2. So you’ve broken up? And it was your idea? Now you realize
what a mistake you made and want him back, but have no
idea how to go about it, or even if he will come back. Then
maybe you need to learn how to win your boyfriend back
slowly, so as he does not think you are just playing with him.
Some men will mistake your genuine intentions for another
chance to hurt them, so you need to take that into
consideration.

3. Be sure of what you want before finding out how to get your
ex back. What was the breakup over, anyway? If it was some
small thing, like the ever-present leave the toothpaste lid off,
is you sure you can live with that habit in the future, after it
has given you nuts this time? Or was it his continually straying
eyes? If he goes no further than with his eyes, are you
prepared to put up with that as a part of his character? Also
have a clear look at your own behavior. Does he stare openly
at other girls because you won’t let him talk to anyone else
but you when you are out, even if he knows them?