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4. Culture Shock
Culture shock explained and Techniques of communicating with the Japanese woman
Welcome to Japan, the place where hostesses will entertain drunken men for hours, pretend they’re
their girlfriends!
I will get straight to the point. Japan is a culture shock to Gaijin (that means foreigners).
I will break this down. It’s this simple: “Cheating” is not a big deal in Japan whatsoever. Ahh,
gasp I hear you say. Nobody cares. “Cheating” is a hyped up western thing. Hollywood helps to
perpetuate western “cheating” views.
When I came to Japan a few years ago I was married. I wore my ring, always. Some Japanese
women would not give a you know what if I had my nice shiny Sun glinting wedding ring on.
They would still drop hints that we should hook up. If I took my ring off I got more action. But 9
out of 10 times the Japanese chick would figure I was married. Why? Simple, not 20 question but
just three questions:
1. Why are you in Japan?
2. What’s your job?
3. Where do you live?
The only gaijin that live in Japan are here on work visa or spouse visa, period. If you are NOT an
English teacher and work for a Japanese company, you had BETTER speak Japanese. So
basically, if you don’t speak Japanese well and live here you are...
A. Married off
B. An English teacher
All that revelation being said, I’ve had just about every Japanese woman tell me in so many
words: “I don’t give you know, what about your wife. I want your attention, you know what her!”
Of course, that was back when I was married.
5. Society conditions Japanese women to think like this. And it is not limited to just marriage
relationships. It includes any freakin relationship. Men you know what around here about as
casually as men in America go to McDonalds.
Yeah, there is some slight guilt of gulping down a bunch of fries and a super size milk shake. But
they do it anyways. The women know this too. So they you know what around just as much as the
men do. Society here facilitates cheating in Japan. It is BIG BUSINESS. That’s why love hotels
are every 2-5 kilometers apart. Gasp shock horror I hear you say in your Western voice. Let me
explain.
Japanese girls are, for the most part, quite different in fact nearly alien from those you’d find
back home. This is especially true if you choose to date outside of the Gaijin Bubble of The Hub
and TGI Friday’s-dwellers Getting Japanese girls, or any girl for that matter.
• Love women. Without this, you are sunk.
• Dress well, and try not to wreak of alcohol.
• Compliment, compliment, compliment.
• Start out with the innocuous “you are cute (Japanese word cute is kawaii)”, and gradually go
sexual. Eventually you will be telling her that her pussy would look great with her pants off. If
she laughs at this, you’re nearly there.
• Don’t be afraid of being overtly sexual. It’s all you have to offer. Enjoy your role as a sex
satisfier. Women may complain about sleazy men, but it’s only because they’re trying to boost
their ego about the number of times they are hit on. I’d jokingly tell women to leave me alone if
I
was being hit on several times a day too!
• Don’t talk about work. Don’t give them a reason to judge your value to her on salary.
• Don’t talk about where you live. Don’t give them a reason to judge you based on where you
live.
• Don’t talk about anything negative. If the woman is DETERMINED to find out your job and
where you live - or be negative quickly change the topic. Ask her what her private bit looks like
under her skirt.
• In fact the only thing you should be talking about is making out with her somewhere. Talk
about anything else, and you’re wasting time - not to mention that you’re not leading them into
the head-space they need to be in to go home with you.
• Forget about learning Japanese. The only women who can’t speak English, and have no interest
in learning it - will not show you any respect anyway. So, don’t waste your time on them, or on
learning Japanese. Knowing Japanese isn’t a pre-requisite for going out with a girl who can
speak English already. It’s just a bonus and isn’t compulsory.
6. • Do NOT offer Japanese women ANYTHING other than friendship and sex. Being used for
friendship and sex is OK. Being used for money, dates, taxi-rides in your car (if you have one),
or living in your apartment will soon be realised so DO NOT advertise these things and have
some
respect.
• It doesn’t matter what your living conditions are like. If you’ve done everything right, she too
will be turned on to care that you live in a crappy gaijin house. The lights will be off anyhow.
• Next tip, avoid having a monogamous boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. In fact, be rabidly anti-
marriage and anti-monogamous girlfriend. You consider women as friends and NOT personal
property that are up for sale or ownership. For that reason, you’ve avoided marriage, and the
idea of having a personal girlfriend that you pay off to pretend that she’s “all yours” while she
plays
around on you. Women’s liberation has meant men’s liberation too.
• If a woman accuses you of being a Hugh Heffner I.E a playboy - don’t deny it. All single men
are playboys by definition of being single. Only a stupid woman wants “no playboys” for a
“serious” monogamous relationship. You can’t start that relationship without the man being a
playboy first. Once a relationship goes serious (i.e. the woman wants you to “buy” her for
marriage), it is no longer any fun for you, and any friendship you had gets destroyed in the
bargain - so what’s the point?
• On that note, be as bluntly honest with woman as you can. Women aren’t attracted to
confidence as much as they are attracted to raw HONESTY. It’s something that they never get
from other women.
This doesn’t mean that you should brag about how much sex you get - but if asked, then don’t
deny it, or the fact that you are seeing lots of women, if asked. Don’t rub the horror details in
their faces either.
• Collect multiple female friends, and introduce them to other people as such. You don’t have to
have sex with all of them, but if you treat them with respect, they will vouch for you to other
women. Plus they will all work together to find out which ones you did sleep with and which
ones you didn’t.
All of this creates an interesting haze of secrecy, which women find irresistible. Nobody will
know for sure, and in doing so, you protect yourself and the women you sleep with from the
nasty women out there who have a problem with “sluts” - stealing all “their” men who they
would like to have pay for them.
• Don’t get upset if the woman doesn’t want to sleep with you for any reason. Many Japanese
girls have no problems coming out and getting the attention of men, and then going home alone.
In fact, they like the attention more than the sex. It’s like being a gem amongst the other thorns
for them.
7. It’s best to make your pitch for a sexual time, fail, and then move onto the next one. Avoid being
treated as an unpaid male escort by a woman who don’t care about you, but only for the signs of
your care.
Bars and Streets
• Gaijin bars are only good for one-night stands, but even that is not a given fact. Most Japanese
girls tend to think that guys who they meet there have no value, and hence will not put out as
easily. Meeting women on the street is cheaper, and actually more effective.
No girl wants to tell her friends that she met some guy in a club/bar. For that reason, a woman
won’t tell her friends about you at all, if that’s where you met - and how does THAT serve you
long-term?
• Meet women on the street, or in shops, during the week. Women are bored during the week and
will be up for ANYTHING. Come the weekend, they will be getting the attention of a lot of
guys in bars or wherever - and your chances diminish in such a competitive environment, if you
stand any chance at all IF the woman has decided that she needs a man for the night. Do NOT
rely on
clubs and bars for action - they are money/time traps - and you will probably end up drunk.
• If you DO go to clubs/bars - you’re best doing one of two things. (a) hitting on anything that
moves and finding the women who are up for it, or (b) meeting lots of women and introducing
them to each-other. In the case of (b), the women are going to look at each other and not know
how you know so many women. This gets things started in all kinds of interesting ways.
Especially true if you bring a bi-sexual female friend to the party. Very sneaky, huh?
• If you’re going to use personals, be bluntly sexual, and promise the women a lot in the love-
making department. Nothing else is as effective. No woman really gives a flying hoot about
your
taste in music or how you like walks on the beach.
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