The document discusses several common issues that can negatively impact marriages such as lack of trust, affairs, stress, financial problems, lack of communication, and jealousy. It provides advice for overcoming such issues, including facing problems directly but avoiding desperate measures, focusing on challenges rather than frustrations, being honest about yourself, and improving communication skills which are key to solving relationship problems.

1. FIXING STORMY WINDS IN MARRIAGE Broken Trust Having Affairs Lies Third Party Involvement Stress Relationship Burdens Economic Disparity Social Disparity Family Intrusion/invasion Sex Communication Love Time Commitment

2. ARE YOU READY TO BE BACK ON YOUR FEET AGAIN AND STAND TALL AGAIN Broken Trust Having Affairs Lies Third Party Involvement Stress Relationship Burdens Economic Disparity Social Disparity Family Intrusion/invasion Sex Communication Love Time Commitment Christian-update Outreach

3. Sex in marriage should be used as an invaluable, legitimate and skilful tool to renew, refresh and celebrate couples affection for one another and not as a malicious gadget of intimidation, coercion, arm-twisting, browbeating and exploitation. SEX IN MARRIAGE

4. Sex in marriage and or marital relationships is pivotal and should be having or given prestige and should come top in pecking order even before high-flown illuminating traits like trust, good passionate communication and honesty.

5. The key to the restoration of most if not all relationships or marriages courageously lies with the people involved and not in the pledge or covenant and definitely not in courtroom conventionality or correspondence. The courtroom is often effortlessly used as an emergency exit for flawed relationships.

8. I ask myself everyday if I am the right person for my partner. Always ask yourself how you can breath life into your relationship and animate it, not how you can suck the existing life out of it. You don’t have to be in a relationship where you are armoured from your partner 24/7. ASK YOURSELF- AM I GOOD ENOUGH? Christian-update Outreach

9. When most obstacles and crisis in relationships and marriages are viewed as challenges not as sources of frustration. Then they obviously will build you up and reinforces your emotional walls. SEE THEM AS CHALLENGES

11. Communication should be good, sympathetic or passionate or heartfelt emotional and effective in every relationship. We sometimes have to play smart, clever or intelligent to know how to approach issues and communicate them to our partners because it is the key to unlocking almost any marital or relationship problems How good are your communication skills?