1. How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back And Save
Your Relationship

2. Do you feel like everything you try is driving your ex away?
Are you lying awake at night panicking that nothing you do
seems to work? Do you find yourself thinking of nothing but
how to make your ex boyfriend want you back? Right now
the situation may seem desperate and you may be
completely at a loss as to what to do next, but here are a
few ideas that could help to make your ex boyfriend want
you back.

3. If you are reading this then clearly you want to save your
relationship or to reignite the spark. However, you may
also be panicking about how you can make your ex want
you again. Unfortunately there is a good change that this
panic and worry is displaying itself in your behaviour and
may actually be driving your ex further away. Look at it
from the point of view of your ex - if you come across as
desperate and needy then this will simply push him away.

4. Are you frequently sending your ex text messages and
emails? Do you find yourself ringing him regularly or finding
ways to be at places that he's going to be? This won't make
him feel sorry for you or want you, it will just make you
seem like a stalker. So if you are asking yourself how to
make your ex boyfriend want you back then the first thing
you need to do it stop what you are doing.

5. So, how to make your ex boyfriend want you back? Well, as
difficult as it may seem, you need to take this approach
instead.

6. What you need to do is the very last thing you will want to
do right now and that is to stop all contact of any kind with
your ex. It is an incredibly difficult thing to do when all you
want to do is see and speak to your ex. However you need
to be strong and use your time to look at your own personal
life and how you can make this better. As tough as it may
be, doing this will give you the best possible chance of
getting him back.

7. Why does this work? Put simply, it gives him the chance to
miss you and also become more curious as suddenly he has
no idea where you are and what you are doing. You've
heard the phrase "absence makes the heart grow fonder"?
Well in this case it actually can work - he has the chance to
think about you and the good times you had rather than
trying to avoid you or delete more and more of your
frequent messages.

8. This method works by "going with the flow" rather than
battling against it - its human nature to fight against
something if somebody else is trying to make you do it. If
you are asking how to make your ex boyfriend want you
back then at least now you will be able to avoid one of the
biggest mistake that so many people make and you'll give
your ex boyfriend time to remember the good times and
what attracted you to him.

9. The important things to remember are that by trying to pull
him to you you are actually pushing him away and that by
staying calm and giving him the chance to remember the
good times and what attracted him to you then you'll be
able to hold him in your arms again rather than spending
night after night wondering how to make your ex boyfriend
want you back.

10. What can have a dramatic effect, just as you break off
contact is something a little different. In a world of text
messages, IMs and email...sending a HANDWRITTEN letter
to your ex is MUCH more emotional and effective than
sending 4 screens full of text message.
One of the most powerful things you can do to create a
vacuum and have your ex possibly pursue you...is to AGREE
with a break up in a hand written note.

11. BE CAREFUL! What you say in the note and how you say it
can have positive or negative effects. For an outline of what
to put in your note watch the video at
http://www.howtosaveyourlove.com