1. Two Wolves Praying Winning
Together
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Volume: 1 - Issue: July - August 2012
The Mindfood Chef Dear Associate
By doing well the duty which is nearest Namaskar - Greetings!!!
to us, the duty
which is in I have been always in love with my interaction with people. My people. The people who were
our hands strangers before I smiled or wished them hello. Now they are my people. More I expand this
now, we make “MY” more I learn and develop. I am more responsible as my “MY” is increasing and spreading.
ourselves I am more secure and less fearsome as count increases on daily basis, many times hourly.
stronger; and
improving And this is the teaching of great thinkers and This is a first interaction and I am coming
our strength teachers also. directly to you. I believe that a great human
in this being in you will forgive me for coming like
manner step This ‘Gunashrayamz’ is a result of this love this without permission. This newsletter, this
by step, we only. Another way to interact with more peo- month is a request for permission to meet you
may reach a ple, reaching more people, sharing with more monthly and have faith that your kind heart is
state in which people and learning more, collectively. MY is allowing me do so, if otherwise, please com-
it shall be our privilege to do the most growing with it. municate.
coveted and honored duties in life and
in society. Gunashrayamz is a promise to value your time The interaction under this newsletter shall be
Swami Vivekanand and strive to take the focus on the basics of meaningful only with your love and blessings
life and growth. Gunashrayamz is carrying in the form of guidance and feedback.
the work - life balance. This serves you mind-
food for developing at all fronts viz. family, re- We are beginning now:
lation, peace, relaxation, growth, enthusiasm,
evolution and a sense of achievement. ....Business of the life is, is to stay happy...
There would be grudges or guilt
The name of this letter Gunashrayamz is a Let gratitude, forgiveness and
Sanskrit word that means to take shelter un- Embracing every-time a permanent nappy
der the virtues. The Z in end represents zeal,
the passion. This way this Gunashrayamz is
representing the shelter under virtues with Communication is the way to live and die
passion. To see and show, the truth and lie
Nothing is stopping, you bind to move
Seven social sins: politics without Gunashrayamz represents my learning, expe- Growth is happening, you have to groove
principles, wealth without work, riences and understanding from the teach- Assertive is the way, nothing can be yappy
pleasurewithoutconscience,knowledge ings of many great mentors and interactions ....Business of the life is, is to stay happy...
without character, commerce without at different stages of life. This represents acts
morality, science without humanity, of kindness and favour of good many people With warm regards
and worship without sacrifice. on me and my gratitude towards them all. Manish Kumar Aggarwal
The Mindfood Chef
Mahatma Gandhi
...As nature creates the environment to fruition every plant so as a mentor creates the environ-
ment of mind to fruition every act...The Mindfood Chef...
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2. Gunashrayamz FOR INTERNAL CIRCULATION ONLY
Entrepreneurship
Every year thousands of people start their business but only a few 8. A decision to be successful, making own ways though not
could survive by the end of year. I meet the successful people and reinventing wheel.
those also who surrendered in between. Meeting all the people, 9. A decision to raise the bar of perfection with continuous
I found that both have worked hard, all have done whatever is improvement.
needed to run a good business. 10. A decision to value the time, choosing right priorities.
11. A decision to build relations and dealing human first.
Both the sides have the same market, same challenges, and 12. A decision to be good ears. The ears which are open to all,
possessing good knowledge. They all worked hard, similar either to self or to others.
working works, though the non survivors have more working 13. A decision to think possibilities only.
hours. Than what is lacking between the two. In some cases the
good investment and family support was not good enough to
taste the success.
I read many books, study many great successful people and found
a golden rule, the mantra of success. The golden rule as a road
map to success. The compass to correct the direction, always. I
found that “Entrepreneurship is a decision.” Entrepreneurship is
about visualizing a clear success. The clarity on the image of a
beautiful tomorrow. A decision to creating it. The decision to act
for it.
I learn what the achievers decided. A decision, though looking
simple but was carrying the seeds of prosperity and growth. The
way to work. The constitution, the correcting measure. Some
words with confidence and passion. Words for taking onus, the
responsibility for everything. The words are, “This is my decision
or I have decided this”
The decision was consist of following promises. The promise 14. A decision to take in time actions.
saying that I have taken: 15. A decision to be an initiator always. Counting my actions.
