3. “Love all, trust a few, do wrong
to none.”(William Shakespeare)
“Without trust, influence
diminishes” (Vanessa Hall)
“To be trusted is a greater
compliment than being loved”
(George McDonald)
8. What is Trust?
Trust is a confident belief in someone or
something. It is the confident belief in an entity:
To do what is right
To deliver what is promised
To be the same every time, whatever the
circumstances
9.
10. Questions about trust:
Can we see/feel trust?
Can we measure trust?
Can we learn trust?
Can we practice trust?
Is trust essential?
Is trust an activator or accelerator?
11. Questions about trust:
Tangible
Measurable
Learnable
Practiced
Essential
An activator or
accelerator
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12. You are trusted to the degree
that people believe in:
your ability,
your consistency,
your integrity, and
your commitment to deliver
DO PEOPLE BELIEVE IN
13. Levels of trust
Very low trust
Low trust
Moderate trust
High trust
14. Levels of trust
Very low trust
Unhealthy working environment
Mistakes remembered, used as weapons
Unhappy employees & stakeholders/customers
Guarded communication
Intense political atmosphere with clear divisions, camps,
parties etc.
Excessive time wasted defending positions & decisions & real
issues do not surface
Painful micromanagement & bureaucracy
15. Levels of trust
Low trust
Common “Skin Saving” behavior
Doubting others’ reliability,
commitment, abilities
Gathering evidence of others
weaknesses or mistakes
Hidden agendas, self interest
Political camps with allies
16. Levels of trust
Low trust
Bureaucracy and redundant systems
(Structure not working)
Guarded (often grudging) dispersing
information – “They should just know
how…”
17. Levels of trust
Moderate trust
Healthy workplaceMutual tolerance &
respect
Polite, cordial communication Good
communication
Aligned systems & structures Limited
office politics or
camps
Focus on working together smoothly &
18. Levels of trust
High trust
The focus is on work, with cooperative,
close, vibrant relationships
Mistakes seen as learning and focus is on
each other’s strengths
Effective collaboration & execution
(Positive
partnering)
Uplifting, positive communication (Positive
energy & positive people)
19. Levels of trust
High trust
Helpful systems and structures (Work as
whole, not in camps)
Strong creativity and innovation
(Confident, engaged employees)
Work is based on sense of purpose
25. Trust Equation
Credibility relates to our words and is
revealed in our credentials and honesty
Reliability relates to our actions and is
revealed by keeping our promises
Intimacy relates to our emotions; people
feel safe talking about difficult agendas
Self-orientation relates to our caring and is
revealed in our focus (us or them?)
26.
27. Myths about trust
Trust is soft.
Trust is hard, real & quantifiable, it is
measurable affects both speed & cost –
productivity.
Trust is slow.
Nothing is as fast as the speed of trust.
You either have trust or you don’t.
Trust can be both created & destroyed.
28. Myths about trust
Once trust is lost it can not be restored.
Though difficult, in most cases lost trust can be
restored.
You can’t teach trust.
Trust can be effectively taught and learned
Trusting people is too risky.
Not trusting people is a greater risk
Trust is established one person at a time.
Establishing trust with the one, establishes
trust with the many
33. Trust Accounts
When we meet others we open a trust account
With each of further interaction either we
Credit trust OR
Debit trust
Trust balance comes first, financial balance on
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45. Behavior 1: Talk Straight
Be honest.
Tell the truth.
Let people know where you stand.
Use simple language.
Call things what they are.
Demonstrate integrity.
Don’t manipulate people or distort facts.
Don’t spin the truth.
Don’t leave false impressions.
46. Behavior 2: Demonstrate
Respect
Genuinely care for others.
Show you care.
Respect the dignity of every person and every
role.
Treat everyone with respect, especially those who
can’t do anything for you.
Show kindness in the little things.
Don’t fake caring.
Don’t attempt to be “efficient” with people.
47. Behavior 3: Create Transparency
Tell the truth in a way people can verify.
Get real and genuine.
Be open and authentic.
Operate on the premise of “What you see is
what you get.”
Don’t have hidden agendas.
Don’t hide information.
48. Behavior 4: Right Wrongs
Make things right when you are wrong.
Apologize quickly.
Make restitution where possible.
Practice “service recoveries.”
Demonstrate personal humility.
Don’t cover things up.
Don’t let pride get in the way of doing things
right.
49. Behavior 5: Show Loyalty
Give credit freely.
Acknowledge the contributions of others.
Represent others who aren’t there to speak
for themselves.
Don’t bad mouth others behind their backs.
Don’t disclose others’ private information.
50. Behavior 6: Deliver Results
Establish a track record of results.
Get the right things done.
Make things happen.
Accomplish what you’re hired to do.
Be on time and within budget.
Don’t overpromise and under deliver.
Don’t make excuses for not delivering.
51. Behavior 7: Get Better
Continuously improve.
Increase your capabilities.
Be a constant learner.
Develop feedback systems—both formal and
informal.
Act on the feedback you receive.
Thank people for feedback.
Don’t consider yourself above feedback.
Don’t assume today’s knowledge and skills will
be sufficient for tomorrow’s challenges.
52. Behavior 8: Confront Reality
Address the tough stuff directly.
Lead out courageously in conversation.
Remove the “sword from their hands.”
Don’t skirt the real issues.
Don’t bury your head in the sand.
53.
54. Behavior 9: Clarify Expectations
Disclose and reveal expectations.
Discuss them.
Validate them.
Renegotiate them if needed and possible.
Don’t violate expectations.
Don’t assume that expectations are clear or
shared.
55. Behavior 10: Practice Accountability
Hold yourself accountable.
Hold others accountable.
Take responsibility for results.
Be clear on how you’ll communicate how you are
doing—and how others are doing.
Don’t avoid or shirk responsibility.
Don’t blame others or point fingers when things
go wrong.
56. Behavior 11: Listen First
Listen before you speak.
Understand.
Diagnose.
Listen with your ears—and your eyes and heart.
Find out what the most important behaviors are
to the people with whom you’re working.
Don’t assume you know what matters most to
others.
Don’t presume you have all the answers—or all
the questions.
59. Behavior 12: Keep Commitments
Say what you’re going to do, then do what you
say you’re going to do.
Make commitments carefully and keep them.
Make keeping commitments the symbol of your
honor.
Don’t break confidences.
Don’t attempt to PR your way out of a
commitment you’ve broken.
60. Behavior 13: Extend Trust
Demonstrate a propensity to trust.
Extend trust abundantly to those who have earned
your trust.
Extend conditionally to those who are earning your
trust.
Learn how to extend trust appropriately to others,
based in the situation, risk, and credibility
(character and competence) of the people
involved. But have a propensity to trust.
Don’t withhold trust because there is risk involved.
61. Regaining Trust
Whether you lose the trust of
others through a conscious act of
betrayal, poor judgment, an honest
mistake, a failure of competence,
or a simple misunderstanding, the
path to restoration is the same—to
increase your personal credibility
and behave in ways that inspire
trust.