2. Breaking up with someone who you were close to and
had a strong bond with brings out strong feelings of
denial, sadness, frustration and anger. If you are reading
this article, you have probably broken up with you
partner and are in a similar situation right now. If you are
wallowing in self pity and feeling sorry for yourself, you
need to stop it right now.
3. You must pull yourself together and establish a solid plan
for getting back together with your ex. However, the
problem is that you may know you need to have a plan
but don't know exactly what steps to follow to put it into
action. That's what this article is about. It will outline 3
most powerful strategies for putting your relationship on
the right track again.
4. It's vital that you give yourself time to regroup and recover
from the shock of the break up. Take a step back and make a
rational decision about what you should do next. The only way
you will be able to think rationally and logically about your
relationship is if you let the emotions from the break subside.
This may take some time and this strategy will allow enough
time to do that. It will also prevent you from having a kneejerk reaction to the break up and making a rash decision that
may jeopardize your efforts of reconciling with your ex.
5. Secondly, tell your ex that you agree that spending some
time apart will be good for both of you. Then stop
communicating with him or her for a while. Don't try to
call them, send e-mails and text messages, leave
messages on their answering machine, etc. How your ex
perceives you at this point is extremely important.
6. If he or she sees you in a negative light, which is likely
especially if the break up occurred recently, you need to
change that. By not communicating with him or her for a
while, you prove to them that you are mature enough to
handle the situation at hand and not act like someone
who is desperate and clingy.
7. Once it's time to re-establish contact with your ex, it's
very important to take things slowly. Understand that
your ex needs to feel comfortable with you again and not
be pressured into getting back together with you.
Inviting your ex out for coffee is something you can do
together that will create an atmosphere where both of
you can feel relaxed. If you carry out this step
correctly, getting back together will become much
easier.
8. Please pay close attention here,
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