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Smt.Ramaharan-Senior Corporate Trainer
Email:ramatrainer@gmail.com
Proactive Living
• Proactive sight is looking at everything and
assessing a course of action using all available
data
• It is charting a course and following it
regardless of which way the “wind” is blowing
• It is taking time to look when everyone around
you is screaming for action
Language People use
Reactive Language Proactive Language
I’ll try I’ do it
I have to I choose to
I can’t There’s a way
I don’t think I think I can
Impossible I “am” possible
4 Steps to being proactive
• Imagination- I can envision new possibilities
• Will power- I have the power to choose
• Self awareness- I can stand apart from myself
and observe my thoughts and actions
• Conscience- I can listen to my inner voice to
know right from wrong
How being proactive pays off
• Are not easily offended
• Take responsibility for their choices
• Think before they act
• Bounce back when something bad happens
• Focus on things they can do something about
and don’t worry about things they can’t
• Always find a way to make it happen
Habits of highly Effective People
The 5 P’s involved in being proactive.
1. Predict
• In order to be proactive, you must first develop
foresight. Proactive people are rarely caught by
surprise. Learn to anticipate problems and
events.
2. Prevent
• Proactive people foresee potential obstacles and
exert their power to find ways to overcome them
before those obstacles turn into concrete
roadblocks.
3. Plan
• Proactive people plan for the future.
• Avoid one-step, “here and now” thinking and instead,
look ahead and anticipate long-term consequences.
4. Participate
• Proactive people are not idle observers, they are active
participants.
• In order to be proactive, You have to take initiative and
be a part of the solution
5. Perform
• Being proactive means taking timely, effective action.
• You must be decisive and willing to do the work NOW.
Procrastination is not an option. Take ownership of
your performance and hold yourself accountable.
Being Proactive means…
• Being proactive is a learned skill.
• Being proactive is being courageous in taking
risks.
• Being proactive is learning from one's own
mistakes and learning from the mistakes of
others.
• Being proactive is creating desired results.
• Being proactive is moving your self forward.
You have control over three things:
• what you think, what you say,
and how you behave.
• To make a change in your life,
you must recognize these gifts are
the most powerful tools you
possess in shaping for form of
your life.”

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Proactive thinking

  • 2. Proactive Living • Proactive sight is looking at everything and assessing a course of action using all available data • It is charting a course and following it regardless of which way the “wind” is blowing • It is taking time to look when everyone around you is screaming for action
  • 3. Language People use Reactive Language Proactive Language I’ll try I’ do it I have to I choose to I can’t There’s a way I don’t think I think I can Impossible I “am” possible
  • 4. 4 Steps to being proactive • Imagination- I can envision new possibilities • Will power- I have the power to choose • Self awareness- I can stand apart from myself and observe my thoughts and actions • Conscience- I can listen to my inner voice to know right from wrong
  • 5. How being proactive pays off • Are not easily offended • Take responsibility for their choices • Think before they act • Bounce back when something bad happens • Focus on things they can do something about and don’t worry about things they can’t • Always find a way to make it happen
  • 6. Habits of highly Effective People
  • 7. The 5 P’s involved in being proactive. 1. Predict • In order to be proactive, you must first develop foresight. Proactive people are rarely caught by surprise. Learn to anticipate problems and events. 2. Prevent • Proactive people foresee potential obstacles and exert their power to find ways to overcome them before those obstacles turn into concrete roadblocks.
  • 8. 3. Plan • Proactive people plan for the future. • Avoid one-step, “here and now” thinking and instead, look ahead and anticipate long-term consequences. 4. Participate • Proactive people are not idle observers, they are active participants. • In order to be proactive, You have to take initiative and be a part of the solution 5. Perform • Being proactive means taking timely, effective action. • You must be decisive and willing to do the work NOW. Procrastination is not an option. Take ownership of your performance and hold yourself accountable.
  • 9. Being Proactive means… • Being proactive is a learned skill. • Being proactive is being courageous in taking risks. • Being proactive is learning from one's own mistakes and learning from the mistakes of others. • Being proactive is creating desired results. • Being proactive is moving your self forward.
  • 10. You have control over three things: • what you think, what you say, and how you behave. • To make a change in your life, you must recognize these gifts are the most powerful tools you possess in shaping for form of your life.”