2. Sex
Refers to the physical characteristics that
identify a person as either male or female
that are determined by nature.
Sex has to do with;
Type of genital organs one has (penis,
vagina)
Ability to produce sperms or ova.
3. Sexuality
Refers to feelings, behaviors, attitudes
and values related to;
Sex
Being in love
Sexual intercourse
Sex organs
Sexual preference
Religious and cultural views on sexuality
How we define what is male or female
4. Why we don’t teach or talk about
sexuality.
It is believed teaching young people about
sexuality will encourage them to engage in
sexuality activities.
Those who talk about sexuality are considered
to be sexually loose.
People are shy/embarrassed to talk/teach
about sexuality.
Some people feel guilty, ashamed, dirty or
even bad about same aspects of their own
sexuality.
In some communities it a taboo to teach or talk
about sex or sexuality.
5. Can we discuss HIV/AIDS without
talking or discussing sex and
sexuality?
6. Write the followings words in kiswahili and
your mother tongue.
Sex Testicles
Penis Vaginal fluids
Vagina Clitoris
Anal sex Masturbation
Oral sex Semen
Buttocks Breasts
Homosexuality Orgasm
7. There are many words that are used to
describe sex and sexuality
Different people perceive these words
differently – some are very
uncomfortable especially with the more
explicit terms while others are quite
comfortable.
8. As peer educators;
we need to be sensitive about these
differences and also appreciate our
own preferences
If we are quite comfortable using
certain terms, we should not assume
everyone else is.
If you are not comfortable with some of
the sexual terms some of your peers
use, you can tell them about your
discomfort.
9. Cont..
However we need to work at being
comfortable with using or hearing
many of these sexual words.
However, when the words are used in
the right context and to convey the
desired message, people will hardly
ever take offence.