Read the real life experience of a student.See how she had been wrangling with fears and finally found herself back on the right track.She is now more determined to pursue her dreams.She tackled bullies,being motivated,now turns out to be a motivator."Whatever problems you face,all you need to do is to apply the 6F,"she said.-ANONYMOUS
2. PROLOGUE
Soon we will be coming to the end of the year 2015.It marks a new beginning of
our life.Some may be very satisfied throughout this year and some may
not.Me,as a Malaysian student had been struggling hard in my Form 4
year.Besides having to tackle the daunting syllabi,extra-curricular activities,I
have been disheartened by peers’ rude remarks and thus,feeling dismay and
subsequently affecting my kinship,friendship and spirits towards education.Yet a
travel to KL in this holiday opened my eyes about the correct way of living,in
which all towners are so engaged in their very own life:sipping a cup of
coffee,hearing to headphones,grabbing a free newspaper at KL Central,boarding
a public train and embarking on a whole new day.Wow!That simply impressed
me.I started thinking how many times I had been wasting throughout this year
burying myself in the critics,views and woeful events.I seemed to have forget
about my initial dream of going to school,that is to graduate with remarkable
results and start a competitive but healthy city life.Now I finally come out with a
conclusion that the only way of achieving my dream is to stop dealing with the
unhappy accounts,having full passion towards my study and always thinking
about my goal of gaining a full scholarship by any agencies:I hope to get 8A+s to
be qualified.Down there I had listed the “6F Key Principle”.Perhaps it might be
helpful for any students of my age being shrouded by bullying issues and those
who anticipate a healthy lifestyle in 2016.
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3. 1.FORGET
We need to forget about the pasts.Others may say anything they want but do not
let their critics and egregious glances affect you.Even though you had been
doing something wrong,it is their faults not to offer you an olive branch.They
have no rights interfering our life unless we consent.Only we know that we are
always doing right things driving us move further.Just pay attention towards the
things that you are doing,that will be enough to build up your confidence sooner
or later.If you feel alone and helpless,especially when you overhear they
gossiping about you,just forget about it and kindly ignore for your own sake.
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4. 2.FORGIVE
I am not urging you to forgive your nemesis because it is hard to try to forgive
someone who have been disrupting your thoughts and feelings.All you need to
do is to forgive yourself.When you cannot reach your goal,tell yourself that “it’s
okay”, “ it’s not big deal” and continue your hard work,resume thinking about
your dreams.Would not it be blissful imagining the moment you achieve
them?That is the fuel to keep you moving.Futhermore,forgive your family
members.They might have done something wrong or said something rude to
you,might it be intended or either.Yet their faults will never surpass those who do
not be so familiar with you,but always boasting about you at any institutions.
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5. 3.FAMILY
Be kind to your family.Family is the only one that will not stab us on our
back.Frequently communicate with them and let your parents know how you are
progressing well at school or in your life.Smile with them when talking.You need
to be obedient.Clearly let them know your feeling when they are compelling you
to do something you do not prefer,I believe they will kindly respect your
stance.Sometimes teens find it hard to converse with their parents due to the
generation gap existing,therefore it is vital to provide them crisp and courteous
explainations in order to let them know the things you try to convey.A good
kinship contribute to a smooth-sailing life.
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6. 4.FANTASY
It sounds great!Undeniably we tend to cram everything possible into our
schedule because we are so eager to achieve our final goal.Yet too much
workings will disrupt our understanding of a particular concept.Hence,despite all
the learnings,we need to give ourselves a leeway to do the things we love.For
example,I will spend my afternoon reading news.This has been improving my
English vocabulary command.Since too much studies can dampen our passion
to further,I think moderate,exam-oriented exercises will be enough,keep some
times for some enthusiastic and upbeating hobbies.
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7. 5.FUN
Being a bookworm will be monotonous.So,try to adopt an interesting way of
learning.You do not have to highlight all the important points and paste the sticky
notes like applying plasters on your History textbook.Read it like a story!Get
yourself passionated to have an insight into the magnificent legends of our
nation and the evolution of mankind.For science subjects like Biology,Chemistry
and Physics,answering techniques are of paramount importance.Therefore,get
the information online.Adopt e-learning for Biology.You may watch chapter-by-
chapter slides show with fun graphical features and useful texts that can be used
in answering structured questions.
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8. 6.FRIENDS
You do not have to comply to others’ favour just to refrain yourself from being
alone.Also you do not have to have a big bunch of boisterous friends,only a
small community that can help you will be enough.Ignore those who used to hurt
you.You do not have to express you hatred through any social media,just simply
forget about them,then you will have a peaceful soul to carry on.Cycle aimlessly
in the neigbourhood and feel the breeze of the wind on your hairs,be you alone
or with a friend.No man is an island but a few friends,even one can be enough.
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9. EPILOGUE
I would like to express my heartfelt thanks to my parents and my friend,Yi
Hui.After a long and winding journey in 2015,it was my family who is still
standing by my sides,reminding me that I should rather enjoy learning than
caring about some brainless friends’ and teachers’ judges of me at school.I did
not even notice that I had fallen into the bullies’ intended trap.It’s my own
conscience that had pulled myself back from the brink of committing suicide.I
had been miserable all through this year and crying for so much times.Being so
disheartened,my learning had also been affected.Next year will be my important
year,that is to sit for SPM.I will be doing my best to get everything ready.Finally,I
want to tell those in the same situation with me,you may be finding the way
out,you may be sad over the undelightful events in this year,but Yi Hui told me
one thing at a night:you know this year has been a bad year for you,but next
year will be a good year for you.I chose to be a Belieber,not because I am so
fond of Justin Bieber,it is because believing is a reformation of thoughts to be a
positive thinker,to give myself a new opportunity to live as a happy person,to
achieve my dreams,to do the things I am passionated,to appreciate the people I
love,to educate more people like me,to spread the awareness ,to finally rest in
peace,together with the mighty God.I believe 2016 will be a good year to me and
also you,may it be helpful to you.
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