How to design your destiny and the use of Goalsetting. a talk I did at a company about leadership. www.supermanlife.com

1. Leadership is
your Destiny

2. Would it be OK if...
Living Life in Fullness and
Excellence

3. We’re the ones in charge of our
thoughts, words, and actions.
“Your beliefs become your thoughts,
Your thoughts become your words,
Your words become your actions,
Your actions become your habits,
Your habits become your values,
Your values become your destiny.”
Mahatma Gandhi

5. Cobus Visser

6. Cobus Visser
My story
- Born HAEMOPHILIA
- Bullied
- 5years ago
- Children
- HipC
- Suicide
- Ceo of 27stores
- Owner 4 franchise stores
- 7 an ceo - 65 prop

7. Cobus Visser
My story

8. Cobus Visser
My story

9. "I am here for a purpose
and that purpose is to grow into a
mountain
and not to shrink into a grain of
sand
henceforth will I apply all my
efforts to Grow into the HIGHEST
Mountain off all
and I will strain my Potential until it
cries for mercy”

10. Congratulations?

11. • Definition of FAIL.
–F – FIRST
–A – ATTEMPT
–I – IN
–L – LEARNING
In physics we say that work is done on an
object when you transfer energy to that
object….

12. •IF YOU FAIL TO PREPARE
•PREPARE TO FAIL.

14. Famous Failures

15. Understanding the World Today.
VOLITILITY
Lack of stability and predictability
UNCERTAINTY
Lack to foresee major change to come
COMPLEXITY
The world is moving in ways the experts have
not seen before
AMBIGIUITY
The future we plan for will contradict us

16. Enemies keeping you from your Full
Potential

17. ENEMY #1 Beliefs

18. How are our beliefs formed?:
• Childhood
• Other People
• Experiences

19. ENEMY #2 Fear

20. F = FALSE
E = EVIDENCE
A = APPEARING
R = REAL

21. “FEAR IS NOT REAL. THE ONLY PLACE THAT
FEAR CAN EXIST IS IN OUR THOUGHTS OF
THE FUTURE. IT IS A PRODUCT OF OUR
IMAGINATION CAUSING US TO FEAR
THINGS THAT IS NEAR INSANITY.
DO NOT MISUNDERSTAND ME DANGER IS
VERY REAL BUT FEAR IS A CHOICE” –
WILL SMITH

22. When I am willing to examine and acknowledge
fear, it becomes my PARTNER.
Pushing THROUGH fear is less frightening than
living with the underlying guilt that comes
with the feelings of HELPLESSNESS, HOPELESSNESS
and the sense of SEPARATION it causes.
The most empowering way to release fear is to
go THROUGH IT.

23. ENEMY # 3 – Negative Influences

24. • Surround Yourself with People that are where you want to go.
Also defined as MENTORS / MODELING.
• Avoid people that are NEGATIVE. Surround yourself with people
that are POSITIVE.
• Avoid RUMOR - spreaders. “the little people.”
• Avoid people that don’t SUPPORT your goals and dreams.

25. ENEMY # 4 – WORDS
TRY
Don’t
I will do my best
I can’t
problem
?

26. Challenge?
You have been educated for Jobs that doesn’t exist?
The secret is to be prepared be FLEXIBLE
-BOOK
Action

27. Preparation Positions your Life

28. 7 Steps To be A Great Leader

29. 1 PURPOSE/GOALS Practice Sharpens your Life
Zico
From Brazil
100 – Penalities
100 Free Kicks
Even employee his own goalkeeper.

30. 2 Self-Esteem
• Good self-esteem comes from three sources:
• · ?Hearing good things about yourself.
• · ?Thinking good things about yourself.
• · ?Doing things that make you proud of
yourself.

31. 3 RESPONSIBILITY
• Control your time
• Control your thoughts
• Choose the people you spend time with
• Control your commitments

32. 4 FAITH/OPTIMISM – Like a Farmer
• Mind-body connection is real.
• Do something you enjoy
• Pay attention to your vocabulary
• Be a lifelong learner
• Take care of your health

33. 5 ADAPTABILITY - Flexibility
• The Leader with the Most Flexibility
–Controls the Situation

34. 6 INTEGRITY
• Ask yourself these questions:
• · ?How do I want to live my life?
• · ?What do I want to do for a living?
• · ?What will bring meaning and fulfillment
into my life?

