Love

C
Logan Rants
Presents of Love
•    Purgation
•    Perception
•    Praise
•    Patience
•    Perfection



Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And Problems)." International
Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
Purgation
• The present of forgiveness
• Forgiveness purifies factors related to negative
  relationship building
• Forgiveness should not be confused with
  forgetfulness. Forgiving gives a person a fresh
  start in the relationship.

Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And
Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13
Aug. 2012.
Perception
• Is the present of insight
• Being able to sense at an intuitive level
• Being able to tell what is going on that is not
  present and act as it were physically present
• Loving insight enables the ability to understand
  the strengths of the significant other.

Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And Problems)." International
Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
Praise
• Present of affirmation
• See worth in one’s self and one’s partner
• The ability to appreciate the significant others’
  gifts and abilities
• Constant warranted praise reaffirms the choice to
  be significant to one another.


Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And Problems)." International
Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
Patience
• Present of understanding
• The process of filtering information and
  reframing it into a clear picture.
• Presence of patients allows one to manipulate
  time
• Patient love understands that perfect love takes
  time

Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And Problems)." International
Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
Perfection
• Present of wholeness
• Visibly manifested in the successful loving
  relationship
• Refusal to accept failure, perfect love is quality
  love.
• Perfection is more than mental and physical but
  loving as a spiritual acting.

Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And Problems)." International
Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
Problems of Love
•   Prejudice
•   Pseudo
•   Permissive
•   Pride
•   Possessive


Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And
Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete.
Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
Prejudice
• Consists of making judgments
• Based on incomplete information
• Jumping to conclusions about components in
  the relationship
• Manifest in a lack of discernment


Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And
Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete.
Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
Pseudo Loving
•   Mistaking liking for loving
•   Confusing infatuation for intimacy
•   Misunderstanding lust for love
•   “I love you as long as you make me feel good.
    When you make me unhappy I question my love
    for you.”


Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And
Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13
Aug. 2012.
Permissive Loving
• Loving without structure
• Boundaries are pour and relationship has few
  rules
• Commitment in always questioned
• “Do you really love me?”
• Based on fear of loss

Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And
Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13
Aug. 2012.
Prideful Loving
•   Selfish acts are “I” focused
•   Negative past experiences take precedence
•   Past experiences influence your behaviors
•   Belief that “your nothing without me”
•   Exemplified as a trophy possession


Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And
Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete.
Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
Possessive Loving
•   Ownership of another
•   Placing one’s wants before others
•   “I can only love you after I love me”
•   Manifested and acted out in jealousy
•   Communication that this person belongs to
    me

Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And
Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13
Aug. 2012.
Love in the Brain
• Women in love are faster in detecting target
  stimuli when primed by a beloved’s name, as
  compared to a friend’s name
• Love is not just a static state, it is a dynamic state
  sustained by great energy
• Women who are passionately in love are faster
  detecting the target stimuli because of the
  mental association their brain has created


Bianchi-Demicheli, Francesco, Scott T. Grafton, and Stephanie Ortigue. "The Power Of Love On The Human
Brain." Social Neuroscience 1.2 (2006): 90-103. Academic Search Complete. Web. 11 Aug. 2012.
Video
Bibliography
•   Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving
    (Presents And Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-
    34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13 Aug. 2012. This article was about the
    presents, and problems of love. It described how love works and doesn’t work


•   Bianchi-Demicheli, Francesco, Scott T. Grafton, and Stephanie Ortigue. "The Power
    Of Love On The Human Brain." Social Neuroscience 1.2 (2006): 90-103. Academic
    Search Complete. Web. 11 Aug. 2012. This article was about experiments scientist
    did on women's brains in love. It described what woud happen when a women
    was in or out of love in her brain.



•   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gNl7ktZtSSc
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Love

  • 2. Presents of Love • Purgation • Perception • Praise • Patience • Perfection Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
  • 3. Purgation • The present of forgiveness • Forgiveness purifies factors related to negative relationship building • Forgiveness should not be confused with forgetfulness. Forgiving gives a person a fresh start in the relationship. Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
  • 4. Perception • Is the present of insight • Being able to sense at an intuitive level • Being able to tell what is going on that is not present and act as it were physically present • Loving insight enables the ability to understand the strengths of the significant other. Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
  • 5. Praise • Present of affirmation • See worth in one’s self and one’s partner • The ability to appreciate the significant others’ gifts and abilities • Constant warranted praise reaffirms the choice to be significant to one another. Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
  • 6. Patience • Present of understanding • The process of filtering information and reframing it into a clear picture. • Presence of patients allows one to manipulate time • Patient love understands that perfect love takes time Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
  • 7. Perfection • Present of wholeness • Visibly manifested in the successful loving relationship • Refusal to accept failure, perfect love is quality love. • Perfection is more than mental and physical but loving as a spiritual acting. Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
  • 8. Problems of Love • Prejudice • Pseudo • Permissive • Pride • Possessive Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
  • 9. Prejudice • Consists of making judgments • Based on incomplete information • Jumping to conclusions about components in the relationship • Manifest in a lack of discernment Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
  • 10. Pseudo Loving • Mistaking liking for loving • Confusing infatuation for intimacy • Misunderstanding lust for love • “I love you as long as you make me feel good. When you make me unhappy I question my love for you.” Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
  • 11. Permissive Loving • Loving without structure • Boundaries are pour and relationship has few rules • Commitment in always questioned • “Do you really love me?” • Based on fear of loss Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
  • 12. Prideful Loving • Selfish acts are “I” focused • Negative past experiences take precedence • Past experiences influence your behaviors • Belief that “your nothing without me” • Exemplified as a trophy possession Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
  • 13. Possessive Loving • Ownership of another • Placing one’s wants before others • “I can only love you after I love me” • Manifested and acted out in jealousy • Communication that this person belongs to me Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30-34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13 Aug. 2012.
  • 14. Love in the Brain • Women in love are faster in detecting target stimuli when primed by a beloved’s name, as compared to a friend’s name • Love is not just a static state, it is a dynamic state sustained by great energy • Women who are passionately in love are faster detecting the target stimuli because of the mental association their brain has created Bianchi-Demicheli, Francesco, Scott T. Grafton, and Stephanie Ortigue. "The Power Of Love On The Human Brain." Social Neuroscience 1.2 (2006): 90-103. Academic Search Complete. Web. 11 Aug. 2012.
  • 15. Video
  • 16. Bibliography • Mickel, Elijah, and Cecilia Hall. "Choosing To Love: The Essentials Of Loving (Presents And Problems)." International Journal Of Reality Therapy 27.2 (2008): 30- 34. Academic Search Complete. Web. 13 Aug. 2012. This article was about the presents, and problems of love. It described how love works and doesn’t work • Bianchi-Demicheli, Francesco, Scott T. Grafton, and Stephanie Ortigue. "The Power Of Love On The Human Brain." Social Neuroscience 1.2 (2006): 90-103. Academic Search Complete. Web. 11 Aug. 2012. This article was about experiments scientist did on women's brains in love. It described what woud happen when a women was in or out of love in her brain. • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gNl7ktZtSSc