1.
HOW I GAINED
CONFIDENCE
FROM
MUHAMMAD
(SAW)
BY: HAFIZA HAFSA ABDUL
GHUFFAR
GLOBAL MESSENGER DAY

2.
Importance of Hadith:
 . I leave with you two things; as long as you hold
fast to them both, you will never be misguided –
the Kitab (Book) of Allah and Sunnat of His
Rasool (Messenger). (Muwatta)

3.
After studying biography of Prophet
MUHAMMAD (saw):
 I never suppress in front of enemies.
 I am not afraid of my femininity.
 I am not beauty conscious anymore.
 I’ve never been overwhelmed by exams.
 I have courage to stand with my believes.
 I can take revenge just by passing a smile.
 I am sure about my secure future.
 I’m proud to be conservative and I can answer those
calling me terrorist.
Yah! I gained confidence, but how??

4.
1).I Never Suppress in Front of
Enemies
 Siraqa bin Ja’asham went to kill Muhammad
(saw) but forelegs of his horse sank into sand, he
begged protection So the Prophet (saws) gave him the
promise of protection from any future violence in
writing, and he said to Siraqa ibn Malik: “What
about a day when you will be wearing the Bracelets
of Kisra.” There was only one Kisra and everyone
knew who this was, but this statement was so
shocking that Suraqa ibn Malik had to clarify
again: “Kisra!?” The Prophet (saws) said “Yes, Kisra

5.
Points to be noted:
 Holy Prophet was calm when siraqaa was chasing
them, he didn’t look back while Hazrat Abu Bakar
was looking back again and again.
 That’s the attitude &calmness to be shown to
enemies.
 He(saw) gave him parchment of peace.
 That’s the carelessness to be shown.
 He gave him the clue of having bracelets of
KISRA.
 That’s the moral impact and makes you superior!

6.
Psychologically overwhelming
enemy:
 At Fatah Makkah, He (saw) marched with the army
of 10,000 Mujahideen. When they stayed, he (pbuh)
ordered his companions that every person will kindle
his own fire i.e. no collective meal will be cooked. So
when 10,000 people kindled their fire, the inhabitants
of Makkah were psychologically overwhelmed that
how large and great this army will be??
 So he used a communication technique which is now
named as “Parallel communication”

7.
Use of “Parallel Communication”:
 Series and Parallel communication are two ways of
conveying your message.
 Parallel one is more affective one.
 We Muslims have been using this technique since
fourteen hundred years ago.

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2). I am not afraid of my
femininity:
 I am always carefree and enjoy the protocol given by
my Prophet saw.
 I don’t have to worry about my clothes, my food, my
shelter, my conveyance.
 I enjoy care like flowers and all rights of honor ,of
education, of having property and every thing .
 I am not afraid of my femininity, my security is
responsibility of my dad, my brothers, my husband
my grand father and uncles.
I am secure and confident because my Prophet
gave me these rights.

9.
Prophet saw said:
“Ride slowly
Women sitting
inside are
Crystals..” (darimi)

10.
I am crystal , a delicate stone
 As related by Enes b. Malik: A sahabi named
Anjeshe was leading the camels that were carrying
the Prophet’s wives on the way back from the last
pilgrimage. He was making the camels run with
the rhythmic songs he sang with his beautiful
voice. The Prophet told him:
“O Anjeshe, ride slowly, do not break the
crystals” (Darimi, Istizan, 65).

11.
I can teach scholars wearing
hijab:
I Personally used to cover my face in my
college and yet was the most confident student
and debater.

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3.I am not beauty conscious
anymore:
 Related by Enes b. Malik: A bedouin named Zahir brought
presents from the desert to the Prophet. When he was leaving
the Prophet also gave him presents and told him:
“Zahir represents us living in the desert and we represent him
living in the city.”
Although he was physically a very ugly man, the Prophet loved
him dearly. While Zahir was shopping, the Prophet hid
himself behind him and asked“ Who am I?” Zahir recognized
him . Then the Prophet asked “Who is going to buy this slave?”
Zahir replied: “O Messenger of Allah, do you find me worthless
then?”
The Prophet replied: “Are not you a slave of Allah? You are very
worthy in Allah’s presence (Ahmed b. Hanbal, Tirmizi,
Kandahlavi, III, 1176).

