3. What is Etiquette?
“The forms and practices prescribed by
social convention or by authority.”
“The code of polite behavior in a society.”
(Oxford Reference Dictionary)
“The conduct or procedure required by
good breeding or prescribed by authority to
be observed in social or official life.”
4. Etiquette
Etiquette is about presenting yourself with
the kind of polish that shows you can be
taken seriously.
It's a code of conduct, a method for dealing
with how people interact with each other --
based on respect and accepted norms of
behavior.
5. Set of customs,formal governing rules, which are
Socially acceptable for polite behavior in society or
particular profession.
Etiquette ?
6. Professional etiquette - must for Career
builds leadership, quality, business & careers
It refines skills needed for exceptional service
Why Etiquette is required ?
Without Etiquette
• You limit your potential
• Risk your image
• Damage relationships
7. The Basics
Be courteous, thoughtful and respectful to the
people around you.
Respect everyone’s privacy.
Avoid raising your voice.
Avoid using harsh or derogatory language toward
anyone. (present or absent)
Do cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze.
Apologize when you step on toes.
8. Avoid Interruptions.
Always apologize if you must interrupt a
conversation, meeting, or someone’s concentration
on a task .
Refrain from Gossip.
Maintain your integrity.
Keep your productivity high .
10. Dress/Appearance
Wearing wrinkled, smelly or unkempt clothes
communicates disinterest.
If in doubt, always err on the side of conservative.
General Hygiene: Deodorant, brushed teeth, pleasant
breath
Fit: It is important that clothing fits well and is
comfortable, pressed and clean.
Shoes: Polished and in good condition. Heels should not
be worn out. No open toe shoes.
11. About People
Visit and talk with people. Don’t differentiate by
position or standing within the company.
Keep notes on people.
Send cards or letters for birthdays or
congratulations of promotions or other events,
send flowers for engagements, weddings or in
condolence for the death of a loved one or family
member. People will remember your kindness,
probably much longer than you will!
12. Introductions
The proper way to make an introduction is to introduce a
lower- ranking person to a higher-ranking person. For
example, if your CEO is Mrs. Jones and you are
introducing administrative assistant Jane Smith to her, the
correct introduction would be "Mrs. Jones, I’d like you to
meet Jane Smith."
If you forget a person’s name while making an
introduction, don’t panic. Proceed with the introduction
with a statement such as, "I’m sorry, your name has just
slipped my mind.”
13. Appreciation
Always pass along credit and compliments to
EVERYONE who made a contribution to the effort.
Speak well of your coworkers and always point out their
accomplishments to any interested party.
Say "Please" and "Thank you"! This little courtesy is
vital to show respect. It makes people understand you
appreciate what they can do or have done for you.
Forgetting a basic courtesy such as a "please" or "thank
you" shows lack of appreciation and concern for others
which is disrespectful and degrading.
14.
15. Social Settings
Always carry business cards.
Arrive at a party at the stated time or up to 30
minutes later.
16. Peers and Subordinates
Impressing the boss isn’t enough rather building
and maintaining good relationships with peers and
subordinates is equally important
showing respect and courtesy to everyone,
regardless of position/company
Having a consistent demeanor improves one’s
credibility
17. Superiors/ Seniors
The only thing one owes a boss above and beyond
what one owes the peers and subordinates is:
more information so that he or she knows what
one is doing, is alerted as early as possible to
issues that may arise, and is aware of outcomes
and milestones.
speak well of him or her
18. Meetings
If a subject is important enough to call a meeting, be
considerate of the participants’ time and ensure that it
is well prepared. Communicate beforehand-
The objective
The expected duration
Items expected to be discussed
Be sure to THANK meeting members for their time
and participation
Keep the rude/sarcastic comments to a minimum
19. Classroom Etiquettes
Arrive in the Class on or before the scheduled time.
Before entering, always take the permission from the
Professor present in the class-room/Lab.
Addressing/ greeting the Professor Properly.
Turn Off Your Cell Phone.
Do Not Bring Food or Drink in the Class-room.
Contribute to the Class Discussion When Appropriate.
Avoid Side Conversations.
Be Attentive in the Class.
Stay for the Entire duration of the Class.
Avoid Signaling, Sending Signs.
