Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching Dr. Martha Tara Lee shares everything you need to know about anal sex. People assume that lubricant is all you need for anal play when besides relaxation, progressive steps also help ease you into pleasure, for instance insert with something small like a finger or butt plug, then two finger (or something the equivalent in girth), then three finger (or similar) before inserting penis or big sex toy. Visit https://www.ErosCoaching.com to know more.