9. 從受害者轉為參與者
• 心態的區分
– 我不能做主 vs. 我正在做選擇
– 這沒有希望了 vs. 我還沒有解決辦法
– 應該要有人採取行動! vs. 我可以採取第一步
– 這不能做 vs. 我選擇不去做
– 你令我生氣 vs. 你這麼說我很生氣
– 我必須離開了 vs. 我想要離開
– 我沒有時間 vs. 我想先處理別的事
10. 從受害者轉為參與者
• Questions for Victim: (受害者的提問)
– What happened to you?
– Who wronged you?
– What was wrong(or unfair) about what he did to
you?
– Why do you think he did this to you?
– What should he have done instead?
– What should he do now to repair the damage?
– How should he be punished?
12. 從受害者轉為參與者
• Questions for Player:(參與者的提問)
– What challenge did you face?
– How did you contribute (by acting or not acting) to create this
situation?
– How did you respond to the challenge?
– Can you think of a more effective course of action you could
have taken?
– Could you have made some reasonable preparations to reduce
the risk or the impact of the situation?
– Can you do something now to minimize or repair the damage?
– What can you learn from this experience?