Cardiff University Healthy Ageing Conference & Public Lecture
The importance of a healthy lifestyle
A Conference and a Public Lecture
Thursday 30th October 2014
http://medicine.cardiff.ac.uk/event/healthy-ageing-conference-public-lecture/
8. “Its not that easy” Competence
“I’d prefer to make up my own mind ” Autonomy
9. “Its not that easy” Competence
“I’d prefer to make up my own mind ” Autonomy
“Who are you to tell me what to do?” Relatedness
10. “Its not that easy” Competence
“I’d prefer to make up my own mind” Autonomy
“Who are you to tell me what to do?” Relatedness
3 core needs – Self-determination theory (Deci & Ryan)
11. 1. Motivation is not black or white
2. Ambivalence is common and normal
3. Change more like if peoples’ needs are met (autonomy,
competence & relatedness)
12. 1. Motivation is not black or white
2. Ambivalence is common and normal
3. Change more like if peoples’ needs are met (autonomy,
competence & relatedness)
4. People don’t like being told what to do
13. People are generally better persuaded by the reasons
which they have themselves discovered, than by those
which have come into the mind of others.”
Blaise Pascal, Pensées, (1670)
14. “After all, when you seek advice from someone it’s certainly
not because you want them to give it. You just want them to be
there while you talk to yourself”
Terry Pratchett
15. Today I met with a boy who is at serious risk of exclusion from
school. Essentially he is sick and tired of being told what to do
and how to do it.
I practiced the skills I learnt from our workshop and he came up
with two sheets of flip chart papers on next steps for change! He
said he felt listened to and inspired to take the next steps. Bravo
young man.
A.W., school teacher, large comprehensive school
16. 1. Motivation is not black or white
2. Ambivalence is common and normal
3. Change more likely if peoples’ needs are met
(autonomy, competence & relatedness)
4. We don’t like being told what to do
5. We have dreams and strengths, and are not just
patients with lists of problems and pathologies
17. Direct - Guide - Follow
teach draw out listen
instruct encourage understand
lead motivate go along with
COMMUNICATION STYLES
18. Direct - Guide - Follow
teach draw out listen
instruct encourage understand
lead motivate go along with
”… I plant both feet firmly in the guiding style,
and move either side as necessary…”
COMMUNICATION STYLES
19. A guide to guiding
1. Engage first
2. Offer choices
3. Encourage them to take action
23. 1. Engage first
“We speak to community workers and young people…
we do not have a pre-determined plan”
2. Offer choice
“Whatever you like -football, netball, dodgeball or
dance with your friends, and feel free to change your mind”
3. Encourage them to take action
“If we wait for the perfect plan it wont happen.
Communities need to see action, so why not start tonight?”
Caro Wild, Manager Streetgames Wales
24. Inspiration Day about MI
Stephen Rollnick, Professor of Healthcare
Communication
Cardiff University,
WALES, UK.