16. A decision to communicate understanding.
1. A decision of self discipline, to be accountable for my every 17. A decision to understand the two Golden rules of nature,
action. “What you saw that you reap” and “There is a time between
2. A decision to not to stop until I reach the destination sawing and reaping.”
3. A decision of doing right things. 18. A decision to be a source, to be resourceful. A source of
4. A decision for creating new opportunity for people to work. happiness, love, gratitude, forgiveness, appreciation and
5. A decision of understanding the needs of people and encouragement. A source of being a solution always.
providing in time solutions for the same.
6. A decision of being leader, creating ripple effects. Where a decision carries these strengths, the success is a
7. A decision of thinking new and innovative ideas. guarantee. The success is winning, winning together.
Two Wolves
One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes
on inside people.
He said, “My son, the battle is between two “Wolves” inside us all.
One is Evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-
pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false, pride, superiority, and ego.
The other is Good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness,
benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith.”
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his
grandfather:
“Which wolf wins?”
The old Cherokee simply replied, “The one you feed.”

3. Gunashrayamz FOR INTERNAL CIRCULATION ONLY
Praying Winning Together
In the journey of success and reaching are people who haven’t supported you,
mile stones of achievements, many people on your expectation, to make you vigil
contribute. While sitting in my prayer, about your strengths. Count them my
talking to my God, I requested Him to bless son.”
all those people with happiness, peace,
relations and with a lot may things in The name of all those people can be
addition to the source to live. counted on fingers. The count was very
less than of first category. I realized
He asked me to name all the people. I that many of my achievements are only
named my family, my friends, my teachers, due to them.
my neighbours, my colleagues. Than when
I searched something deep, I requested The lesson I got from my prayer:
Him to bless those also whom I missed. He
told me to be specific. I requested him for 1. The people who helped me are
my transport, my vendors, my customer, the rickshaw pullers, numerous as of those who have not.
service providers at my hotel stays and a lot many. 2. The people of second category were of much greater
importance in many of my achievements.
He asked me, “is it over or still remaining with some people?’ 3. The realization of, what I felt is my achievement, does always
owes to many people.
I replied, “I feel I am complete.” 4. The same responsibility I always carry for others, although to
be in first category.
He whispered in my ears, “You missed those, who provoked you
to do something beyond the bars, the people who had hurt you I prayed for the blessing for all the above people. This is praying
deep, deep inside your self esteem, to make you stand high. There for winning together. This is wining together.
Be always there...
Though we read and repeat about it, but miss to give due clothes and faces. The art on their hands. Their innocent and
importance to very little - little things. It may, to carry children to naughty smile. It takes me back to my childhood.
their school bus, to receive them on their return, to attend their They show me their bags and working at school. The remarks on
parent teacher meeting or school function etc. Returning back their notebooks. I got the chance to understand them and correct
to home after the pressure day work, rarely allow to attend the it whenever I feel it necessary.
children regularly. Ask them to share their day or school with
you. I respond them, first I listen properly and than I reply them
complete. I am getting myself in, into their life. They have started
Once it was a Sunday and I have decided to attend a function of my feeling their importance in my life. They are making my feelings
younger daughter. I have promised her as she was in preparatory important for them.
school and a participant in three programs.
Their morning starts by hugging me, kissing me on my forehead
When she was stepping up on the stage, her eyes were searching with the morning wish. Their day end and sound sleep require my
us all the way. After finding us, her smile and arm to put on their head upon or my presence
confidence poured me with tears of joy. My with my hands in their hairs.
joy was accompanied with a feeling of guilt
for not attending the previous functions of my I can earn more money than I need or expect
children. but can’t get the childhood of my children again.
It was the first time I have understood her My childhood in them again. Rightly said, “Any
school, teachers and their vision. success outside cannot compensate the failure
at home.”
From that day onwards I understand that “Be
there always” when their eyes are looking for My stress doesn’t require any management
you. When they are searching for your ears to now. To be very honest, it vanishes just with the
share their feeling with you. feeling of their presence. I never miss my goal
now. I know for what I am working for.
Now I try to take them to school bus. On
weekend I propose myself to wait for their bus. I am winning, winning together.
The way the lift their bags, the dust on their
…Parenting is not only about growing a child but to live a beautiful life again, making a life complete…
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