1. Love or Reality : Interdependence
Attachment?
Ignorance Wisdom
Mind (Care for the happiness of yourself only) (Care for the happiness of others)
Flow
Self-centered mind : Reason (Altruism) :
*Attachment *Compassion
*Arrogance *Warm-heart
*Greed…etc. *Gentleness…etc.
Attachment Love
Destructive emotion : Calm mind :
*Anger, Hatred *Peace of mind
Attachment *Jealousy *Friendship Love
*Fear, Sorrow…etc. *Cooperation…etc.
Attachment Love
Negative motivation Positive motivation
Negative karma Positive karma
Negative consequence Benefit
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2. 1. What is the purpose of your love?
For your happiness For your lover’s
only? happiness?
↓ ↓
Attachment Love &
Compassion
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3. 2. Which is your love, giving or taking?
If your love is for If your love is for
taking, giving,
↓ ↓
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Compassion
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4. 3. Does your love depend on your lover’s
attitude?
If your love If your love doesn’t
depends on your depend on your
lover’s attitude, lover’s attitude,
↓ ↓
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Compassion
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5. 4. Does your love change to anger
if your lover’s attitude changes ?
If your love If your love doesn’t
changes to anger change to anger in
due to your lover’s spite of your lover’s
negative attitude to negative attitude to
you, you,
↓ ↓
Attachment Love &
Compassion
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6. 5. Which is your love, broad-minded or
narrow-minded?
If your love is If your love is
narrow-minded, broad-minded,
↓ ↓
Attachment Love &
Compassion
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7. 6. Which is your love, short-sighted or
far-sighted?
If your love is If your love is far-
short-sighted, sighted,
↓ ↓
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Compassion
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8. 7. Which is your love, biased or unbiased?
If your love is If your love is
biased, unbiased,
↓ ↓
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Compassion
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9. 8. Which is your love, attached or detached?
If your love is If your love is
attached, detached,
↓ ↓
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Compassion
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10. 9. Which is your love, subjective or
objective?
If your love is If your love is
subjective, objective,
↓ ↓
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Compassion
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11. 10. Which is your love based on,
self-centered mind or altruistic mind?
If your love is If your love is
based on self- based on altruistic
centered mind mind (compassion,
(attachment, greed, warm-heart,
arrogance…etc.), gentleness…etc.),
↓ ↓
Attachment Love &
Compassion
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12. 11. Do you have self-confidence &
inner strength?
If you don’t have If you have self-
self-confidence & confidence & inner
inner strength, strength,
↓ ↓
Attachment Love &
Compassion
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13. 12. Do you have suspicion & distrust to
your lover?
If you have If you have no
suspicion & suspicion &
distrust to your distrust to your
lover, lover,
↓ ↓
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Compassion
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14. 13. Do you speak honestly, truthfully and
transparently to your lover?
If you don’t speak If you speak
honestly, truthfully honestly, truthfully
and transparently and transparently
to your lover, to your lover,
↓ ↓
Attachment Love &
Compassion
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15. 14. Does your lover trust you?
If your lover If your lover trusts
doesn’t trust you, you,
↓ ↓
Attachment Love &
Compassion
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16. 15. Which mental state do you have,
calm mind or destructive emotion?
If you have If you have calm
destructive emotion, mind,
↓ ↓
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Compassion
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17. 16. Which view do you have, holistic view
or mental projection?
If you have mental If you have holistic
projection, view,
↓ ↓
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Compassion
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18. 17. Which is your motivation,
positive or negative?
If your motivation If your motivation
is negative, is positive,
↓ ↓
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Compassion
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19. 18. Which feeling do you have,
happiness or suffering?
If you have If you have
suffering, happiness,
↓ ↓
Attachment Love &
Compassion
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20. How to transform your Attachment
to Love & Compassion
Conviction of the ultimate reality of
‘Interdependence’
Practice of ‘Compassion’
[Compassion : Reason : Universal Moral Ethics] :
Compassion, Warm-heart, Gentleness, Kindness, Care, Sincerity,
Honesty, Self-confidence, Trust, Respect, Appreciation, Modesty,
Self-discipline, Patience, Tolerance, Forgiveness, Sympathy, Empathy,
Generosity, Non-violence…etc.
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21. P r a c t i c e ‘ C o m p a s s i o n ’
Action
For your meaningful, Speech
healthy & happy life
Karma
Body
Thought (Motivation)
Instinct & Emotion [Transformed]
Reason (Compassion)
Mind
Emotion
Instinct
Human Spirit
Structure
Smile
Controller
2011.11.28
2012/1/23 Hitoshi Tsuchiyama
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