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Michael P. Sullivan
50-Plus Communications Consulting
Charlotte, North Carolina
704 554 7863
Mps50plus@aol.com
Specialist in Training Senior Living Associates
How to Sell to Seniors
and Their Adult Children
at the Same Time
Rosalynn Carter’s Four Kinds of
People in the World
1. Those who have been caregivers
2. Those who are caregivers
3. Those who will be caregivers
4. Those who will need caregivers
Who is the Typical Family Caregiver?
Woman, age 49, caring for
widowed mother, age 69.
Usually oldest daughter
Others?
Next oldest daughter
Then next oldest daughter who
lives close by
Then daughter-in-law
And finally son
Two Generations!
--Matures’ age 68 and’ age 68 and
upup
-‘Baby Boomers’ 48 to-‘Baby Boomers’ 48 to
6767
Main Point:
Two Different Generations!
Key Differences Between
Matures And Baby Boomers
Baby BoomersBaby BoomersMatures
Focus on themselves --
“Voyage to the interior.”
Distrust of authority
We deserve it; disappointedWe deserve it; disappointed
expectationsexpectations
Control; choices, stress,
simplification
Self-sacrifice, especially
for children
Respect for authority
We’ve earned it becauseWe’ve earned it because
of all our hard workof all our hard work
Frugality, responsibility,
caution, value
Boomers more likely
to have living parents
-- 71 %
Boomers more likely to
have living parents….
And likely to have
children at same time!
33%
For Older Parents: The
decision to move into a new
place is often one of the
hardest ones associated
with this stage of life!
“It involves their loved ones, it
involves guilt, it involves their
fears for the future, it involves the
very heart of family values.”
–Senator Russell D. Feinberg, New
York Times
Powerful Emotions – For Parents
The farther the
physical distance,
the harder it is to
keep the family
connected
The family may
have to get used to
it. Takes time.
The adult
children often
think of their
parents as
getting older but
never “being old!”
They see that
their parents are
struggling with
the daily chores
of life…
Perhaps starting
to have obvious
memory
problems..
They see them as no
longer able to handle
all that is required to
live in their home
independently…
As adult children care for
their older parents they
face certain universal
problems.
The Relationship
Language Can Be
a Problem
‘Time Zone Problems’
Mary Pipher in her book, Another
Country:Navigating the Emotional Terrain of
Our Elders
For Older Adults,
learning to
accept
vulnerabilities
and to ask for
help.
Some time after
retirement from daily
working for a living
and the onset of
chronic illness that
occurs in old age
most develop “a blind
spot”
Parents allowing children to
be part of the decision
making process –
encourage opinion, let them
ask questions and express
opinions
What is their family
history?
Are they supportive?
What words are you
hearing?
Are they connecting?
Words. Phrases.
Meaning.
Find out what conversations
they have had with friends
and relatives about
retirement community life
What position
are the older
adults taking?
What position
are the adult
children taking?
Explore what
they are hearing
about the
housing options
you represent
Talk about your
location in terms
of convenience
but give
examples
Key point:
Tell them a story
about your
senior living
residents
90% of your sales
effectiveness based on
your ability to develop
rapport with the
prospect and family
Developing rapport
is a tall tall
challenge
Tell your stories
about families who
are caring for their
own parents who
needed advice
Get Started on the Right Foot
Build a personal
relationship
Stand out
Be supportive
Communicating with
the older parent
The “cognitive
age” versus
“chronological
age” syndrome
Slow down
Speak distinctly and clearly – not
louder
Ask questions
Use simple, short sentences so
your conversation is
understandable
Selling to the Family
Focus on the emotionalFocus on the emotional
connection between olderconnection between older
adults and their grownadults and their grown
childrenchildren
Sales Tip
Focus on their family
Show you care about them as a
person
Connect with the right side of the
brain
Ask, “How Does That Feel ?”
“Does that make sense to
you?’
Feeling touches emotions
Emotionally Enriched Words,
Phrases and Ideas
 Not dependent on
others
 Self-sufficient
 New experiences
 Learning
 Family, Grandchildren
 Doing things
together
 Travel
 Helping others
 Generous
 Giving back
MaturesMatures
© 1998 Richard B. Ross, Glencoe, Il, and Michael P. Sullivan, Charlotte NC.
Emotionally Enriched Words,
Phrases and Ideas
Possibilities
Choices
Options
Personal experiences
Self-fulfillment
Maintaining control
BoomersBoomers
Michael P. Sullivan
50-Plus Communications Consulting
Charlotte, North Carolina
704 554 7863
Mps50plus@aol.com
How to Sell to Seniors
and Their Adult Children
at the Same Time
Robert Walker
RetirementHomes.com
1-888-544-9124 x 243
robert@retirementhomes.com
Facebook.com/RetirementHomes
YouTube.com/RetirementHomes

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How to sell to seniors and their adult children at the same time

Editor's Notes

  1. I will cover three main points. They include: First: Understanding how PHYSICAL AND SENSORY CHANGES AFFECT BEHAVIOR -- and what you should be doing in response. Second: Learning about the KEY BEHAVIORAL DRIVERS – or hot buttons -- that motivate decisions and how to build them into sales presentations. And Third: Understanding HOW INDIVIDUALS PROCESS INFORMATION DIFFERENTLY and in effect become more right brained as they age.
  2. You are probably now saying to yourself something like, “I’ve asked, but they don’t help,” or “the children are too young to help,” or “they don’t live nearby so they can’t help.” There are all sorts of reasons family members don’t help, but the experts say there are almost always things other family members can do – and will do. The trick is to get them to volunteer for what they will do by giving them the chance to volunteer for what they can do. This is the process...
  3. And, grandparents foretell the future; by the way they choose to live their lives and how they positively affect those who follow them. This seminar was created with your needs in mind. In a sense, it is about celebrating grandparenthood. The response to it has been exceptional. (OPTIONAL:) While I am not a grandparent myself, I have learned about grandparenting by studying the research and reflecting on my own relationship with my grandparents I'd like to show you photos of my grandparents. How many of you brought along a picture of your grandchildren? (Response) If you brought a photo, turn to a person you don't know and share your pride and joy with them. And, while you're at it, if your grandkids are old enough, tell them what your grandchild's name is for you. If you didn't bring a picture go ahead and tell your neighbor about your grandchildren anyway (Pause to give the group time to do so.) I am curious. Who'd like to share with us an unusual name your grandkids gave you, and how you got it? Raise your hand.
  4. I will cover three main points. They include: First: Understanding how PHYSICAL AND SENSORY CHANGES AFFECT BEHAVIOR -- and what you should be doing in response. Second: Learning about the KEY BEHAVIORAL DRIVERS – or hot buttons -- that motivate decisions and how to build them into sales presentations. And Third: Understanding HOW INDIVIDUALS PROCESS INFORMATION DIFFERENTLY and in effect become more right brained as they age.