Contact the Professor When You Have to Miss the Class.
20. Phone Etiquette
Always return calls
If you’re going to be out, have someone pick up your
calls or at a minimum, have your answering system tell
the caller when you’ll be back and then they can expect
a call back.
When you initiate a call and get a receptionist or
secretary, identify yourself and tell them the basic
nature of your call
Answer the phone with some enthusiasm or at least
warmth
Personalize the conversation
Don’t call repeatedly-give the others a chance to
respond
21. E-mail Etiquette
Make the subject line specific
Delete the extraneous information-keep it short
simple and coherent
Address and sign your e-mails
Don’t type in all caps. It’s too intense
22. Table Manners
Accessories
Purse/briefcase should be placed under the table or beside one’s
chair.
Cell phones and pagers should be turned off or on silent mode.
Avoid answering the phone at the dinner table.
Body Language
Have good posture and keep your feet flat on the floor.
Make eye contact with people at the table.
Avoid placing your elbows on the table.
Eat quietly with your mouth closed and try not to talk with your
mouth full.
23. Passing and Adding
Items on the table that are within easy reach can be picked up.
If you need to stretch across the table or rise to reach items, ask for
them to be passed to you instead of reaching yourself.
Food is usually passed in a counter clockwise direction
Do not eat too fast; pace yourself to finish your meal at the same time
as others.
Napkins
Once seated, unfold your napkin without snapping it in the air.
Place your napkin on your lap. Avoid tucking it into your belt, shirt or
collar.
Use your napkin frequently to blot your lips but do not blot your
mouth vigorously.
If you need to be excused from the table during the meal, place your
soiled napkin on your chair (avoid placing it back on the table as it is
unappetizing for others to see a soiled napkin on the table if they are
still eating).
24. Dining Etiquette
When you are finished your meal, casually fold your
napkin and place it either: To the left of your dessert
plate if it is still on the table, or In the middle of your
place setting if the dessert plate has been removed.
In today's competitive environment, dining etiquette is
an area of expertise that can be added to your list of
career and job search skills. Keep in mind that etiquette
rules are not commandments – learn the standards and
then apply them as you see it. These skills will not only
serve you well now, but also in the future.
25. Business Etiquettes in different
Countries
To be successful in business transactions , one should bear in mind business norms of
different countries as a host or guest for that country. Business manners for some
countries are given below:
1. Americans:
Shaking hands during introduction is common.
Business cards are exchanged only when required
To be punctual.
Prefer breakfast meetings to develop close business relations. Meetings over lunch.
Its common to refer to people by their first name.
2. Europeans:
a. British: Share most of their culture with other Europeans. Formal in meetings and personal
style.
b. French: Speak in French with businessmen from other countries. Very cordial and greet by
shaking hands. Business men and women may kiss each other on meeting and parting.
26. c. Germans: Highly formal and punctual. Meetings are fixed well in advance.
Addressed by their surnames. Senior businessmen are shown respect by
sometimes being referred to as “Herr Doktor”. Similarly, businesswomen are
always addressed as “Frau”
d. Italian and Spanish: Consider business occasions as part of social life and hence
less formal than other Europeans. Meetings are more informal, so discussion
about personal welfare may precede the discussions.
e. Dutch: Speak English fluently. Most of them are polyglots(speaking and writing
several languages). They can conduct business in several languages. Relaxed.
3. The Japanese:
Greet each other by shaking hands and not with a bow.
Polite to offer and accept business cards with both hands.
Maintains personal space, so physical contact is not desirable.
Impolite to say ‘NO’.
Giving gifts considered an important part of business. A gift has to be in keeping
with the status of the person. Gifts in pairs is considered lucky. (cufflinks or pen
and pencil set)
Red cards are funeral notices, so red cards are not used for business.
27. 4. Arabs:
Stick to their traditional way of greeting, both as hosts and visitors, by saying “Salaam alaikum”
(Peace be upon you), accompanied by a firm handshake.
To show greater warmth and closeness, Arab business people may embrace each other while placing
right hand on heart and the other hand on each other’s shoulders. They may also kiss on both
cheeks. Do not reciprocate, unless you are also an Arab.
Not under time pressure. Meetings preceded by social pleasantries.
