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HIJAB AND PARDA
      IN ISLAM
DR SHABNAM NAZ
  ASSISTANT PROFESSOR
         OBGYN
  CMC,SMBBMU LARKANA
Hijab is not a piece
of cloth on your head.
It's a way of life.
   Hijab means to hide from view, conceal, or
    cover something
   Hijab is the modest covering of the woman and
    includes the complete dress.
   Modesty is an essential component of faith
   The Prophet said, “Faith consists of more than
    sixty branches. And haya is a part of faith.” (Bukhari)
Functions of Hijab
   More than a religious symbol
   Command and test from Allah
   Preservation of modesty
   Elevation of status
   Liberation
   Security and protection
   Safeguarding of society
Six Criteria For Hijab
1.   Extent
2.   The clothes worn should be loose and should not
     reveal the figure
3.   The clothes worn should not be transparent such that
     one can see through them
4.   The clothes worn should not be so glamorous as to
     attract the opposite sex
5.   The clothes worn should not resemble that of the
     opposite sex
6.   The clothes worn should not resemble that of the
     unbelievers
surat noor





    surat noor
s


Do make up and wear jewellary
 for husbands not for others
Exposed for all is not hijab this type of
dressing and make up will attracts non
           mohram to you





    surat noor
Be careful, even in the way you walk
Remember, you are not a runway model
displaying the latest fashion. Walk with
  modesty and you will be respected
Surat ahzab
What about make-up and perfume???
 Wearing make up is also part of the
  beauty Allaah orders us NOT to
display. So if your head and body are
  appropriately covered yet you are
  wearing bright red lipstick or dark
   eyeliner ….uh sorry, that‟s not
Hijaab, unless you are wearing a face
cover, and keep those nice fragrances
for the home, between you and your
 husband. That‟s part of Hijaab too,
 even if you are going to the Masjid.
The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa
               Sallam) said:
  "In later (generations) of my ummah
there will be women who will be dressed
 but naked. On top of their heads (what
 looks) like camel humps. They will not
 enter into paradise or (even) get a smell
              of it." (Muslim)
On top of their heads (what
dressed but
              looks) like camel humps.
   naked
If it is see-through, its NOT Hijaab!!
The Hijaab shouldn‟t attract attention
The dress should not be such that it attracts
men's attention to the woman's beauty. Allaah
 clearly states “not to display their beauty.”



            surat
    ahzab
surat ahzab
No laughing, joking, or hanging out with
             non-Mahrams
 Some sisters assume that since they are
properly covered, its okay for them to sit
around and talk, laugh, joke, etc. with the
     men, but that‟s not right, ….
„Chatting‟ on the internet/phone is not part of
                    Hijaab, either
   There is no such thing as “we‟re just friends”.
   Talking to non-Mahrams is wrong even if it is
through the internet or telephone. Allaah condemns
                 such sort of things
It is not permissible to shake hands with a
               non-Mahram.
 And no, it is not rude to refuse to shake
 hands with non-Muslims. Simply politely
 explain that its part of your religion and
        they are very understanding.
The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam)
 said: “For one of you to be stabbed in the
 head with an iron needle is better for him
     than to touch a woman who is not
 permissible for him.” (at-Tabaraani saheeh
               by al-Albaani).
Don‟t shake hands with non-Mahrams. Its part
                 of Hijaab
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Hijab and parda in islam

  • 1. HIJAB AND PARDA IN ISLAM DR SHABNAM NAZ ASSISTANT PROFESSOR OBGYN CMC,SMBBMU LARKANA
  • 2.
  • 3. Hijab is not a piece of cloth on your head. It's a way of life.
  • 4. Hijab means to hide from view, conceal, or cover something  Hijab is the modest covering of the woman and includes the complete dress.  Modesty is an essential component of faith  The Prophet said, “Faith consists of more than sixty branches. And haya is a part of faith.” (Bukhari)
  • 5. Functions of Hijab  More than a religious symbol  Command and test from Allah  Preservation of modesty  Elevation of status  Liberation  Security and protection  Safeguarding of society
  • 6. Six Criteria For Hijab 1. Extent 2. The clothes worn should be loose and should not reveal the figure 3. The clothes worn should not be transparent such that one can see through them 4. The clothes worn should not be so glamorous as to attract the opposite sex 5. The clothes worn should not resemble that of the opposite sex 6. The clothes worn should not resemble that of the unbelievers
  • 8. surat noor
  • 9.
  • 10.
  • 11. s 
  • 12.
  • 13. Do make up and wear jewellary for husbands not for others
  • 14. Exposed for all is not hijab this type of dressing and make up will attracts non mohram to you
  • 15. surat noor
  • 16. Be careful, even in the way you walk Remember, you are not a runway model displaying the latest fashion. Walk with modesty and you will be respected
  • 17.
  • 19. What about make-up and perfume??? Wearing make up is also part of the beauty Allaah orders us NOT to display. So if your head and body are appropriately covered yet you are wearing bright red lipstick or dark eyeliner ….uh sorry, that‟s not Hijaab, unless you are wearing a face cover, and keep those nice fragrances for the home, between you and your husband. That‟s part of Hijaab too, even if you are going to the Masjid.
  • 20. The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: "In later (generations) of my ummah there will be women who will be dressed but naked. On top of their heads (what looks) like camel humps. They will not enter into paradise or (even) get a smell of it." (Muslim)
  • 21. On top of their heads (what dressed but looks) like camel humps. naked
  • 22. If it is see-through, its NOT Hijaab!!
  • 23. The Hijaab shouldn‟t attract attention The dress should not be such that it attracts men's attention to the woman's beauty. Allaah clearly states “not to display their beauty.”
  • 24. surat ahzab
  • 26. No laughing, joking, or hanging out with non-Mahrams Some sisters assume that since they are properly covered, its okay for them to sit around and talk, laugh, joke, etc. with the men, but that‟s not right, ….
  • 27. „Chatting‟ on the internet/phone is not part of Hijaab, either There is no such thing as “we‟re just friends”. Talking to non-Mahrams is wrong even if it is through the internet or telephone. Allaah condemns such sort of things
  • 28. It is not permissible to shake hands with a non-Mahram. And no, it is not rude to refuse to shake hands with non-Muslims. Simply politely explain that its part of your religion and they are very understanding.
  • 29. The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: “For one of you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle is better for him than to touch a woman who is not permissible for him.” (at-Tabaraani saheeh by al-Albaani).
  • 30. Don‟t shake hands with non-Mahrams. Its part of Hijaab