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Maura Sweeney
SPC All College Day 2016
“Becoming a Positive Influence
in a Changing World”
Find happiness, influence & well-being within
Becoming Happy & Influential is an Inside Job
Your Happiness & Influence EQ
Where are you on the spectrum?
1 = Fearful, Angry, Victimized, Small
5 = Semi-Resentful, Frustrated, Anxious
10 = Loving, Free, Peaceful, Expansive
#1 Reflection
What person or situation is this
reminding me of?
What new thought, belief or
intention can I take away from
this presentation?
#2 Reflection
Where am I sensing familiarity with my
own actions, words or intents?
What is the source of my discomfort?
What new intention and/or behavior
will contribute to my well-being and
better self?
World Happiness Survey
Hundreds of Respondents
Ages 18 – 90+
28 States and 24 Countries
65% Female | 35% Male
Single, Married, Divorced, in a Relationship
High School up to PhD Level
5 Things We Really Want
1. Healthy Relationships (no drama)
2. Peace of Mind
3. Freedom
4. Purpose & Fulfillment
5. Personal Confidence
The Path to Influence & Happiness
1974 2016
Your Choice of Perception
What Do You See?
Do your eyes see what you don’t have . . . or what you do?
What do you see?
Wholeness or Divisions
What are you thinking?
Thoughts Create Things
(Dr. Emoto’s Crystal Experiments)
Two Paradigms
Pebble Influence Effect
Pebbles Create Circles of Influence
Influence
The capacity to have an effect on the
character, development or behavior of
someone or something, or the effect itself.
Origin of Influence
An Astrological Term
"streaming ethereal power from the stars
acting upon character or destiny of men"
Assume Your Internal Seat of
Authority
Influencing from Above
(Listening)
Angry employee incident gave rise to new leadership
atmosphere.
“Thank you for allowing me to make mistakes.”
Influencing from Below
(Advocating)
Vice President of Sales re-thinks a potentially
disastrous decision
Influencing Abroad
(Cultivating Consistent Culture)
Traveling Corporate Trainer notices different culture,
remarks and wants to learn
What Part am I Playing in the Dance?
Work | Family | Friendships | Social Circles
Spouse | Partner | Significant Other
A Single Crystal Light Bulb
YOU
Several Crystal Light Bulbs in Unison
You and Others
What Creates Happiness in a Culture?
Seeing Value & Worth in Everyone
Pride in Contributing One’s Best
n  Unified, harmonized mission
n  Everyone has a purpose & contribution
n  All are respected, heard & valued
n  Transparency and Trust
n  Lack of Attack and Negative Competition
n  Culture of Fun and Celebration
n  Modeling
#1 Reflection
What person or situation is this
reminding me of?
What new thought, belief or
intention can I take away from
this presentation?
#2 Reflection
Where am I sensing familiarity with my
own actions, words or intents?
What is the source of my discomfort?
What new intention and/or behavior
will contribute to my well-being and
better self?
Your Happiness & Influence EQ
Where are you on the spectrum?
1 = Fearful, Angry, Victimized, Small
5 = Semi-Resentful, Frustrated, Anxious
10 = Loving, Free, Peaceful, Expansive
More Empowerment for You
iTunes | Stitcher | Google Play
Foundations Course
Visit, Subscribe & Get Happier
www.Maura4u.com
Videos | Podcasts | Books
eCourse | Public Speaking
Becoming a Positive Influence in a Changing World - St. Pete College All Colleg Day 2016

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