35. 7 Perseverance Sustains your Life

36. Never Give UP

37. Perseverance Sustains your Life
Press on: nothing in the world can take
the place of persistence.
Talent will not;
nothing is more common than
unsuccessful individuals with talent.
Genius will not;
unrewarded genius is almost a
proverb.
Education will not; the world is full of
educated derelicts.
Persistence and determination alone
are omnipotent.
- Calvin Coolidge

38. STEPS TO MASTERY
STEP 1: _______EMERISION______________
STEP 2:_______REPETITION______________
STEP 3:_______MODELING_______________

39. • Learn the
Superhero Stand

40. ENERGY
CHANT
• I FEEL GREAT TODAY
• I FEEL TERRIFIC
• I FEEL HEALTHY
• I AM HAPPY
• I HAVE THE POWER
• YES YES YES

41. Why Are Goals
Important?
• Goals change mountains into hills.
• Goals move you forward
• Goals help us believe in ourselves
• Goals hold you accountable
• Goals show us what we want in life
• Goals help us live a full life

42. STEP 1: Where are you now?
Wheel of Life

43. ______________ are the lies and _______________
that you have been telling yourself all your life that
keep you from your full potential.
Limiting Beliefs Bullshit
What is a Belief?
A belief is a principal accepted as
__________ or ___________
with out any any proof, also know as an
_________ or __________.
TRUE REAL
OPINION CONVICTION

44. Our beliefs about the world and ourselves are like a
steering wheel that stops us from going in certain
directions and keeps us going in others. If you’re not
sure what your beliefs are, just look at the
circumstances of your life. Whatever results have
been showing up in your life over a period of time are
a pretty accurate reflection of your beliefs about
yourself and your world.

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47. STEP 2: Where are you now?
Get your life in balance to run full out!

48. STEP 3: Make a Plan
• Write down anything in your life that was
once merely a goal, dream or desire. What
are some of the big and little things that at
one time seemed extremely difficult or
impossible to achieve or acquire?
• SMART

49. You must make your goals a BURNING desire.
BURN your bridges. SUCCEED or perish.

50. STEP 4: Follow The Plan

51. STEP 5 – EXPECT THE BEST
How does it feel to have accomplished each
goal?

52. Five steps to Obtaining any Goal
• STEP 1: Where are you now?
Enemies keeping you from your Full Potential
• ENEMY #1 Beliefs
• ENEMY #2 Fear
• ENEMY #3 Negative Influences
• STEP 2: Know where you are going!
• STEP 3: Make a Plan
• STEP 4: Follow The Plan
• STEP 5: Expect the Best

53. • With the old way, you “create” your goals once
and review daily. The new way stimulates you to
create your goals every day and that creation
stems from the life you live now, not the one lived
6 or 12 months ago. This changes goals into a
creational process driven by excitement and
consciousness.
• The Goals work page will have more about the
actual questions you can use in your daily goals.
We Just Found out Today that...

54. Planning Becomes a lifestyle
• Journaling
A time for reaction –
You react on events and the accompanying
Emotions you had as a result of those
events. Look for emotions you have during
certain events that might stand in your way
of reaching your goals in life.

55. Planning Becomes a lifestyle
• Gratitude List
A life of abundance –
To have gratitude means you are being
thankful and aware of your blessings and
will cause you to notice the simplest of
pleasures in life. It shifts your focus in life
from what is lacking to what abundance
you already have in life.

56. Planning Becomes a lifestyle
• Goals
A daily routine
Example Goal Questions
I review my goals every day, using the following two
questions:
• 1. What is your destiny (purpose)?
• 2. What will you tell people you want in life and in
business today?

57. Planning Becomes a lifestyle
• Intentions
Take aim you want in life and in business today?
• Set the intention in the now!
• Intentions are not to be set in the
future. Intentions are now, present.
You are living and experiencing the
life you want, today. That is the key.

58. Planning Becomes a lifestyle
Example Intentions
• Remember to set intentions in the present, the now.
• I am so happy and grateful, now, that I enjoy doing what I
love every day.
• I am so happy and grateful, now, that I enjoy healing
everyday getting better and better
• I am so happy and grateful, now, that my relationship
with my family is amazing and gets
• better every day .
• I am so happy and grateful, now, that my message inspire
millions of people every day.

59. Planning Becomes a lifestyle
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60. Planning Becomes a lifestyle
•Visualisation
•Song - elegy

61. I learned this from - Tony Robbins at UPW
Now I am the Voice
I lead not Follow
I Create not Destroy
I Believe not Doubt
I am a Force for Good
I am a Leader
Defy the Odds
Set a New Standard
Step Up

62. Planning Becomes a lifestyle
•I know what I want
•I Get what I want
•I Deserve What I want

63. Ralph Waldo Emerson defines success as well as anyone can:
How do you measure success?
To laugh often and much;
To win the respect of intelligent people
and the affection of children:
To earn the appreciation of honest critics
and endure the betrayal of false friends;
To appreciate beauty;
To find the best in others;
To leave the world a bit better,
whether by a healthy child, a garden patch,
a redeemed social condition, or a job well done;
To know even one other life has breathed easier
because you have lived –
This is to have succeeded.

64. Planning Becomes a lifestyle
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67. ENERGY
CHANT
• I FEEL GREAT TODAY
• I FEEL TERRIFIC
• I FEEL HEALTHY
• I AM HAPPY
• I HAVE THE POWER
• YES YES YES

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71. Living Life in Fullness and Excellence

72. Know
where
you are
going
Make a
plan
Follow
that plan
Know
where
you are
Expect
the best
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