened ~ Opportunity
X
~ Stuff Happens
Acceptance
Mastery / Learning
Helplessness
Hopelessness
Bitter
Lack of wisdom
Does not always
equal lack of
knowledge but of
application.
What blocks you?
Better
Wisdom =
Knowledge Learned
& Applied
What builds you?
Visit here normal Live this way is goal
Process
Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Focus
What hurts?
(Past / Future)
Focus
What am I missing?
Next steps?
(Present)
Normal Range
For coping
and thriving
Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Normal Range
Of being human
What type of behaviour builds or tears our resiliency
Frozen
Flicker
Frenzy
Floppy / Relation
Flow / Mindfulness
Fright and Fun
Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Increased Range
of Resilience
Less F-3’s
Frozen
Flicker
Frenzy
Increased F+4’s
Floppy / Relaxation
Flow / Mindfulness
Fright and Fun
Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Focus Past / Future
Resisting
Avoiding
Assuming Outward
Demanding
Normal Range
For coping
and thriving
Focus Present Big Stuff Little Stuff
Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Focus Past / Future
Normal Range
For coping
and thriving
Focus Present Big Stuff Little Stuff
Acceptance
Yielding
Observing Inward / Outward
Cruising (Time Out)
Implementing / Innovating /
Delegating
Follow Up / Tune Up
Reactive / Loss of Resiliency ~ Active / Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Focus Past / Future
Normal Range
Focus Present
Big Stuff Little Stuff
Personal Audit
Awareness Inwards and Outward
Self Leadership
Vision & Values
Relationships
Energy Management
Life Long Learning
Reactive / Loss of Resiliency ~ Active / Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
Focus Past / Future
Normal Range
Focus Present
Big Stuff Little Stuff
Personal Audit
Awareness Inwards and Outward
Self Leadership
Vision & Values
Relationships
Energy Management
Life Long Learning
Reactive / Loss of Resiliency ~ Active / Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
How did we get here?
What keeps us here?
Normal Range
How do we achieve this?
What helps keep us here?
Reactive / Loss of Resiliency ~ Active / Gaining Resiliency
X
Process
What do you want to
do to move forward?
Normal Range
What are your next steps
to widen or deepen your
resilience?

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Resiliency For Life Program Outline

  • 1. Resiliency for Life With Michael Ballard
  • 3. Resiliency for Life re·sil·ience Noun 2. the capacity to recover from difficulties; toughness, tenacity, flexibility.3. the ability of a substance or object to spring back into shape; elasticity.
  • 4. Resiliency for Life re·sil·ience 4. The ability to change the quality of our experience to create more positive experiences and outcomes.
  • 5. But… How do we get more of it?
  • 6. What does that look like? Here is a tour into The Land of Resiliency for your consideration.
  • 7. Resiliency for Life Here is a tour using our introductory model of the Resiliency process.
  • 9. Resiliency for Life Bitter — Better Line
  • 14. Shrink Stretch X Stuff Happens Impact includes: Rational Physical Emotional What else?
  • 15. Shrink Stretch X Stuff Happens Acceptance Mastery Defending Helplessness Hopelessness Bitter Better Visit here normal Live here is not good Live here is key
  • 16. Threat / Shrink Opportunity / Stretch X Stuff Happens Acceptance Mastery / Learning Helplessness Hopelessness Bitter Better Visit here normal Live here is not good Live here is key HOW?
  • 17. Shrink Stretch X Stuff Happens Bitter Better Key Factors Awareness Skills Support Understand the Process
  • 18. Threat / Shrink Opportunity / Stretch X Bitter Better Key Factors Awareness Skills Support Understand the Process
  • 19. Shrink Stretch X Stuff Happens Acceptance Mastery / Learning Helplessness Hopelessness Bitter Better Live in past or future Live in present Process
  • 20. ReActive Thinking/Feeling ~ Active Thinking/Feeling X ~ Stuff Happens Acceptance Mastery / Learning Helplessness Hopelessness Bitter Better Visit here normal Live here is not good Live here is key Process
  • 21. Threatened ~ Opportunity X ~ Stuff Happens Acceptance Mastery / Learning Helplessness Hopelessness Bitter Lack of wisdom Does not always equal lack of knowledge but of application. What blocks you? Better Wisdom = Knowledge Learned & Applied What builds you? Visit here normal Live this way is goal Process
  • 22. Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency X Process Focus What hurts? (Past / Future) Focus What am I missing? Next steps? (Present) Normal Range For coping and thriving
  • 23. Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency X Process Normal Range Of being human What type of behaviour builds or tears our resiliency Frozen Flicker Frenzy Floppy / Relation Flow / Mindfulness Fright and Fun
  • 24. Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency X Process Increased Range of Resilience Less F-3’s Frozen Flicker Frenzy Increased F+4’s Floppy / Relaxation Flow / Mindfulness Fright and Fun
  • 25. Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency X Process Focus Past / Future Resisting Avoiding Assuming Outward Demanding Normal Range For coping and thriving Focus Present Big Stuff Little Stuff
  • 26. Loss of Resiliency ~ Gaining Resiliency X Process Focus Past / Future Normal Range For coping and thriving Focus Present Big Stuff Little Stuff Acceptance Yielding Observing Inward / Outward Cruising (Time Out) Implementing / Innovating / Delegating Follow Up / Tune Up
  • 27. Reactive / Loss of Resiliency ~ Active / Gaining Resiliency X Process Focus Past / Future Normal Range Focus Present Big Stuff Little Stuff Personal Audit Awareness Inwards and Outward Self Leadership Vision & Values Relationships Energy Management Life Long Learning
  • 28. Reactive / Loss of Resiliency ~ Active / Gaining Resiliency X Process Focus Past / Future Normal Range Focus Present Big Stuff Little Stuff Personal Audit Awareness Inwards and Outward Self Leadership Vision & Values Relationships Energy Management Life Long Learning
  • 29. Reactive / Loss of Resiliency ~ Active / Gaining Resiliency X Process How did we get here? What keeps us here? Normal Range How do we achieve this? What helps keep us here?
  • 30. Reactive / Loss of Resiliency ~ Active / Gaining Resiliency X Process What do you want to do to move forward? Normal Range What are your next steps to widen or deepen your resilience?