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Effective Leadership Through
Humble Inquiry
Presented by Eric Kaufman
Session Take-Away Messages
1. Leadership is not as much about
knowing the right answers as it is
knowing the right questions.
2. Humble Inquiry is the fine art of
drawing someone out and building
a relationship based on curiosity
and interest in the other person.
3. Powerful questions create
powerful thinking — the best
questions rattle around for
months, provoking thought.
LEADERSHIP & QUESTIONS
Turn the Ship Around!
“Like so many
times, my not
knowing the
answer ahead of
time helped me.”
– L. David Marquet
Wisdom of Crowds
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XKH5ITx6AAk
www.simonwestern.com To cite work: Western S. (2008) Leadership a Critical Text, Sage London
Shift from Individual Leaders
“We mistakenly
recognize power at the
center as strength and
power at the margins
as a structural
weakness when
neither is the case”
(Western, 2010, p. 44).
Overcoming Our Fears
“If we are able to lay aside our fears, even
momentarily, to consider the collective
alternative, we might not only see its value
but also its appropriateness for 21st-century
organization…. People have to be willing to
find their voice and contribute it to the
growth of the community.”
- Raelin (2017) “What are you afraid of: Collective leadership and its
learning implications.”
HUMBLE INQUIRY
Humble Inquiry
Ask, Listen, Focus
1. Ask respectful
questions
2. Listen attentively
3. Focus on the people
How you ask is critical!
Benefits of Vulnerability
Relationship to Leadership
“If your actions inspire others to
dream more, learn more, do more
and become more, you are a
leader.”
- John Quincy Adams
When have you pondered a
question that made you think or
change your perspective?
POWERFUL QUESTIONS
Asking the Right Questions
When have you asked a
question but ended
wishing you had asked
it differently?
Benefits of a Questioning Culture
• Powerful questions create powerful
thinking — the best questions rattle
around for months provoking
Facilitating Question Bursts
1. Set the stage.
2. Brainstorm the
questions.
3. Identify a quest—
and commit to it.
Principles for Better Questions
• Traditional, divergent-
thinking techniques can
help unlock new questions
and, ultimately, new
territory.
• Questions are most
productive when they are
open versus closed, short
versus long, and simple
versus complex.
• Descriptive questions best
precede speculative ones.
Principles for Better Questions
• Shifting from simple
questions to more complex
ones produces better
breakthrough thinking.
• Questions are annoying and
distracting when they don’t
spring from a deeply held
conviction about what the
group wants to achieve.
• Questions are toxic when
they are posed
aggressively.
Implications for You and Others?
Contact Me With Questions
Eric Kaufman
EKK@VT.Edu

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Effective Leadership Through Humble Inquiry

  • 1. Effective Leadership Through Humble Inquiry Presented by Eric Kaufman
  • 2. Session Take-Away Messages 1. Leadership is not as much about knowing the right answers as it is knowing the right questions. 2. Humble Inquiry is the fine art of drawing someone out and building a relationship based on curiosity and interest in the other person. 3. Powerful questions create powerful thinking — the best questions rattle around for months, provoking thought.
  • 4.
  • 5.
  • 6. Turn the Ship Around! “Like so many times, my not knowing the answer ahead of time helped me.” – L. David Marquet
  • 8. www.simonwestern.com To cite work: Western S. (2008) Leadership a Critical Text, Sage London
  • 9. Shift from Individual Leaders “We mistakenly recognize power at the center as strength and power at the margins as a structural weakness when neither is the case” (Western, 2010, p. 44).
  • 10. Overcoming Our Fears “If we are able to lay aside our fears, even momentarily, to consider the collective alternative, we might not only see its value but also its appropriateness for 21st-century organization…. People have to be willing to find their voice and contribute it to the growth of the community.” - Raelin (2017) “What are you afraid of: Collective leadership and its learning implications.”
  • 13. Ask, Listen, Focus 1. Ask respectful questions 2. Listen attentively 3. Focus on the people How you ask is critical!
  • 15. Relationship to Leadership “If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader.” - John Quincy Adams
  • 16. When have you pondered a question that made you think or change your perspective?
  • 18. Asking the Right Questions When have you asked a question but ended wishing you had asked it differently?
  • 19.
  • 20. Benefits of a Questioning Culture • Powerful questions create powerful thinking — the best questions rattle around for months provoking
  • 21. Facilitating Question Bursts 1. Set the stage. 2. Brainstorm the questions. 3. Identify a quest— and commit to it.
  • 22. Principles for Better Questions • Traditional, divergent- thinking techniques can help unlock new questions and, ultimately, new territory. • Questions are most productive when they are open versus closed, short versus long, and simple versus complex. • Descriptive questions best precede speculative ones.
  • 23. Principles for Better Questions • Shifting from simple questions to more complex ones produces better breakthrough thinking. • Questions are annoying and distracting when they don’t spring from a deeply held conviction about what the group wants to achieve. • Questions are toxic when they are posed aggressively.
  • 24. Implications for You and Others?
  • 25. Contact Me With Questions Eric Kaufman EKK@VT.Edu