This article discusses unique wedding traditions from different parts of Indonesia. One tradition from South Sumatra involves giving obstacles to the groom and preventing him from meeting the bride using a scarf until he brings requested items. Another tradition sends a confidant to discuss the proposal date with the bride's family and bring gifts to show seriousness about marriage.

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2. This tribe who inhabits the highlands of South
Sumatra has a unique wedding tradition. In
this wedding, the groom will be given
obstacles and prevented from meeting the
bride using a long scarf. In order to meet his
future wife, the groom must bring the items
requested by the bride's caretaker
PENGADANGAN

3. the groom-to-be sends his confidant to the
bride-to-be's residence to discuss the date of
the proposal. This is intended to show the
seriousness of the prospective husband for
this marriage. Of course, he also has to bring
souvenirs, namely tenong and songket cloth,
as well as some traditional foods
MENYENGGUNG