13.
I am beautiest one in this world:
Verily we created Human in
The beautiest way.(surah Tin, verse 4)

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4. I’ve never been overwhelmed by
exams
 Whoever says this 7 times in the morning after
fajr, and 7 times after Asr, Allah will take care
of whatever worries him/her of the matter of this
world and the hereafter.[Sahih Muslim]

15.
I Know, My Allah’ll Not Leave Me
Alone
 Once I wasn’t prepared for my zoology test and that
test was important. In examination hall, I thought to
ask near by sitting fellow to help me in this test.
Same moment I remembered I’ve recited in morning:
“Allah is enough for me, there is no deity but him, in
Him I put my trust and He is the Lord of mighty
throne. (surah 9, verse 129).”
So I said my Lord is enough for me then why should I
worry about minute things like exams.. And that
test went well Alhmdulillah

16.
5.I’ve courage to stand with my
believes:
 He (saw)ascended the Mount, Safa one morning and called
out aloud: Ya sabahah (O, the calamity of the morning!).
There the people of all the clans of Quraish rushed out. When
the People had assembled, the Holy Messenger calling out each
clan by name, viz. O Bani Hashim, O Bani Abdul Muttalib,
O Bani Fihr, O Bani so and so, said: "If I were to tell you that
behind the hill there was an enemy host ready to fall upon
you, would you believe me?" The people responded with one
voice, saying that they never had so far experienced a lie from
him. The Holy Prophet said: "Then I warn you that you are
heading for a torment." Thereupon, before anyone else could
speak, Abu Lahab, the Holy Prophet's uncle, said: "May you
perish! Did you summon us for this?"Another tradition adds
that he picked up a stone to throw at the Holy Prophet.
(Musnad Ahmad, Bukhari, Muslim, Tirmidhi, Ibn Jarir, and
others).

17.
Points to be Noted:
 Have a good reputation, and refer to that. Don’t speak
about yourself instead let the audience say that you
are trustworthy.
 Don’t afraid they’ll believe in you or not, just speak
out.
 Holy prophet saw started with ”ya sbahah” which was
the Arab traditions at that time. So, follow the lawful ,
appealing and attracting native styles.
 Abu Lahab’s response was too harsh, but it didn’t
matter for him(saw). He continued his job.

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6.Proud to be conservative:
 He saw used parallel communication technique 1400
years ago.
 He gave us theory “student studies better when he
feels accepted by teachers and peers”.
“why zaid r.a refused to go with his dad and uncle”?
 He gave women property rights 1400 years ago while
“Married women property act in Europe was passed in
1870”.
 And I’ve many more facts on this topic, it’ll be
lengthy.

19.
Proud to be conservative:
Some other points:
 Hijab wearing.
 Polygamy.
Main label which we have to remove from our foreheads
is of terrorism? Just know what message really Holy
Prophet’s ahadith give.
Don’t be defensive,
Don’t be apologizing…
Just memorize following ahadith an facts;

20.
Am I Terrorist?
 Who started first world war?
 Who started second world war?
 Who killed about 20 million aborigines in
Australia?
 Who sent nuclear bombs to Hiroshima and
Nagasaki?
 Who killed more than 50 millions of Indians in
south America?
 Who took 180 millions of African people as slaves
and 88% of them died and were thrown in Atlantic
ocean?

21.
How peaceful he was?
 Before speaking the salaam should be said.
(Tirmizi)
 A muslim is he from whose tongue and hands a
Muslim is safe. (Bukhari and Muslim)
 Whoever remains quiet attains salvation. (Tirmizi)
 love for people what you love for yourself.
 “Do not kill any child, any woman, or any elder or
sick person.” (Sunan Abu Dawud).
 “Accustom yourselves to do good if people do good,
and to not do wrong even if they commit evil.” (Al-
Tirmidhi)

22.
How peaceful he (saw) was:
Religion is the
name of well-
wishing.
(Bukhari)

23.
How peaceful he was:
 Holy prophet saw said, Allah says:
“o my slaves, I’ve made barbarity haram on
myself. So don’t be barbarous among
yourselves.”
(sahi Muslim).

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