Useful research findings you can apply

1. Psycho Facts
 As hard as it may be, establish eye contact with everyone you
meet. It’s one of the best ways to make people take you
seriously.
 People feel more connectedto you not by how much they know
about you but instead from how much they think you know
about them.
 The women who find it difficultto make friends easilyare
believedto have a higher IQ level.
 People who constantlysuffer from emotional wounds tend to
easilyget annoyedwith others for no apparent reason.

2.  Sometimes the people who don’t talk to you are the ones who
reallywant to.
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 You are not as nice as you think you are, as studies in psychology
have suggested that we tend to overestimate ourselves!
 When you fall in love with someone you aren’t interested in
anyoneelse, if you are, you aren’tin love.
 Every time you resist acting on your anger, you are actually
rewiringyour brain to be calmer and more loving.
 What you feel about others, they feel the same about
you. Reason behindthis fact- our feelings create an energyand
through vibrations we send this energyto them which create the
same feeling in their heartfor us.
 Shopping improves your self-esteemand opens your mind to
other choices and points of view.
 Wait 4-6 months before becoming too attached, it’s generally
in this time that a person’s true motives are revealed.
 You don’t reallyneed someone to complete you. You only
need someone to accept you completely.
 Lonely people take longer, hotter showers or baths to replace
the warmth they are lackingsociallyor emotionally.
 When a female is used to getting hurt, she won’t know how it
feels when a man starts to appreciate her, so she ends up
pushinghim completely.
 Women who frequentlyover-thinktend to be more generous
and affectionate to their significantother and close friends.
 If you want someone to listen to you, start the conversation with
“I shouldn’t be tellingyou this.”
 What we wear affects how we behave. Dressingup well and
wearingbrightcolors increases your self-confidence.
 A big part of emotional intelligence is being able to feel an
emotion without havingto act on it.
 If you avoid the conflict to keep the peace, you start a war
inside yourself.

3.  If someone nods their heads excessivelyduringa conversation
it means they have lost interest but don’t wish to be rude by
tellingthis to you.
 Smile before answeringthe phone. It will make you sound
happier and improve the qualityof your conversation.
 When you truly care for someone, their mood can literally
affect yours.
 Individuals who feel chills from music have more openness to
experience.
 You can tell how dangerous a person is by the way they hold
their anger inside themselves quietly.
 When people feel physically cold, they seek out
psychological warmth, like watching a romantic movie that
will make them feel warm inside.
 People with anxietyperceive the worlddifferently- their brain
lumps both safe and unsafe things together and labels them all
unsafe.
 When someone makes eye contact with you a lot, its a sign
that they want you or are comfortable with you.
 If you are feeling loneliness, insecurityor despair, one solution
is to look at yourself more. You can start by looking into your
mirror.
------------------------------------------------------Jayadeva deSilva
HumantalentsInternational