3. Scientific research has demonstrated anatomical reactions to receiving a spanking, chemical changes rushing from nerve centres to affect parts of the brain, in a good way. Endorphins, that is.
4. I do not intend to delve too deeply here, it is enough to understand that either giving or receiving a spanking is a tremendously cathartic experience, presuming that it is carried out sensitively.
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6. Our minds absorb the physical sensations and incorporate them into our thoughts and fantasies. Consciously or not, we are each taken to a place within ourselves where an inner roleplay is enacted.
7. We are (at least subconsciously) being guided by our fantasies which probably do not revolve around a specific person, rather they are a jumbled cloud of erotic snippets that have accumulated over the years.
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9. Relative strangers are very unlikely to blurt out their kinkiest, most personal fantasies at first meeting. Over time, as the relationship matures, the partners become more confident in each other and slowly reveal snippets of the things most personal to them.
10. It could turn out that one partner reveals a fantasy involving X, while the other partner has always tried to suppress the same fantasy. This being the case, they have the opportunity to explore a whole new avenue together, very intimate, and very personal.
11. Such liaisons are capable of producing an incredible intimacy that is much more intense than even the longest serving married couples ever achieve.