Avoid discussions on religious and political matters.
Extends lavish hospitality as hosts and expects the same as visitors to other countries.
Gifts are part of hospitality.
As tokens of gratitude for favors received, expensive gifts are presented and it is not looked upon as
bribe. It is accepted form of thanks giving.
BUT never gift handkerchiefs as gifts, as they symbolize tears and parting.
5. Indians:
Indian business culture is eclectic. Shaking hands at a meeting or parting is a common practice.
Known for their hospitality. Visitors treated with utmost attention and respect.
Business meetings are punctual, well-planned and formally conducted and protocol of seniority is
observed.
In business discussions , juniors give precedence to their seniors and they have to wait for the signal
from their seniors to contribute.
Business cards are exchanged while parting to indicate further contacts.
Small gifts at the end of meeting is a gesture of goodwill.
VIP’s are received by senior executives with bouquets. And are usually accompanied back to their
vehicle and duly seen off.
28. Social and business etiquette can be
tricky, and making the right moves
can make a big difference.
Take this quiz and see how you fare
in the following business situations.
29. My boss, Mr. Ambani, enters the
room when I am meeting with an
important client, Mr. Desai.
I rise and say "Mr.Ambani, I would
like you to meet Mr. Desai, our
client from Mumbai."
Is this introduction correct?
30. NO.
Introduce the more important
person first. You should address
your client and say
"Mr. Desai, I'd like you
to meet our Vice President of
Development, Mr.. Ambani.”
31. At a social function, I have meet
the CEO of an important
corporation.
After a brief chat, I give him
my business card.
Is this correct?
33. I am entering a cab with an
important client. I enter first
myself & asking the client to
seat on my left.
Is this correct?
34. YES !
When your client steps
out of the car, (s)he will be
on the sideway and therefore
won't have to deal with getting
out in traffic or sliding across the
seat.
35. I am in a restaurant and a thin
soup is served in a cup with no
handles. To eat it I should:
A. Pick it up and drink it
b. Use the spoon provided
c. eat half of it with a spoon and
drink the remainder
36. B.
It's not a cup of coffee,
Use the spoon provided.
For heaven's sake. And don't
slurp,
37. I am at a table in a restaurant for a
business dinner. Midway through the
meal, I have called to the telephone.
What should I do with my napkin?
a. Take it with me
b. Fold and place it to the left of my
plate
c. Loosely fold it and place it on the
right side
d. Leave it on my chair
38. D.
Leave it on your chair.
Definitely don't put it on the
Table.
What if you have crumbs on it?
39. I am hosting a dinner party at a
restaurant. Included are me and my
Wife and my most valuable client and his
wife.
I instruct the waiter to:
a. serve my spouse first
b. serve my client's spouse first
c. serve me and my spouse last
40. B .
Sort of a trick question, but
this is important.
41. I am invited to a reception and the
invitation states "7:00 to 9:00 PM."
I should arrive:
a. at 7:00 PM
b. anytime between 7:00 PM and 9:00
PM
c. between 7:00 PM and 7:30 PM
d. go early and leave early
42. B or C.
It's terribly impolite to arrive
early.
43. I am greeting or saying good-bye to
someone. When is the proper time
to shake their hand?
a. When I am introduced
b. At their home
c. At their office
d. On the street
e. When I say good-bye
44. A, B, C, D, and E.
In other words, it's a formal in
etiquette to shake someone's
hand.
Make sure you have a firm (but
not painful) handshake for both
men and women.
45. I am talking with a group of four people.
With whom I should make eye contact.
a. with the person to whom I am
speaking at the moment
b. each of the four, moving your eye
contact from one to another?
c. no one particular person
(not looking directly into)
d. anyone's eyes.
47. When I greet a visitor in my office,
do I:
a. say nothing and let him sit
where he wishes?
b. tell him where to sit?
c. say "Just sit anywhere"
49. I have forgotten a lunch with a business
associate. I feel terrible and know he's
furious. Do I:
a. write a letter of apology?
b. send flowers?
c. keep quiet and hope he forgets about
it?
d. call and set up another appointment?
50. D.
Call and set up another
appointment. And don't forget to
apologize for your error.
Imagine how you'd feel if it was
you!