2. Basics of Negotiation- Developing a
negotiation mindset
Start to look at looking at the negotiation process as a way to solve a problem
and benefit all parties as opposed to a competition.
3. Basics of Negotiation-Three Core
Negotiation Practices
Be sure to politely check in with your negotiation partner, use a bit of small talk to
get connected, and ask open-ended diagnostic questions.
4. Basics of Negotiation-Anchoring and
Framing for mutual benefit
Frame your position in a way that makes it very clear to your bargaining partner
that it will benefit all parties.
5. Basics of Negotiation-Listening and
building tactical empathy
Understand the other person’s perspective and use it to expand the conversation.
6. Basics of Negotiation-Trading things of
Value
Have a “Plan B” proposal to counter with if your initial idea is shot down.
7. Basics of Negotiation-The wrong and
right way to negotiate.
Do not rush through and keep throwing up defenses of your position; instead,
engage in small talk, understand the other person’s perspective and ask diagnostic
questions.
8. Getting ready for a negotiation-
Researching and preparing
Do research to understand how realistic your desires are and go in with the right
knowledge of the subject at hand.
9. Getting ready for a negotiation-
Identifying priorities and designing
options
Come up with 2-3 equally acceptable options in order to stay flexible when you
arrive at the negotiation table.
10. Engaging your allies-Understanding how
influence works
Understand how different relationships you already have can be influential in your
negotiation.
11. Engaging your allies-Creating your
influence plan
Make a list of people that can be helpful in getting you where you need to be.
12. Getting through and past no-
Understanding conflict styles
Coming into a conflict with the mindset of collaboration is the most likely way to
make things beneficial for both parties.
13. Getting through and past no- Getting past
no
See a “no” as the beginning of the negotiation rather than the end and be
prepared to follow up with a diagnostic question.
14. Getting through and past no -Saying no
Try to say no by further questioning the other party or bringing up time
constraints, but do not say anymore than necessary.
15. Essential negotiation tips and strategies-
Dealing with contentious tactics
Try to get a hostile person to reframe the issue and focus on the problem rather
than people, but end the conversation if need be.
16. Essential negotiation tips and strategies-
Negotiation hacks
Be sure to avoid disruptions, be in a neutral environment, express disappointment
when necessary, have something to calm you, and have a bottom line.
17. Negotiating at a distance-
Telephone/Videoconference
With long distance conversations, you must prepare adequately in order to clearly
present all of the necessary information.
18. Negotiating at a distance-Email/Text
Be sure to keep your word choice from being to aggressive and only use these in
conjunction with face to face meetings.