1) The document discusses why men may seem distant or stop listening in relationships. It states that men often view their relationship as secondary to their goals/missions, so when facing difficulties at work or with other objectives, they can become distracted.
2) Unlike women, men are less likely to consider relationships as part of their main mission. When facing challenges, men will focus on solving those problems rather than the relationship.
3) The document recommends that when a man seems distant, women should talk to him about how he is feeling regarding the difficulties, and give him space and emotional support to resolve issues rather than trying to fix things. This will allow the man to return to the relationship fully engaged.
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2. If you are dating forever, chances are that at
some point in their relationship will be with the
next stage. You meet someone who is attractive
and appealing. The spark of interest leads to
feelings of romantic attraction and a mutual
desire to be in the company of others.
3. Unlike many guys I've met this one seems to
really care about you. He really listens and
seems to understand the emotional nuances
to share their thoughts and feelings with him.
It feels great. Then, at some point, for
reasons unknown, it seems distant. Their
answers reflect less attention when you
speak. In the worst of times, it may even
seem that you are alone, while in his
presence.
5. This sometimes happens to men due to a
specific personality trait is more
common in men than in women. Both
genetics and environment have
reinforced the tendency to be mission-
minded. When the mission of a man who
goes well, often feels playful energy. In
these times it will be emotionally
engaged and genuinely interested even in
the small details of his life.
6. The problem comes when faced unusual
difficulties that threaten the progress of his
mission. Unlike women, men are unlikely
to consider relations as part of their
mission. Relationships are just fun things to
do when you're working on your mission.
So when storms are at work, in your
business, or other objectives pursued, it will
become very distracted. You can even have
the feeling that only spend time with you
because he feels compelled to.
8. This tendency to think of relationships as
well as recreation, but the most
important aspect that defines our lives.
This is a common cause of painful
experiences for women who invest their
lives in men.
9. What can you do about it? You might
hate men and opt out of your life. You
could try as children and tease lower
relationship skills. I would recommend a
more adaptive approach that will give the
greatest satisfaction in the long run. It is a
secret that few women know, and the
benefits are powerful and immediate.
10. This is in a nutshell. When it starts to be
aloof and not show anger, frustration or
passive aggressive attempts to make you feel
the pain that you are creating. This will only
serve to increase the certainty that the
relationship will have to be set aside for now,
as it focuses on fixing things that have gone
wrong in one of its primary missions.
11. Instead, do something for him that will make
you to become a valuable partner that enriches
your life. Getting discuss the emotional impact
of the difficulties it faces. Men do not make it
so easy and natural for women. As a result,
you may experience a profound sense of relief
to be able to talk about what is happening and
how you feel.
Its soft and patience questions provide a form
of "scaffolding" that attains a level of
emotional expression is only slightly higher
than your current skill level to talk about
emotions.
13. Do not offer to fix anything. That's a
castrating behavior that can cause you to react in
anger as if you just told him to be incompetent. Just
ask how they are doing feeling. When focused on the
circumstances instead of feelings, just wait until he
has done and ask why these elements are important
to him.
Thus, help them express their feelings and resolve
conflicts that may be experiencing internally. Give
space to resolve this. He will return to you with the
full participation and greater involvement and
interest if you give him time and emotional support
remains.
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